Text/Jiang Wanyu
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In The Reader, a young girl was invited to guard the red-crowned crane habitat for three generations, and her father and aunt died unexpectedly.
In my aunt's diary, I wrote a stubborn sentence:
"I can give up everything I deserve, even give up my life, but I don't believe that women can't make a career." 」
Unexpectedly, it turned into a slur. Although the deceased people are gone, the same spirit will not be lost, as long as enough sweat and hard work is paid, why can't a woman do a career?
Dong Qing, who was standing on the stage, was in tears because of the family guarding the red-crowned crane, and I think that among them, there was also a sympathy for the girl's aunt. Dong Qing, also a person who dedicates everything for the cause, can finally stand in this place.
Looking at Dong Qing's work experience, you will find that since she entered CCTV, it is like a dragon entering the sea and flying thousands of miles. Her Bole is always a lot, not only the predecessors are heavy, but the leaders also like to carry. For this reason, I don't know how many malicious speculations have been circulating in dark corners.
Rumors about "The Man Behind Dong Qing" are not known how many versions have been circulated, and how many porters of rumors have recocted them vividly to meet the voyeuristic psychology of onlookers. Those who can't do so well always seem to be reluctant to face up to the efforts of others, preferring to believe that the other person's success is a shortcut and unreasonable.
Acknowledging the excellence of others is sometimes difficult. Especially for a famous, beautiful, and seemingly story-telling woman, it is even more difficult to admit that her success depends on herself.
But the brilliance of Dong Qing's stage really comes from his own efforts.
Some people question whether relying only on their own efforts is enough to let a host who has just entered CCTV not long be liked by the leader and be given a green light all the way? However, the doubters only saw Dong Qing's luck, but did not know why she could get the favor of the leader.
Dong Qing was reused from the 2004 Youth Song Contest. This year, Dong Qing served as the host, and the task of hosting the program of the Qingge Song Contest was very heavy, because this program was a live broadcast, and there was no room for recovery and recurrence of mistakes. Moreover, the schedule of the Qingge Competition is very dense, and for more than 20 consecutive days, Dong Qing will host nearly 30 games.
In those days, Dong Qing was under tremendous pressure and workload burden, but she carried it all. Every day at four o'clock in the afternoon, she needs to do a rehearsal, start the live broadcast around seven o'clock, and finish at ten o'clock.
Take off the solemn dress on the body, Dong Qing changed into his usual clothes and had to go to the conference center, and a teacher sorted out and checked the exam questions the next day with Dong Qing, and he had to ensure that he was familiar with the questions, and the next day he could string up the scene and say good lines.
When I got home, it was almost dawn, but Dong Qing still couldn't rest. The afternoon rehearsal had to keep her lines skilled, so she always had to memorize the lines until dawn before she had a chance to sleep for a while.
For a whole month, in addition to the mental pressure, she also had a physical burden, almost living with american jet lag. If it were someone else, she would have to complain a little, but Dong Qing was very happy, because every time she stood on the stage and hosted a good show, she had a special sense of accomplishment.
She felt the satisfaction of sweat and dedication, and she loved the job even more. If you are a leader and a boss, and you see such a motivated and capable junior, do you also have to pay attention to it? Therefore, Dong Qing has come to this day with strength, which is beyond doubt.
Don't be afraid to pay, how much sweat you pay, how much praise you can stand. The achievements obtained after hard work and the results obtained because of the help of others give us a different feeling, if your achievements all come from yourself, then hearing every word of praise from others, you will feel happy in your eyes, and you will feel that your back is straight and your head is raised, because this is what you deserve. If you rely on others, even if you get results that do not belong to you, you will always feel worried and uneasy in your heart, as long as you have a moral bottom line, you can't calmly meet the appreciation you get.
Instead of bearing psychological pressure, it is better to make yourself worthy of the name, to silence all those who do not obey with real strength, and to really win recognition for yourself.
To do this, you don't have to make the efforts that are superficial. One minute on stage is the accumulation of ten years offstage, this sentence is not exaggerated at all, dong Qing is not also in the hosting circle for ten years, before gradually emerging? I once heard the saying that "if you want to be noble before others, you will be guilty after others", although the words are rough, but the reason is not rough, there is no lunch in vain, there is no success and luck for no reason, the more ordinary, the more you have to use sweat to win fairness, no one is an exception.
There is an elder in my family who works in the provincial Peking Opera Troupe. People who met her said that she was so lucky, more than 50 years old, but looking at the fine skin and tender flesh did not look old at all, with the unique charm and temperament of the artist between her hands and feet. At work, she is the inheritor of successful Peking Opera art, the mainstay of the troupe, and in life, she is the mother of an excellent daughter and the wife of a successful husband. In the eyes of outsiders, this is simply a perfect life, and how lucky it takes to cultivate this blessing in this life.
However, those who really know it know that she has today all rely on her own hard work. When she was young, she studied Peking Opera, but no one in her family understood art, so she left her hometown at a young age and has been studying with her master outside, and has suffered a lot. When she grew up, there was a lot of pressure to compete in the troupe, and she couldn't even take care of her own family, so her relationship with her husband broke down and she eventually divorced. In the most difficult time, she had to rush to the scene to sing, while raising her daughter alone, and the little girl often fell asleep in the background and was carried home late at night by her mother.
Grit your teeth and persevere, and you have the luck you have now. She eventually met someone who really suited and appreciated herself, and decades of persistent practice and opportunities to improve herself also allowed her to achieve some success in her career. But who can say that everything today is made by luck? In my opinion, her life has been much harder than others, but it is because she has worked hard enough that she has everything today.
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Maybe there aren't many fair things in this world, but effort must be fair. One point of hard work will be rewarded, and even if it is not given back to you in the present, it will be revealed one day in the future. We have no way to rely on those illusory things to control our future, we can only rely on our own efforts, and only what we pay is the most practical.
To get to the most glorious place on the stage, you need to rely on yourself, step by step.