Curious to open the hot search entry # Zhang Jike put Yi Nengjing shy #, 53-year-old Yi Nengjing was praised by Zhang Jike on the spot "looks like a 20-something" The current reaction is also a little cute in the world!
In such a dialogue scene, many women will think that this is just a "polite compliment" of the other party, and will not be too excited. And Yi Nengjing suddenly broke the defense, and was instantly too shy to know what to say!
Indeed, the shy expression when she heard the praise and the quiet sweetness of a pink suit show her "girlishness" from the inside out.
At the age of 52, she participated in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" and became the oldest and longest debut member of the sister group, whether it was questioning the outside world or her lack of confidence in dance, never setting limits on her career - at any age there was a breakthrough of her own.
With their own strength, they once again won the applause of the audience, successfully obtained more opportunities for variety shows to show their faces, and strived to infect the people around them with their mature charm, bringing more enlightening values to everyone - the growth experience and lessons of a 50+ woman based on past experiences.
01 Inner abundance is the essence of "youth"
A woman's appearance may be easy to change, but the years she really experienced cannot be erased from her temperament.
"Hidden in your temperament are the books you have read, the roads you have traveled, the scenes you have seen, and the people you have loved." Compared with the "youth" of Yi Nengjing's appearance, I appreciate her inner abundance more.
On the topic of "love and age", she said that she was also "resistant" by the "guilt" of the past (a forty-year-old woman and a thirty-year-old man were in love with a large age difference).
Why is it that when a 40-year-old man marries a 20-year-old woman, it is taken as a normal phenomenon, while a 40-year-old woman and a 30-year-old man are in love, it becomes a controversy?
Yi Nengjing grew up in the traditional concept, naturally confused about the existence of controversy, but as he grew older, he gradually realized that the traditional social consciousness was not correct, and took the initiative to learn to change, and won true love and kept love with a "young" mentality.
"All prejudice and narrow-mindedness come from the limitations of your cognition and vision."
When a person's heart is rich enough, he will have more correct judgment and decision-making on the existence of things, so that he is not easy to be eliminated by society, and he can bravely live out the "self" - this is the essence of "youth".
Dare to break through in the career, dare to fight in love, and dare to trust and love in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In "Mother-in-law and Mother", Yi Nengjing bravely said "I am a person who has trust and love for the world", for a middle-aged person, seeing through the world's human feelings, "dare to believe" is already a luxury, "trust and love" represents a kind of maturity and tolerance.
02 Focusing on one's own feelings is a manifestation of "youth"
Do "body anxiety" and "look anxiety" really exist? I don't think people who know how to focus on their feelings – "really know what they want" don't have to worry about it.
If you want to become a star, you must understand the fierce competition and always pay attention to the slimness of the body and the maintenance of the skin, choose the environment to accept yourself in the middle, then the change will not seem so difficult, naturally there is no body and appearance anxiety.
If you choose to be an ordinary person, understand that you have the freedom to be anything, and will not lose anything because of it, the aesthetic standards of natural society will not be a reason to bind you.
But if you choose to rely on and are not willing to change and complain, natural body and appearance anxiety will come uninvited, and you will live older and older in your mentality.
Paying attention to your own feelings, really knowing what you want, and finding the most comfortable state of existence is a manifestation of "youth" in your mentality.
The bravery of the 53-year-old Yi Nengjing in all aspects of life is due to his strong heart - a more "younger" mentality.
03 Dressing is always a mirror of the "self"
Peachy pink, faintly sweet, pink dress embellished with large and small flowers, soft visual picture, picturesque and beautiful.
This is obviously a very "girly" picture, ah, age-reducing a printed dress to wear no wonder Zhang Jike will praise her "looks like 20 years old".
"The so-called girl can be the courage of 16 years old, the dream of going forward at 20 years old, or the 60 year old still wearing Barbie pink lipstick, and the 80 year old still likes to wear pink skirts." 」
Dressing is always a mirror, we always think that dressing changes a person, in fact, your "consciousness" changes first, and "dressing" it is just an act.
When you become young enough inside, the clothes you choose, the emotions you show, the attitudes you look at things, everything will become different.
"Red and purple" wear is too personal, not like the age of 50+, more fashionable than the little girl, Yi Nengjing does not care about the eyes of outsiders, 50+ years old still like to challenge personality wear, wearing big red boots is more fashionable.
Following "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Yi Nengjing joined a new variety show "Let's Fall in Love", as an observer, her each episode of the show is beautiful, there is a taste of love!
The print element has always been a French romantic design, if you want to vividly interpret femininity, there is nothing more convincing than the print, "thin and not chai" good figure is enviable!
The intellectual and capable elegant Royal Sister is the other side of her, the classic little black dress, set with shiny star diamonds, the vintage of the French lantern sleeves, the light goddess style has always been online!
Many people at the age of 50+ will feel that people are middle-aged, it is not suitable to dress too high-profile, and should be dressed like a mature and low-key person at this age, but this idea will preconceived and limit your dressing style.
Dressing is always a mirror of the "self", and finding yourself is the secret to learning to dress.
Yi Nengjing- she is a romantic life home, a pure activist, standing on the stage of being herself, exploring the possibility of becoming herself.