In life, we will always meet certain people, using the nostrils to look down on others, and how do we treat such people? This kind of person is common at different ages, maybe everyone will communicate with this kind of person differently, how do you meet this kind of person to communicate and get along with her/him?
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We are no different
We're all the same
Qu Wanting's lyrics include the phrase "We are no different, we look up at the same sky when it gets dark."
In today's society, we will meet all kinds of people, rich, poor, capable, helpless, lovely, strong, everyone is trying to hope that they can become strong and upward people in their imagination, but at the same time we will also meet people with a particularly strong sense of superiority, in my memory, whether it is junior high school, high school, college, I have met this kind of person.
But I suddenly found that in these three stages, I met this kind of person who handled communication in a completely different way!
When I was in junior high school (although it was a bit old-fashioned at the beginning, I ignored it), when I met this kind of person who was young and crazy, I might pull her to the corner of the classroom and beat her up, after all, she was young.
In high school, when I meet this kind of person, I will not be as impulsive and frivolous as before, I will be silent with her, I believe that some people are like this (according to incomplete statistics), and then dismissive.
College, and before is completely different, sometimes I think, I know that I don't think together so single, I will pay attention to my speech, I will pay attention to my behavior, I don't want to hurt others, I don't want to fight tooth for tat, in the face of this kind of person, except when necessary, I don't want to pay attention at all, I can completely ignore it.
At the beginning we are like a square, but the road is flat, there is no ability to change the road, we choose to change ourselves, the square has four corners, but we all know that we have countless edges and corners on our bodies, on this road, we are slowly changing, this is growth, the same thing, can be handled better than before.
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Like a child in the sun, like an adult in the wind and rain.
Like an adult in the wind and rain
My mother always said that I was pretentious and squeamish, but I never understood, my peers have always felt that I am a man, friends always say that you are always very strong in my heart, indeed, I can be very independent to complete a lot of things, I do not need others to accompany me, because I think I can.
In fact, to sum up, in front of our parents we are always children, adults always want us to stand in the same perspective as them to think about the problem, but age makes us really can't do that, we are young, clear attitude, the same thing our way of thinking is completely different.
Maybe when we are the same age as them, we may feel their intentions, but now we always can't listen to what they say, but we can't force ourselves to grow, time will tell.