Life is a process of constant choice and trade-offs, and smart people know what a choice is.
There are countless choices in this short life, but the most important of them is only three, as long as the choice is correct at these three turning points, the road of life will be much smoother, and the happy time is in front of us.
There are always people who say that they don't want their children to lose at the starting line, but birth does not determine everything, it can only be said that people who are born well have a greater chance of success, and the real success is not winning at the starting line, but winning at the turning point.
I have seen such a sentence on the Internet: everyone has read the script of this life before they are born, but still choose to come to the world, indicating that there must be beautiful things waiting for them in this world.
There will definitely be turning points in fate on the road of growth, as long as these turning points are grasped, life will be full of meaning.
There are many choices in life, but the really important turning point is three, and we must grasp it well.
The first turning point is "academics"
We are now in a time when everyone has the opportunity to get an education, and we are now trying to advance education and try to help people seize the first turning point in life - school.
However, some people are lazy and lazy, showing great greed from the student age, not knowing how to respect the teacher, not having the patience to seriously study and learning, taking the initiative to give up the first turning point in their lives, entering the society early, starting from the lowest level, and living a miserable life.
"Planting melons to get melons, planting beans to get beans", planting your own causes, you should bear the fruit by yourself, you can't eat the pain of learning, you can't grasp the first turning point in life, you can only meet the cruel side of life.
Learning is never-ending, live to be old, learn old, life only by continuous learning, in order to keep up with the pace of changes in the times, in order to open the door to success.
Learning is always the best shortcut on the road to success, there is nothing else, rather than focusing on the crooked path, it is better to concentrate on learning, strive to enter a good school, and when you are full of wings, you can give back to the society and repay everyone.
The first turning point and the most important turning point in life is study, which is the first step towards society and the first step in the road of life, only if this step is taken well, the road behind will be smoother.
The second turning point is "marriage."
The three words "unmarried" were not common before, and now they are becoming more and more frequent, in fact, those who shout all day long that they do not want to get married may not really want to get married, but they are not satisfied with the opposite sex around them, but they can't find the right one for a while, they don't want to make themselves too anxious, which is why they simply don't get married.
These people have reached the second turning point in their lives, but they are running away, not taking the initiative to cope with difficulties, and if they do not improve themselves in time, they will miss the turning point in their lives.
Marriage not only teaches people how to take responsibility, but also how to really love others, and people who are full of love in their hearts live very well, they are very kind, full of expectations for the world, and the smile on their faces has never diminished.
If you can't love people, then you must seize the second turning point in life, find the most suitable for yourself, and accompany him for a lifetime, marriage will eventually teach you how to truly love people.
Marriage can not only teach you how to love others, but also give you confidence when you encounter difficulties, which is a haven from the wind and a strong backing for you.
So, finding a soul mate is also a big turning point in life, which will give you hope for the future of life.
The third turning point is "career"
If you want to survive, you must have money in your pocket, if you want money, you must work well, if you want to live a better life, you must develop your own career.
As said before, learning is the fastest shortcut to success, and people with high education can generally be reused after they go out of society, and it is naturally easy to grasp the third turning point in life.
If you don't grasp the first turning point, then you must firmly grasp the career, this is your last chance to turn the corner of your life.
If you want to be successful in your career, you must study, properly learn the most basic theoretical knowledge, carefully study the lessons of your predecessors and extract the most suitable guidelines for yourself.
Career is also a very important turning point in life, career is good, it feels like everything is going well, and people have become confident.
epilogue:
Whether a person's short life is dull or colorful depends entirely on the individual, man does not have to make every choice on the road of life, God is very generous, he allows people to make mistakes, and even encourages people to hit the south wall a little more when they are young.
But Heaven is also very strict, and he has the most difficult three multiple choice questions to judge who should enjoy life and who should suffer in the human world.
As long as people grasp these three turning points in life, the days will not be so bitter. Even if you can't be rich and noble and become the brightest light in the crowd, at least you can really be honest when you look back on the past when you are old.
People in this life are not afraid of being scolded by others, the most afraid is self-blame and guilt, the most afraid is that they look down on themselves, if you do not want to live in the endless darkness in the future, then study well, work well, and grasp these three turning points in life.