Recently, there is a love observation program called "Like You, Me Too".
It's a group of people watching someone fall in love in a studio and then analyzing who likes whom.
This kind of show often tests the guests' view of love, and generally speaking, the love concept that dares to love and dare to hate is very popular in this kind of show.
Like the previous "Heartbeat Signal", Zhang Yuqi relied on her own set of love philosophy to gain the pursuit of a group of "new era women".
In "Like You, Me Too", there are a total of 8 observers who will discuss and analyze the problems existing in various relationships.
You don't have to say, there are some dry goods in it.
For example, in it, a sister accidentally found a expert- Zhu Xingjie, whose identification skills for green tea can be called a friend of women.
Usually the points that girls are not accustomed to can be pointed out by him.
The male and female protagonists drew together, and the girl suddenly picked up the paintbrush and drew a stroke on the boy's face.
Isn't this the plot of an idol drama?
Ordinary boys may put up with the fact that girls are good-looking.
For the majority of female audiences, the expression of seeing this scene is almost synchronized with Zhu Xingjie.
Zhang Shaogang asked the male guest in the show: When the girl can't hold the cup to let the boy help, what will the boy think?
In this regard, Zhu Xingjie was not confused at all.
When the two began to communicate, it was normal, and he knew that it was a girl who was coddling herself.
When the two do not establish a relationship, he also knows that the other party will not really not be able to move the cup, but has other intentions.
When everyone liked the simple-looking, sweet-looking No. 3 girl, only Zhu Xingjie noticed the small dark tide surging between the girls and did not make up his mind.
He noticed that the No. 3 girl called the other sister when she first met the No. 1 girl, and proposed that "the first meeting to call the sister" may not be good for the girl.
So when the other observers liked the No. 3 female guest on one side, only Zhu Xingjie supported the less concerned guest No. 1, because he felt that the embarrassment of no. 1 was normal in the show.
To understand this sentence in another sense, it is actually "No. 1 is not pretentious!" ”
This thinking logic is undoubtedly a friend of women.
In real life, when you fall in love, you must have a girlfriend to help you check the pass, and you must also have a love consultant to help you support.
After listening to the analysis and summary of the 8 observers present, she was impressed by the love concept of the two middle-aged uncles.
They are Zhang Shaogang and Sha Yi, who have been married for many years.
It can only be said that ginger is still old and spicy, although the two have reached the age of confrontation with greasy, but for this group of little girls like a sister, #face skin This thing is always getting thicker and thicker with time, and the middle-aged uncle has an irresistible charm.
In particular, the sense of security they bring is solid and reliable.
They don't love all kinds of imaginary things like young people, and most of them are practical talents in love.
From the simple attitude of love, young people like to put love on their lips, while our uncle runs directly to live a life: "To spend a lifetime with people who make themselves happy." ”
What should I do if I am embarrassed to meet a girl for the first time?
Young people have a lot of ideas to resolve embarrassment, praise each other's clothes are good, chat about where they come from, these basic greetings are in other words awkward chat.
The result of the awkward chat is that the conversation is finished, and the air will often fall into embarrassment again after all the questions are asked.
In this regard, our uncle thinks like this:
Take the girl's luggage first, help the other party to arrange the luggage and then greet each other. Sometimes doing it is more important than saying it. Words can easily be awkward, but actions only increase the goodwill and intimacy of both parties.
In the show, the men and women meet for the first time in the dormitory, and there is an awkward atmosphere everywhere, and Sha Yi's way to resolve the embarrassment is not to chat awkwardly, but to create a topic.
During the observation process, Sha Yi found that the girls' dormitory was bunk beds, so in the simulated situation where the two sides met for the first time, Sha Yi resolved the embarrassment like this:
"Do you prefer to sleep on the top bunk or the bottom bunk?" You are the first to come, like which bunk to sleep in, I will help you decorate it, let's occupy (a bed) first. ”
Very grounded and very practical.
Savor this sentence, with some humor and closeness in it.
In Zhang Shaogang's words, the best way to break the embarrassment is to turn static into dynamic.
The two go together to find something to do, which can be very subtle and specific, whether it is to help each other carry luggage or to help each other decorate dormitories.
In the process, the topics of the two naturally increased.
For the question of whether to be passive or active in love.
Young idols are mostly passive.
And the philosophy that our two uncles believe in is "think it is good and do it.".
It's better to be wrong than to be wrong.
If you want to take the initiative, take the initiative to ask the girl to watch a movie.
If the girl is cold, she will take the initiative to put her clothes on.
Deep in love, I took the initiative to pull my hands together.
Simple and straightforward!
It is estimated that if it were not for the show, these two people who came over would definitely think in their hearts, "What is there to analyze in love?" Love is right! ”
There are more and more love observation programs, each program is outputting a different view of love, but also for love support, but in fact, when really in love, I found that the set of love philosophy that I believed in before was not worth mentioning.
Zhang Shaogang's spit in the show is particularly right: "A group of unmarried people, all they talk about here is theory." ”
Love is a human instinct, a skill that humans are born with.
Many people are single precisely because they have heard too many theories and heard too many suggestions, but they have never practiced, and they have already characterized love before they have stepped into love.
There are as many pairs of lovers in the world as there are different love patterns, and none of them is right or wrong.
Love is actually very simple: "just love" to present your true side to the other party, relying on feelings to judge the degree of love, not by theory.