Ten years ago, Jiangsu Satellite TV launched a variety show "Do Not Disturb" throughout the country, and the host of the program, Meng Fei, became a household name by virtue of this.
In one episode of the show, after the male guest introduced himself, he looked at the girl in front of him with a deep face and sincerely confessed, "Would you like to ride a bicycle with me to go shopping?" ”
Immediately, the girl showed a contemptuous look on her face, because the male guest who confessed to her was an unemployed vagabond, so she jokingly replied: "Then I will sit in the BMW and cry." ”
I'd rather sit in a BMW and cry than sit on a bike and laugh. This classic dialogue caused an uproar on the Internet and reality in an instant, causing a great impact, and looking at this sentence many years later, some even think that it has influenced the values of a generation.
The girl who would rather sit in a BMW and cry has since been labeled as a "gold worshipper" and has suffered a lot of discussion and insults for ten years.
This girl is Mano, and now ten years later, is she actually in a BMW? What happened to her?
Mano, born in Beijing in 1988, has rarely been home since he was a child, and his mother basically does not care about her, so Mano has been very lacking in emotions, and he has longed for his future boyfriend to become his dependence since he was a child.
Although the feelings that Mano yearns for are very beautiful, in reality, Mano's emotional experience is extremely bumpy. In junior high school, Mano, who had just entered the teenage period, fell in love, and I don't know whether it was because he was too young or because of his first love, Mano was very engaged, and he trusted his boyfriend very much, because the boyfriend said to Mano that when they grew up, the two of them would get married.
But what Mano did not expect was that after graduating from junior high school, the two entered different high schools, and soon after separating, the boyfriend immediately made a new girlfriend, and what is even more outrageous is that the boyfriend came back to find Mano after the breakup, and Mano even forgave him, but soon after, the man betrayed Mano again.
Years later, when Mano was asked by the media about this relationship experience, Mano bluntly said that he now feels very disgusting.
The first relationship was frustrated, Mano was not discouraged, she made up her mind to find a mature boyfriend, but surprisingly, Mano was looking for a second boyfriend who was six years older than Mano, and at that time Mano was still studying, and this boyfriend was already working.
This boyfriend also disappointed Mano, after determining the relationship, the man quit his job, and all the expenses in life were maintained by Mano, typically eating soft rice.
So it didn't take long for Mano's second relationship to end. It may be these two dog-blooded emotional experiences that Will Mano say that he would rather cry in the BMW after that.
Not only was he emotionally frustrated, but mano was also struggling in his career. Mano graduated from the Beijing Institute of Contemporary Music and became a flat model after graduation, earning little money, not even a place to live, and had to stay in his cousin's house.
Once, after Mano left work, he suddenly found that all his luggage was in front of his cousin's house, and Mano knew that he was driving her out. Although Mano was very aggrieved, he could only leave with his own luggage and find another place to live.
We can see that Mano's early experience was very difficult, and Mano also hoped that he could have a mature and golden boyfriend to become his dependence.
So I participated in "Do Not Disturb" soon after, on the one hand, hoping to increase my popularity, on the other hand, I also hope to find my ideal boyfriend here.
From the beginning of the first program, Mano has been very poisonous, and when he encounters male guests who are not outstanding, he will make sarcastic remarks about the ugliness of others, and when he encounters male guests whose family conditions are not rich, he is even more vicious.
Therefore, Mano is not pleasing on the show, but still with a good look, there are always male guests who want to hold hands with her.
In the fourth episode of "Do Not Disturb", a male guest has no job, just loves to ride, but he wants to hold hands with Mano, so the classic dialogue at the beginning occurs.
This sentence "I would rather sit on a BMW and cry" instantly pushed Mano to the cusp of public opinion, some people think that Mano just boldly said most people's ideas, which is understandable, but more people think that Mano is a "gold worshipper", misleading people's values, hoping that she will disappear from the show.
Once, a male guest even told Mano that he thought that according to Mano's conditions, he should not come to "Do Not Disturb", but should go to the beauty contest, so that Mano could get on the BMW, and if he was lucky, it was not impossible to sit on the Porsche.
But ironically, the male guest who ended up holding hands with Mano was not a rich man, but also an ordinary person, and could not afford to buy a BMW, and even divorced.
After the success of holding hands, Mano withdrew from "Do Not Disturb", but according to media reports, Mano did not become a real lover with the male guest in real life, and the two parted ways within a few days together.
Although Mano disappeared from "Do Not Disturb", the impact of that sentence on Mano's life is far more than that, and Mano's story has just begun.
In that year, the issue of "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" that Mano said the golden sentence set a record for the ratings since its inception, and even to a certain extent, "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" could later become extremely popular, and Mano also had an inseparable relationship.
Mano also gained a large amount of traffic because of this, after quitting the show, there were media and entertainment companies to find Mano, Mano immediately realized that he could rely on traffic to cash out.
So, after gaining a wave of heat, Mano naturally entered the entertainment circle, and Mano's ambition changed from finding a boyfriend who let him sit in a BMW car to buying a BMW car himself.
