Hello everyone, I'm Mommy.
The other day Ma Yili shared the chicken soup for parenting,
It is said that the daughter is now keen to let people capture all kinds of jumping moments.
In this regard,
Ma Yili understands it like this:
"This should represent the aggression in the heart of the child,
And this unbridled aggression is power,
It is the driving force behind us to keep ourselves intact. ”
After reading it, I remembered a sentence in "Seven Years of Life":
"Let me take a child to the age of seven,
In the future, whatever you want,
As long as he grows,
What kind of person he will become is already predestined. ”
The child's childhood is fleeting,
The way you treated him as a child,
Profoundly affected his life.
Especially the precious "nature" of children,
If you are cared for with your heart,
Will be the strength of his healing for a lifetime.
Conversely, it can be a source of suffering.
Feng Zikai once said:
"Parents should love their children and be close to them,
Put yourself in the shoes of the child to understand the child's psychology,
Observe the child's life,
Deeply understand them. ”
We used to be children, too.
Only later in the process of growing up,
Gradually , these excellent qualities were "lost".
Always envy those
A man who is full of sincerity and lives a dashing life,
Envy their precious "childishness".
But don't regret yourself,
After all, what is lost cannot be recovered.
fortunately
There are still opportunities for children.
Guard the children's childhood,
They can do the same in the future.
Light up "watching",
Together, we guard the "childishness" of the children.