No parent wants their child to be harmed in any way, but there are many parents who, while they don't intend to do so, make choices that lead to end-up results that are likely to be contrary to what they intended. 、
If you were the parent of a girl who has been paralyzed in bed for many years, what choice would you make when faced with the frequent contact between your paralyzed daughter and the opposite sex?
Due to congenital polio, Koga has not been able to walk freely like other children since she was a child, and she spends her days in bed every day.
Later, although her parents bought her an electric wheelchair, out of protection for their daughter, they did not send Koga to school, and personally taught Koga some textbook knowledge every day after work.
On Her 18th birthday, her parents gave her a smartphone, which made Her life a little more colorful, and she made some new friends through the Internet.
2 years later, a male netizen expressed his love to Xiaohe, and said that he did not dislike Xiaohe's physical condition would be good for Xiaohe, and Xiaohe fell in love from then on.
After that, the male netizen frequently came to Xiaohe's home as Xiaohe's boyfriend, and Xiaohe's parents did not say much about it, only hoping that their daughter's future could be accompanied by someone.
But within a few months, Xiaohe was actually pregnant, called the "boyfriend", but found that people had long been unable to contact, in the face of the paralyzed in bed but pregnant daughter, Xiaohe's mother was caught in self-blame.
Paralyzed in bed, Xiaohe accidentally became pregnant because he did not receive the correct sex education from his parents when he was a child. It can be seen that correct sex education for children will play a great role in the healthy physical and mental growth of children.
How should parents properly educate their children about sex?
When children reach the age of 3, they begin to have a vague perception of gender. They will start to find that their bodies are different from those of the opposite sex.
Therefore, parents' sex education for their children can begin to prepare when the child is 3 years old, and parents should let the child learn how to protect themselves while understanding their own body.
Many parents will think that their children are still young and do not understand anything, so they will not deliberately avoid their children when doing more intimate things such as changing clothes, going to the toilet and bathing.
However, as everyone knows, children in such an environment are likely to form a misunderstanding that "their private parts can be shown to others".
Some parents let their elders take their children with them when they are busy with work. However, because the elders have different levels of education, they do not attach enough importance to sex education.
Therefore, there are often elders who will help the children to wash the bath together when taking a bath, and in such behavior, the children will lose their sense of self-defense and will not understand that their bodies cannot be casually shown to others.
Sex education is not a flood beast in the hearts of parents. For children who are naturally curious, the vague avoidance of the topic of "sex education" will only make them more curious.
Driven by curiosity, children may do a variety of inappropriate behaviors, so for parents, it is still necessary to let their children receive appropriate "sex education" as soon as possible, so that children can learn how to protect themselves.