Yang Lan once said a sentence that made the majority of women deeply agree:
No one will find your excellent inside through your sloppy appearance, and as a woman, you have to be exquisite.
This sentence is indeed very reasonable.
The beautiful cover of a magazine is enough to make the reader stop and pull out his wallet, not to mention a brightly dressed woman.
Yang Lan's temperament and inner nature were slowly cultivated from birth.
She once said: Human growth is like the process of molting, every time the skin is molted, it is like a new birth, but this process is often painful.
Looking back at Yang Lan's growth history, every time she transformed, she was rationally sober and "broken away".
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Yang Lan was born in Beijing to high-end intellectual family to very talented parents, his father was a professor at the Beijing Foreign Chinese College, and his mother was a teacher at the school.
Perhaps inheriting the genes of his parents, Yang Lan has a very high talent for languages since he was a child.
And her childhood has always been raised by her grandmother in Shanghai.
When she was a child, she was accustomed to the delicacy and fashion of Shanghainese, and drank coffee with her uncle when she was fine.
Until she was ten years old, she was taken back to Beijing by her parents.
Combining the dignity of Beijing girls and the delicacy of Shanghai girls, coupled with the care and cultivation of parents, Yang Lan's life has been hanging all the way.
Until 1986, Yang Lan was admitted to Beijing International Chinese University, and finally received a bachelor's degree.
It is reasonable to say that the state will assign jobs to college students, and on Yang Lan's terms, she is not worried about having a job at all.
But that year, when Yang Lan graduated, there was a change in policy, and it was not until 1990 that CCTV first recruited a host for the society, and she had the opportunity.
However, she was flexible and confident, but she hit the nail in the first round of the interview.
Compared with the shyness of other girls, Yang Lan is much more generous, the director said: We require girls to be stable, good at expression, not aggressive, and know how to cooperate, do you understand?
Obviously, this job is not suitable for her, Yang Lan asked rhetorically: Why can't the female host be wise and can't have her own ideas?
Yang Lan's sentence, "choking" the director can not speak, this girl's pattern and insights are admirable.
So, the director team gave her a second chance to interview.
It can be said that the examiner's questions are very sharp, until the seventh round of interviews, the other party asked a very tricky question:
"Do you dare to wear a bikini"?
At that time, bikinis were very bold, and even called "bad customs" by everyone.
Yang Lan did not shy away: wearing or not wearing, depending on the current culture and morality, if it is abroad, this is completely fine, if placed in some places, women's hair can not be seen by outsiders.
Her wit and calmness conquered the examiners present, and everyone gave a thumbs up.
She was 22 years old.
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Beautiful skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one of the best.
Yang Lan is very lucky, she can successfully enter CCTV, and partner Jiang Kun to host "Zhengda Variety".
During the cooperation with Zhao Zhongxiang and Jiang Kun, Yang Lan benefited a lot, and her common sense and insight increased day by day, but her pace seemed to be a little fast, and she was very unsteady in her heart.
Just when everyone thought that she would continue to meet on the big screen, Yang Lan made a surprising decision to resign and study abroad.
Studying abroad was very hard, and during this period, she was involved in politics, economy, and diplomacy, which laid a solid foundation for her next career.
Two years later, Yang Lan graduated with honors.
At this time, she chose to return to China because of the environment in the United States, making it difficult for her to have a sense of belonging.
After returning to China, Yang Lan joined "Phoenix Satellite TV", and her program "Interview with Yang Lan" set a record for ratings.
Yang Lan's cleverness lies in his ability to ask the sharpest questions in extremely euphemistic words.
And her achievements are not only the host, but also her influence on society.
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In the three Olympic bids, Yang Lan participated as a media person.
In 2001, dressed in a red suit, she stood in Moscow to make a statement on her bid for the Olympic Games, showing the style of women in our country.
Today, Yang Lan seems to be "much quieter", after the glory, she continues to precipitate, began to write books, and talk about life.
Even in front of the screen, those witty words can always inspire people, and the 53-year-old has become a "textbook" for women.
And about her love, she has always been talked about.
When she joined the work at the age of 22, she married zhang Yibing, a classmate who had been in love for a long time, and the Yang Lan family was very fond of this son-in-law.
But later, Yang Lan went abroad for further study, and for a long time there was a foreign separation, which led to a discord between the two and finally a peaceful breakup.
While abroad, Yang Lan met Fei Xiang, an idol singer who swept China.
Like a little fan sister, she admired Fei Xiang endlessly, and the intellectual Yang Lan was different in Fei Xiang's eyes, and the two were naturally together.
After getting along for a long time, Yang Lan found that her feelings for Fei Xiang were adoration, not love, so the two continued to be friends.
Until the end, Yang Lan met Wu Zheng, who looked ordinary and had a round and fat figure, but he was a famous person.
Wu Zheng graduated from Fudan University, and later relied on his own strength to own tens of billions of family properties.
He fell in love with Yang Lan at first sight, so he launched a crazy pursuit, which made her lonely very moved.
Later, Wu Zheng also gave Yang Lan a yacht worth 4 million yuan, which was not only decorated with flowers, but also a confession by Wu Zheng.
"I've been wandering in the past, and I want to see the world with you in the future."
Until 1995, the two held a low-key wedding, and then Yang Lan's study abroad life was coming to an end, Wu Zheng gave up the newly founded company and returned to China with Yang Lan.
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Today, the two have been married for 20 years and have a son and a daughter.
Yang Lan said: When I first got married, I was too young, and it wasn't until I met Wu Zheng that I understood what true love was.
With Wu Zheng's support, Yang Lan's life was more splendid.
In front of the camera, she is still a sister who rides the wind and waves, and outside the camera, she lives as a benchmark for countless women.
When asked, how do you balance career and family?
Yang Lan said frankly:
The family needs two people to bear it together, and they and their husbands respect each other and pass on their feelings to each other.
He also revealed that he would say "I love you" to her husband every day to preserve love.
Today, the 53-year-old Yang Lan's face is no longer young, and it is difficult to escape the tiredness brought by the years, and if you look closely at her facial expression, her facial expression is somewhat stiff, and the apple muscle depression is still obvious.
However, for these, Yang Lan did not particularly care, she once said bluntly on the show:
The embodiment of white hair and wrinkles on one's body is not a burden or a terrible trace, but a certain qualification in life, which is earned by oneself.
Yang Lan, who came from the circle of ease, launched countless challenges to life and firmly seized the opportunity to reshape a new self.
Yang Lan, a woman with a strong heart and a woman who lives a wonderful life, is worth learning from all female compatriots.
Author: Lollipop
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