Many times, we are troubled by various things, worrying about the past and the future.
But in fact, life is a passerby, there is no need to be too persistent.
Take it lightly and do whatever you want.
Let go of the past, and the past is not attached
Former British Prime Minister Lloyd George has a habit of closing the door behind him.
Once he was walking in the yard with a friend, and he closed it every time he passed a door.
His friend asked him, "Do you think it's necessary to close these doors?" ”
Lloyd George said:
"Of course it's necessary, because it's something to do in a lifetime. "When you close the door, leave everything that has gone before, whether it's a good accomplishment or a frustrating mistake, and then you can start all over again."
Throw away your worries, throw away excess clutter, and disconnect from unnecessary people.
Friend Xiaolin once experienced a heart-wrenching relationship, talked with her boyfriend for 5 years, originally talked about marriage and marriage, but found that he cheated.
During that time, her mood was very low, and she could not lift the spirit to do anything.
Later, she finally figured it out, picked herself up and worked hard, lived seriously, bought a house, and lived the life she wanted.
At one job, she met her current boyfriend, talented and self-motivated, and considerate and dedicated to her.
She said:
"If he hadn't left me, then maybe my life wouldn't have been as exciting as it is now, and I wouldn't have met anyone better."
Recently, when she heard the news that her ex-boyfriend was getting married, she also silently blessed him in her heart.
All that passes by is wonderful, and all that is left is happiness.
Many things that were originally persistent, after passing and then looking back, are not "passing the clouds".
If you look down, the mind will have no troubles; if you see through, the world will be simple.
Let go of the past and move forward, it will be more beautiful.
The loss of self-confidence and imagination of the future is truly the torture of the day and night cycle.
Prosperity will eventually come to an end, and returning to the basics is beauty.
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Cherish the moment and love yourself
There is an aunt in the neighbor's family, who divorced her husband more than a decade ago, and she raises the children by herself, and everything is on her own.
Now that the child is older, he rarely comes home.
Living alone, she was very lonely to outsiders, but she didn't feel it.
In fact, she went everywhere to play every day, taking the bus near home, and calling a few sisters to go out together on a long trip.
On weekdays, I visit the mall and buy some nice clothes to dress up. After dinner, I went for a walk in the nearby park and blew the evening breeze.
Sometimes they would call their sisters to play mahjong at home and cook together when they were tired. Such a day is very pleasant for her.
Someone asked her, "Don't you feel bored and lonely by yourself?" ”
"No, my life is for myself, I enjoy life every day, I am happy, I can do whatever I want, and I don't feel pain when I spend money."
Finding something happy to do and simplifying things will make life interesting.
Cherish the moment and love yourself.
To enjoy life, to embrace the moment, to give yourself a little time to relax.
There is a poem in Wang Wei's "Farewell to the South":
"Go to the bottom of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise."
There are too many things in the world, and only the present is the most important.
The rest of life is still long, do not panic, the future life, hidden in every day we have now, the present is the future.
A happy and simple life is worth experiencing.
Life is long, happy or unhappy is a lifetime, why not make yourself happy?
Leave the unpleasant to the past, and put the sunshine happily into the present.
Don't bother with the past, just laugh for the rest of your life.
Don't get stuck in the heart, don't mess with emotions
Kazuo Inamori said:
"Facing difficulties and adversities with optimism is the iron rule of success in life."
I heard a story about a man who was troubled by the stresses of life and wanted to find a solution, so he found a wise man.
Instead of answering his questions, the wise man gave him a basket and asked him to pick up the stones on the road as he walked.
The man picked up various stones as he walked.
But as he walked, the stones on his body became heavier and heavier, causing him to have difficulty walking, and he eventually fell to the ground exhausted.
The wise man told him:
"In fact, as long as you pour out the stones in the basket, you can go light."
Life is also like this, if you put everything in your heart and everything is entangled, then life will crush you.
If you know how to give up and let go of unimportant people, things, and things, life will become easier and easier.
If you encounter troubles, may you summarize and digest them, and no longer be distressed in the days to come.
There is nothing in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
For a while, his friend Sissi was overwhelmed by all kinds of things in his life.
The newcomers under them go wrong, and the simplest things are wrong.
Colleagues secretly calculated her, so that she could not get off the stage in front of the leader.
The children in the family are disobedient and often come home without peace.
The high mortgage and car loan also made her very difficult.
Every day, she will struggle with various small things, such as where she feels that she is not doing well, why her life is so bitter, why she always has to face various trivial matters, and so on.
Later, she began to adjust herself, giving herself a day off, going for a walk in the countryside and feeling the power of nature; or going to the exhibition hall to look at the paintings, and then sitting on the park bench in a daze, blowing the wind.
Slowly, she felt that time had slowed down and things in her life had become less painful and troublesome.
The Ten Deadly Sins says:
"The world is troubled, there are countless troubles, the reason is only three points, can not see through, can not open, can not put down."
In fact, the things in life have not become less, but the mentality of facing things has changed.
As long as you calm your mind and solve things in the same way, even the most difficult obstacles will pass.
Click a "like", may you not cling to the past, simple and casual, worry-free;
Do not entangle the deceased, the past is clear, love and hate at will;
Don't mess with the present, simplify the complex, love life.
Author: Uncle Fuji. Source: Uncle Fuji, a single beautiful uncle who combines reason and emotion, funny and warm heart, focuses on weaving night dreams for girls. Readers are authorized to publish, please contact the author for reprinting.