Mano, who had just entered the entertainment industry, starred in the movies "Little Girl" and "BMW Rhapsody", and at the same time, they also released two personal records, which gained a small wave of popularity.
After people know that Mano entered the entertainment circle, the attacks and malicious comments on Mano instantly increased, some people even maliciously harassed Mano, always someone texted her personally, and even the so-called rich people wanted Mano to make a price.
At first, Mano was dismissive of these remarks and harassment, and even sneered, Mano deliberately built a photo album, every time someone harassed her, she would give screenshots of chat records, and then put the screenshots in the album, and also open the album to the outside world.
But the more people criticize Mano, on the other hand, it also means that Mano has gained more traffic, and the more entertainment companies and film and television companies want to use Mano's popularity to cash out.
So there is a strange phenomenon, the more people attack Mano, the smoother Mano's career will be, and the higher his fame will be.
As a result, Mano later participated in variety shows held by major television stations, and even took pride in his fame experience on some programs.
In addition to participating in variety shows, Mano has also starred in many movies, and even cooperated with stars such as Chen Xiaochun, Yang Qianwei, Yu Wenle and other stars to make movies.
Suddenly, Mano lived a smooth life, earned a lot of money and no longer had to rely on others, she herself had the ability to let herself sit in the BMW, and she sat on the BMW and laughed.
But the good times were short-lived, and Mano's fame experience doomed her to stay in the entertainment industry for a long time. Mano originally participated in the filming of "Chunjiao and Zhiming", but due to the increasing public opposition to Mano, the crew of "Chunjiao and Zhiming" had to delete all of Mano's scenes.
And this is just the beginning, soon after, Mano's film and television works have been deleted from Mano's scenes, and even some works have been directly removed, and for a period of time, there were even rumors that Mano was banned by the whole network.
At this time, Mano began to take the public opinion on the Internet to heart, she first apologized to the public through Weibo for the inappropriate remarks of the year, but the majority of netizens did not appreciate it, and the condemnation of Mano did not increase but decreased.
Because in people's eyes, Mano has made a lot of money over the years, and since then he has no worries about food and clothing, and at this time, if he wants to save his reputation through an apology, the public cannot accept it no matter what.
Therefore, almost overnight, Mano fell from a momentary scenery to the bottom of his career, and the label of "gold worshipper" on his body seemed to follow Mano for a lifetime.
As a result, Mano reluctantly quit the entertainment circle and returned to his normal life, with his former savings, he lived a good life.
But people's attacks on Mano did not subside because Ofo quit the entertainment industry, and Mano still often received harassing text messages, which caused great inconvenience to Mano's life and work. In desperation, Mano sent a so-called clarification microblog.
Mano said on that Weibo that he did not want to say the words "I would rather sit on a BMW and cry than sit on a bicycle and laugh."
All of this is the arrangement of the "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" program group, when the program team gave her a script, the characters and lines on the program were designed in advance by the program team, and she only had to do it according to the arrangement of the program group because of her work.
Moreover, the fact is not what the audience sees, and the program team deliberately guides the audience to regard Mano as a gold worshipper through a large number of malicious edits in the later stages.
All in all, what Mano wants to say is a sentence, which the program team let me perform for the effect of the program, that sentence is just a pre-designed line, I only do it for work, for livelihood, and Mano said that he is a tool person who is being used, feels that he is very miserable, and hopes that people will stop attacking her.
Because Mano has already quit the entertainment circle, and this time also said the origin of the matter, many netizens chose to forgive Mano, but still many netizens questioned Mano, why did not tell the inside information when he cashed out, he made a lot of money, and then issued this so-called clarification Microblog.
Although, before this, people have been clear that "Do Not Disturb" has a script, many of the guests and actors on it are actors, and many of the radical remarks are specially arranged lines by the program team in order to stimulate ratings.
But people still can't accept Mano's face at that time, and as an adult, Mano is also very aware of the criticism and heavy consequences that will be brought by his words.
After so many years, "gold worshipper" has become a stereotype of Mano, and every time Mano is mentioned, the first thing that people think of is the golden sentence she once said.
Now 33 years old and still single, Mano is now in love with painting and often attends various exhibitions.
In addition, she also enjoys traveling and has left her footprints in Boston, Las Vegas, Seoul, Hollywood and other places.
Mano also often shares his daily life on Weibo, although there will still be a few malicious satirical comments in the comment area, but overall, Mano's life today is very colorful and colorful.
From the initial hardships of life, to the overnight popularity, forced to quit the entertainment industry, to today's petty bourgeois life, although Mano is still carrying the label of "gold worshipper" to this day, I have to admit that Mano does live the life she once yearned for.
At the beginning, the controversial sentence "I would rather sit on a BMW and cry than sit on a bicycle and laugh" was deliberately done by the program team or Mano's heartfelt words, we already do not know.
To this day, the popular "Do Not Disturb" has been stopped, Mano's story has ended, and people still inadvertently mention Mano's name and argue about that sentence.