There is a line in the movie "Supermarket Sleepless" that says: "A long time ago, I wanted to know what love was, if you wanted, it was close at hand, you just need to see it surrounded by beauty, hidden in the floating light of your life, if you don't stay for a moment, maybe you will pass by it." 」 ”
There has been debate about what love is since ancient times, however, there is one thing that need not be questioned, and that is the essential difference between love and liking.
Whether a person likes you or loves you, you can get the answer through his actual actions.
For many men, only when his heart is truly captured, he will treat the partner in front of him with his heart, otherwise there is nothing to do near him.
So, in real life, what will a man who really loves you become?
In fact, whenever you want to have a love is very easy, but in the process of your relationship, whether the other party can really respect you, it is a very difficult thing.
There are a lot of classic lines in Star Ye's movie, and I remember one of them being: "I raised you!" ”
It was once a popular confessional statement, but if you look closely at this sentence, you will find that it is actually not romantic at all.
When a man says to you, I'll raise you! In fact, he is rejecting your abilities, thinking that you have no way to work, and besides, in his cognition, you are already his lover, and he has the right to interfere in your life.
Often such men are unreliable, and his feelings for you become his right to kidnap you, without really thinking about what kind of blow this will cause to you.
How can such a macho person have true feelings for you?
If he really puts you in his heart, he will respect your choices, not point fingers at your life too much, and will only lend a hand when you need help.
What he wants is that you, even with him, can be an independent person, so that even if you are separated in the future, you can still live a good life.
Just coveting pleasure, caring about these small interests in front of you, and not treating the other party as a complete person, there is no way to go on.
01) We deal with others every day, but most of them are just nodding their heads, and they will never give their true hearts.
The same is true of the interaction between men and women, and you can only trust each other when your feelings reach a certain tipping point.
Especially for men, they always remain rational, they will not easily let themselves fall into it, even if he has a little heart for you, it will not prevent him from cheating on you, after all, to him, you are not so important.
Mr. Zhang Guorong once said: "You only have one life, I am the same, there is no afterlife in this life, when we get along, we try to be good to each other and hand over our hearts." ”
02), we all understand the truth, but when you get to real life, there is always no way to convince yourself.
In the TV series "Naoki Hanzawa", there is a scene in which a gangster boss runs away and gives all his money to his lover, asking her to go first, and after finding a safe place, wait for her.
He has so many people under him who can call, but in an emergency, he chooses his lover, which is trust.
When you have been in society for a long time, seen so many deceitful people, and have long seen human nature thoroughly, but when you fall in love with someone, you will find that it is such a happy thing that you can hand yourself over without reservation.
If a man really loves you, he will definitely be willing to believe you.
01), although we often say that there should be too many impurities in true love, once linked to money, it seems to be not so beautiful.
In fact, people who really care about each other are not so old-fashioned, and when you fall in love with someone, you can't help but always hope that you can give her all the best things.
Men and women are different, they are not very good at using words to express their love, so many times, it is directly expressed with actual actions.
Men who are willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but men who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.
02) When you are in the process of communication, no matter how bad the other party's economic situation is, you will definitely give gifts to express your love.
Poverty and perfunctory are two different things, don't be deceived by a person's rhetoric, but see what he has done for you.
The power of love is great, when a man has you in his heart, he will not cover up his poverty for various reasons, but will only work harder to give you the life you want.
To love someone, you don't need any flowery expressions, just transform your heart into substantive content.