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There is a spirit called Frida

author:Tropical

Many people, in their entire lives, do not have the opportunity to experience the real sense of suffering, they regard the trivialities in life as the greatest pain in life, and after venting their emotions, they think that they have been reborn and are a strong person. It is true that for confusion, contradiction and pain, the people who can bear it are strong and brave people, however, Frida, this woman, the suffering she has encountered is extraordinary, and the unusualness is not in how painful the suffering she has encountered is, but in the fact that she never forgets to create, to be independent, to maintain herself, or that everything she has is by nature, creation is her ability, independence and self is her innate understanding of life.

Frida has a crippled, even very incomplete body, but she has the strongest will in the world, she is a complete person. A complete person should accept with complete will the incompleteness of life, the suffering brought about by fate, and the confusion brought about by life. Like Frida, in the contradictions of the world, she still insists on expressing herself, creating her own life course, her own world, and announcing the Frida spirit to the world.

Frida was born in 1907 as an ordinary Mexican City girl and began Frida's life. At the age of 6, Frida suffered from polio, which caused her right leg to be obviously thin, but she still smiled and played every day, like all ordinary girls, smart, active, lively, rebellious, in love, mingling with boys in a school that was almost full of boys, and also going off the usual path in the family, while everyone was dressed up and waiting for a picture, Frida dressed as a boy, and behaved in the opposite way from her sister, the sister was gentle and well-behaved, Frida was uninhibited and indulgent, but in such a family, they were still very happy.

Until the age of 18, after the age of 18, Frida suffered two major disasters in her life, a car accident and Diego (Frida's own account), and since then life has begun another mode of life, Frida life mode.

On a seemingly ordinary afternoon, Frida and her boyfriend were shuttling through the crowd of people in the street after class, playing with the bus, and was about to miss the bus, but Frida decided to take the bus, so the two frantically chased the bus and got on the bus at the moment when it was about to leave. It was as if it was all for Frida. Not far after the bus left, an oncoming tram hit it.

After a muffled thud, Frida lay in the chaotic and bad scene, bleeding all over her body, metal rods piercing her body from her abdomen and through her vagina on the left side. The terrible car accident resulted in a rupture of Frida's spine, collarbone and two ribs, three fractures of the pelvis, eleven fractures of her right foot, and a crushing fracture of the entire sole, and doctors doubted whether she would survive, but Frida miraculously woke up after two weeks of coma, and a month later, Frida was wrapped in a heavy plaster cast and had to lie flat on the bed. In order to pass the time of boredom, Frida began to create, relying on a mirror, a special easel, Frida painted a real painting of her own, "Self-Portrait", and began her painting journey, without stopping. During this period, Frida's boyfriend also went abroad to study, far away from Frida. The sadness brought about by the departure of her boyfriend, the despair brought about by the inability to move her body, the pressure brought about by family difficulties, all of these difficulties can not confuse Frida, hit, she always believes and plans to one day be able to support herself and be a strong and independent woman.

As long as you don't give up, as long as you still have a heart that loves life in a difficult situation, and don't stop creating life, then life will have miracles. Frida felt with her heart and created with her hands during the time when she could not walk, painting portraits of everyone in the family and painting the inner world. Sure enough, a miracle struck. After a few months, Frida regained the ability to walk.

After paying Frida's expensive medical expenses and treatment costs, the family was in financial difficulties, and Frida had to give up her studies. Considering the family environment, Frida wanted to share the burden for the family, so she made a bold move, taking her own work and going to find Diego, who painted murals in the corridors of the Ministry of Education. At that time, Diego was also a well-known muralist. Frida, on crutches, shouted Diego's name downstairs, Diego was only a student's game, only perfunctory, but when he saw Frida's "Self-Portrait", he changed his attitude, he knew that in front of him was not an ordinary woman, but a woman with a talent for painting and a passion for painting, so he personally went to Frida's house to give Frida encouragement and give Frida an answer that she had always wanted: she should continue to paint.

After that, the two people got along as friends, attended friends' parties together, attended political rallies together, both were superstitious about communism, like-minded, Frida always showed great bravery, especially for what she liked, Frida pursued at any cost, a small temptation for the woman she liked, she was willing to drink half a bottle of wine, just to dance with her, which deeply attracted Diego. It wasn't long before Diego proposed to Frida, and the two began a marriage of mutual torment and mutual love.

Frida, like all women in her marriage, is strong and selfish, on the morning of her new marriage, in the face of breakfast brought by her ex-wife, she expresses anger, acts crazy, throws everything into the trash can, and forcefully expresses to her ex-wife to let her leave her house, at that time, Frida is also an honest and tolerant woman, after arguing with her ex-wife and learning to cook from her, the two discuss Diego peacefully, Frida is curious about everything about Diego, and jokes about Diego's past with her ex-wife. For some time afterward, Frida, like all housewives, delivered lunch to Diego at work and gave advice on Diego's paintings, but it wasn't long before Diego returned to her nature and had sex with the models she met at work, which made Frida angry, but before marriage, Diego had said that for him, sex was like peeing, and it was a natural physiological reaction to find different women to have sex. She expected Diego to find a woman, but when she really faced the incident, she was still angry, bitter, and afraid, because before that she was afraid that she and Diego's two ex-wives would become Diego's ex-wives.

