As depression increases year by year. In addition to medication, finding a psychologist is another common option. From the perspective of harmony, the abilities, techniques, and social norms of psychologists are becoming more and more mature, but the reality may be just the opposite. Compared with regular hospital medications. Finding a psychologist in society becomes a complex project. The process is full of ups and downs, with frequent surprises. It's like visiting a treasure.
1 Search for products
When you search for codewords in the field, I believe that you have good expectations and dreams in your heart. Whatever the reality, we all have the luxury of being able to buy what we like. Although we also know that many stories will happen later, this does not prevent us from dreaming and dreaming. If not to mention online shopping addiction!
Every psychological helper searches on Baidu, Short, Weibo, Public Account, And Douyin. In fact, he hopes to find a psychologist who can completely solve his problems, although he knows that it is difficult and many unexpected stories will happen. But it does not prevent them from dreaming of survival to find a suitable and conscientious psychologist.
2 See baby details.
Will you believe the homepage presentation you see? It's definitely a typical compulsive mental re-enactment, hoping that our stuff is beautiful, but another voice inside us will also tell us: "Fake." Frankly speaking, the richer the picture, the more beautiful it is, and the more it is depicted, the more unreliable it is. On the contrary, there are only physical photos that have not been P, and the introduction of a few eye-catching big characters in the store will make us feel more real. Because the experience of life in these years tells us: flickering, routines are everywhere. It doesn't make sense to be absent.
Every psychological helper will have a big head after seeing the title and seniority introduction on the psychologist's homepage. He can have twenty or thirty titles for one person. Various master expert titles, college university doctorates, various English capitalizations, abbreviations, instructors of various academic genres. Walking all over the country, peach and plum all over the world. A beautiful stand-up arm-and-arm photo. What I know is a psychologist, and what I don't know thinks it is a micro-business. This is almost the norm in this industry. Don't blow more titles, are embarrassed to come out to meet people.
A psychological colleague of mine once told me 18 years ago: "When you are strong enough, you don't need to decorate yourself with these." Therefore, Xiaofei's title is only one "hypnotherapist". I can't afford this one.
3 Flip baby reviews.
Look at the evaluation that is even more unreliable, the more detailed the evaluation, the more illustrated and textual, the more the day of the post-evaluation, that basically...
However, the credibility of "ask everyone" will be higher.
When the helper browses the psychologist's information, he usually sees the praise of N more students and the happy feedback of the recovered case. With all kinds of magical comments under the self-media, Weibo and Douyin, it is especially important to keep a clear head. In a sense, it may be more reliable to search for psychologists' reviews through Baidu and Zhihu.
4 Contact customer service.
In addition to the quality of things, the attitude of customer service often determines our willingness to buy things. And the basic routines of communication are similar. Say hello, ask for things, ask for prices and ask for couriers. So it is wise to copy the record of the chat with the first customer service, so that it will be much more convenient to paste directly when contacting the next store.
Direct voice communication with a psychologist may be the first step in contact. The attitude of a psychiatrist is often an important basis for your decisions. On top, the self-proclaimed expert master can not be considered, too enthusiastic to urge you to pay for the opening can also not be considered. A psychologist who can patiently listen to you, can give professional psychological advice, and can consider from the perspective of your economic time may be more reliable.
But there's a technical problem in between.
Hypnotist: Hello, what kind of problem are you trying to solve?
Helper: Well, I really don't want to say it again.
When the helper and the psychologist communicate by phone, it is natural to talk to each psychologist about his experience, and if he consults three psychologists in a row, it means that he has to repeat it three times. It's a very painful thing. So it is wiser to contact your psychologist through WeChat, so that you can copy and paste the details of your condition in the form of text, which can save a lot of things. There is a need for further verbal communication.
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Before placing an order, we may habitually ask a question, in case there is
After communicating with the psychologist, you can ask more questions. Because there are many psychological counselors who can bargain. But the crux of the matter is whether you want the psychiatrist's price to be fixed, non-discriminatory, or different from person to person. Can float.
6 Risk Guarantee.
If you pay attention to freight insurance when placing an order, plus 7 days without reason to return, then you can reduce the risk of shopping to a relatively low state.
But when you pay a psychologist for psychotherapy, whether it's face-to-face or remote video communication. You must be prepared for psychological risk. This is the biggest difference from online shopping, because the treatment to be carried out later, there is no supervision, no norms, no standards without any so-called quality assurance, and it can even be said that there are many psychologists who do a hammer deal.
I know some people will ask, there is no psychologist, it is possible to invalidate the refund, the answer is yes, but the operation ,,,,
I know that some people will ask, there is no psychologist is the first treatment and then charge, similar to Taobao's payment. The answer is yes, but there may only be one hypnotist in the whole country, Xiaofei, who is doing this. (Let's be an advertisement)
7 Express
I don't need to say more about express delivery, everyone has a sad history of blood and tears. If you are going to communicate remotely with the psychologist video, then you must determine the network, the best WIFI and mobile data synchronization preparation, WeChat and QQ synchronization preparation. If the network stutters, change to another one. After all, you've already paid first. If you need to go to the counselor's office, remember to take a taxi, as there is a good chance you won't have a place to park. If you stop illegally on the street, then when you are doing psychological treatment, you may occasionally worry about the traffic police, whether you will post a ticket.
8 Online shopping tips, shop within your own financial means.
In addition to the local tycoons, we generally choose one within our reasonable economic range. Even if the shopping fails, the loss will not be too much, at most spend money to buy a lesson. But if you spend a lot of money and spend a lot of money, you invest in an adventurous shopping. I am afraid that this is not a rational act.
In the same way, psychological helpers need to choose a psychologist who is within their financial means. With money to find so-called big-name psychologists for treatment, as little as three or five thousand at a time or tens of thousands. This is a typical IQ tax.
Finally, I wish you a pleasant shopping experience and look forward to welcoming you back to the shop again.
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A is satisfied with B is very satisfied, C is very satisfied D invites Xiaofei to eat barbecue