People who talk a lot, if they don't speak properly, are better off talking less.
Sometimes, when we speak inadvertently, it may cause harm to people, and language is an invisible blade that will hurt people.
There will be people around you who invisibly hurt you, say some self-righteous and disrespectful words, but the other party does not think so, he thinks he has the ability to criticize you, so he will not look at you from the same perspective.
If before you speak and are ready to express, what you want to say is something that the other party does not like to hear, or the other party cannot accept, or do not say it, because sometimes, preaching to a person, the other party may not understand, on the contrary, it will be full of resentment.
Language is a science, a science that requires careful observation, observing the faces and emotions of others, and only by constantly observing can we find out the way of our own language.
There are many ways to express, some people like to be direct, some people like to be euphemistic, and my way of expressing is more neutral, if I think I want to say something unpleasant next, I will not say, to avoid putting up with the other party is unhappy, but also to avoid a quarrel.
Silence is golden, silence can also solve some problems, such as when arguing, let yourself be silent, calm down, reflect on yourself, whether it is right or wrong, you must learn to be calm.
People always make mistakes, and we must constantly reflect on ourselves in the mistakes, so that we can better move forward.
The way of speaking is to study and understand by yourself, and only by constantly experiencing it will people grow and find their truest appearance.