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After the meal, I went out for a walk, and the moment I pressed the elevator, a neighbor came out, wearing masks from each other, and neither greeted each other.
While waiting for the elevator, I heard a voice: "Are you going downstairs?" ”
The moment the elevator arrived, the neighbor came again. Opening his mouth, he asked, "How can I talk to you and you ignore me?" ”
I wondered and inexplicably: "Are you talking to me?" ”
"Yes!" She said.
"You don't have a name, no surname, and you're not with me, so how do I know you're talking to me?"
"Look, after living together for so long, I don't know what your last name is, and I forgot to ask, what is your last name?" She said again.
I reported my last name and she told me her last name.
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As the saying goes, "Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." ”
Living in the cement forest of the city, neighbors do not communicate with each other, return home to close the door, live for a lifetime, neighbors do not know what the surname is.
When you meet a neighbor who likes to inquire, they will take the initiative to ask you "What is your last name?" What does it do? Where are the people? ”
When you encounter someone who doesn't like to inquire, basically you don't have contact with each other.
I've lived in this neighborhood for 10 years, and I'm familiar with the family next door to me, she's about the same age as my kids, sometimes she meets and says hello, sometimes I come back from business trips and bring something good to eat, and I give it to her kids.
Occasionally traveling on business, I will also consult some property matters on WeChat, and I have never had any communication with other neighbors.
Meet without meeting, are strangers.
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Remembering what Suzen said:
"Experience, not gushing, across the north and south, but, the words are on the lips, and finally silence. The story that really went into the deepest part of the heart, unable to speak. A sunny time that can't go back. Now that I have looked at the clouds alone, the past is not to be said. ”
Neighbors meet each other, look at each other and smile, and don't communicate, maybe better communication.
After retirement, know how to put it down, and don't mind who and whom, right? The same goes for the neighbors.
Life is like tea, slowly taste, fang understand the taste.
What your life is, you are what you are, life, it is all in your words, in your face.
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(The photos in the article are all taken by the editor)