Text/Flying Fish
Time passes, gone forever, and some people have not enjoyed the freshness of autumn enough, but they have entered the winter overnight. Spring to autumn, autumn to winter, there is noise, there is also quiet beauty, there is refreshment, there is cold, all gains and losses, are providence, life is fate, life is calm.
Haruki Murakami once said, "You have to be a silent adult." No emotion, no secret thoughts, no looking back. Go live a different life of your own. You have to obey that not all fish will live in the same sea. ”
There are always many unexpected things in life, sometimes it will bring you surprises, sometimes it will take some things from your hands, the gains and losses in life are all doomed, if all year round, there are warm and cold, there is prosperity, there is also withering.
Lin Huiyin once said: "Finally understand that there are some roads that can only be walked by one person. Those who invite good companions to accompany the rainy season and walk through the years together, but one day they will eventually disperse at a ferry port. ”
Some people, after turning around, will be reunited again, and some people, after parting ways, will no longer intersect, standing at the ferry port of the flowing years, gathering and dispersing, laughing.
Everything in this world, life does not bring, death does not bring, money, fame and fortune, but the past clouds. Everything in life, in fact, the heavens have already made arrangements, fate sometimes has to be, fate is not forced at any time, what can be obtained is always yours, what you can't get, it means that you have no fate.
Just like the birth of a person, some people are born to be rich and noble, and some people are born with nothing and can only rely on their own efforts to fight for it.
Moreover, there are some things that you can't get when you squeeze your brain out of your head, and some things that you can easily get without your own efforts.
Therefore, in life, there are some things that cannot be obtained, let it go, there are so many worlds, the road of life is very long, always full of expectations, do not destroy the beauty of the moment because of a momentary attachment.
Everyone longs for a free and romantic life, and I used to think that if I could have a house of my own by the sea, with a beloved person, a cute kitten, and a back garden full of flowers I like.
So every morning I got up, facing the sea, spring blossoms, watching the sunrise and sunset with my loved ones, listening to the sea breeze together, walking freely on the beach together, holding hands and running. At home, in fact, reading books and drinking tea, just like this, the years are quiet, it is the most beautiful thing in life.
However, life is helpless, the reality is also very cruel, first of all, we must try to survive, in order to live a leisurely life.
However, what I want to say is that in this world, it is difficult to have consummation, gain and loss, are complementary, but if you have a dream in your heart, you are not afraid of the front, rely on your own efforts, live the life you want, or you can achieve.
Some things, can not get, just let yourself go, don't think about it anymore, the nature that should come will come, no one can stop it, not yours, always will go, can not stay, life is not easy, life is already very tired, why torture yourself to think too much?
Instead of wasting time tangling and pestering in what you are destined to get, it is better to save time to recharge your batteries and make yourself better.
Don't always struggle with gain and loss, it will make you very confused, it will make life covered with haze, and the mood will be difficult to be cheerful.
In this life, people are nothing more than a practice, fate has arrived, and they can't stop it, so although life maintains a good attitude, everything follows fate, everything looks away, and the heart is open.
Everything is calm, everything will pass, when you get, you must understand, low-key in order to maintain the most beautiful posture of life, lose, do not be discouraged, sometimes, loss is not terrible, loss may also be a kind of gain, life will give you back in another way.
Gradually understand the regret that "fish and bear paws cannot have both", but I have come to a great realization, we come to this world, we are passers-by, and we should have gained and lost.
Therefore, when you get it, you don't have to be complacent, when you lose, you don't have to cry, put your mind at peace, and keep a normal heart, because gaining and losing are the norms of life, gaining and losing is a blessing, and losing and regaining is luck.
Life, there are gains and losses, life, there are yin and feelings. If you get it, cherish it, otherwise if you lose it one day, you will regret it.
If you lose, learn to let go, don't always talk about it, can't put it down, grumble in your arms, and eventually suffer yourself.
The Heavenly Dao lives on forever and will not continue because you have gained it, nor will it be suspended because you have lost it.
What they get, the people they meet, and the achievements they achieve are all gifts given by Heaven, and those who are destined not to go together are all destined marriages, and their origins are extinguished, and their hearts are indifferent, and their lives are happy.
Gain and loss are providence, even if you think every day that a pie falls on your head, looking forward to making a fortune, but do not work hard, God naturally will not reward you with food.
In this life, despite the efforts, although doing a good job of yourself, life will naturally not treat you badly.
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