However, Frida was an exception, and Diego took Frida abroad to open a painting exhibition, which had never been done before. Diego is deeply fascinated by the bustling and ever-changing United States, lost in the glory and fame, constantly looking for women, Frida also looks for women, and the two live a life of tolerance and harmony with each other. However, because Diego's works have a strong communist color, so the murals in the United States are oppressed by public opinion, the employer had to let Diego modify the details of the murals, Lenin's portrait, and threatened to destroy the murals if they did not make changes, which made Diego very angry and had a strong resistance, modifying the work is not only a denial of the right, but also his own doubts about his own work itself, although Diego is against the revision, but the social opposition is very loud, or let Diego hesitate. Frida was stubborn and self-confident, and only Frida could guide him. Insisting on your own beliefs, daring to express yourself, causing others to voice against them, indicating that you have influenced others, you have already won, this is Frida's answer to Diego's doubts, making Diego's position more firm, insisting on painting until the last moment, until the employer takes people to the wall to make a final torture, the answer is to insist on not changing, and the two watched the murals fall to the ground. Due to Diego's political stance, the employers who had originally invited Diego to paint had canceled their commissions, and the two had to return to Mexico amid economic constraints and social contradictions.

Returning to Mexico, Diego is as depressed as a defeated general returning from the battlefield, all that remains is temper and loneliness, Frida takes care of Diego like a child, and when he is grumpy and angry, he also comforts those around him that he is just a kitten. This kind of life is calm, but there is no lack of warmth, until he finds that Diego does not forget to find a woman when he is lonely, and this woman is also Frida's favorite sister, which makes Frida the most unbearable, so he separates from Frida.

She cut her hair short, confused and distressed by the anesthesia of alcohol every day, and still did not stop creating during the period, although her life was difficult, she insisted on not asking Diego for help. She loves Diego like a woman loves men, willing to give everything for men, even if it is reputation and life, but she demands that men be loyal.

Diego later asked Frida for help in aiding the exiled socialist Trotsky, and out of faith and respect for Trotsky, Frida agreed to place Trotsky in her father's house. Trotsky had thoughts, charm, courage to rebel against Stalin, charisma of language, a keen sense of insight; Frida had a beautiful face, a confident personality, a talent for painting, and the most indestructible will, and the two were deeply attracted to each other, and they loved each other, but it did not last long, and Trotsky also had a lover, a woman who bore children for him and fled for his life, how could he hurt her, so Trotsky chose to leave.

Diego and Frida were then separated again, and due to political problems, Diego filed for divorce. In the quiet and seemingly peaceful life, Frida's condition began to deteriorate, her toes had to be cut off due to decay, her entire back had to be supported by a steel frame, her kidneys were severely infected, and she had to rely on constant surgical adjustments to maintain her life, at which point Diego returned to Diego and the two reconciled.

In severe cases, she had to rely on sedatives to relieve the pain, but Frida was still painting. During this period, Diego did not abandon it, and on the only occasion in Frida's life in the Mexican painting exhibition, he urged and acted strongly that he must follow the doctor's instructions and not leave the bed, so after Diego left, Diego asked someone to move the bed to the exhibition. Just when everyone thought Frida would not appear, Frida in full costume was carried down, and then she greeted everyone with a smile, shouted music, and claimed that it was a living corpse, and joked with the doctor that if the doctor asked her to drink tequila, she would not drink at her funeral. It is such a wayward and lovely woman.

In August of the same year, Frida's right leg was amputated. This frustrated her due to her incomplete body, and although sometimes she could still dance with her friends in custom-made high-end leather boots, slowly she began to become grumpy, angry at small things, and swearing.

Frida did not paint after the exhibition, and it was not until the following spring that Frida endured the pain and tied herself to a wheelchair to paint. Frida died in July of the same year in the Blue House where she was born, at the age of 47.

Every day of Frida's life is legendary. From the age of six, she had to endure the incompleteness of her body; from the age of eighteen, she had to endure the pain of constant adjustment of her body bones, for which she underwent 32 surgeries and 3 miscarriages; from the age of 22, she had to bear the harm caused by her husband's constant search for women. Such a woman who has experienced suffering all her life has always maintained herself, pursued mavericks, dared to wear gorgeous national costumes to walk in the streets and downtown, and did not care about the eyes of others; dared to call Diego's name in front of the corridor people, not afraid of other people's jokes; dared to ignore the doctor's advice and attend her only exhibition in Mexico. Because she was Frida, she dared.

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