Marriage should be the result of love, and children should be the crystallization of love

There is a passage circulating on the Internet that makes people cry and laugh:

If you love a man, give him a daughter, let him be 60 years old, and someone will put his arms around his neck and coddle him, criticize him for disobedience, buy him warm shoes, help him buy wine, light cigarettes;

If you hate a man, give him a son, let him pat the table when he is 60 years old, smash the cup, call him a house, ask for a car, ask for money... If the hatred is too deep, give him two sons!

A man's deepest love for a woman is "I marry you", giving her a worldly, beautiful marriage. A woman's love for a man may be "I am willing to give you a child".

The ideal marriage should be the result of love, and the child should be the love crystallization of two people who love each other.

Companionship is the longest confession of affection;

Falling in love is the most touching story;

Staying together is the most affectionate companionship.

The most beautiful love in the world, I think, is to stay together, is cold and warm together, is not abandoned, is to go to this life, is a lifetime. I like a passage from Zhou Guoping: "Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves to reach the destination safely." Whoever deliberately goes up against the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he does not cherish the treasures in the ship. A good marriage depends on cherishing and protecting, cherishing is the fate, the fate is in the cherishing, and the cherished heart dies, then the fate is exhausted. ”

Love is not a haven, let alone the icing on the cake, but a charcoal in the snow. Marriage, like the flowers of February, makes people fragrant; marriage, like the breeze of the hot sun, makes people feel refreshed in autumn; marriage, like the cold warm sun, makes people wind and sunshine. There are thousands of miles to meet, no chance to meet and do not know each other. Two people meeting in the vast sea of people is the fate of the previous life; being married is a blessing in this life. How far we can go with each other, more is mutual pity, mutual understanding, mutual observance, mutual tolerance, may we share happiness and suffering, know and love each other, and grow old with white heads.

Parents love happiness, children hear about it, he knows what a happy love marriage looks like, in the future he will go to find the right and beautiful love, and he will know how to manage a beautiful marriage.

The love between parents will have a positive and beautiful impact on the child, so that the child has the ability to love others and the ability to find true love.

Children are a mirror of their parents, and whatever their parents are, their children are. The parents' attitude towards love marriage determines the happiness of the child's future love marriage.

Women are different from men, women are like flowers, there are periods of bloom, and the years will always carve traces on their faces. They are willing to give you a child in the best years, men must know how to understand the meaning, but also know how to cherish the women around them.

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