"If you want money, should you get the lawyers on both sides in touch and let the lawyers inform me? Someone else takes the lead in going to your house to blow you up, can you still return the money to him after that? This is the heroine Ma Mou in response to the man's request for a bride price. When I heard this, I felt that this matter must not be simple, and there must be some melon behind it to eat.
The man, Wei, actually reported his fiancée Ma with his real name on the Internet, saying that she had withdrawn from the marriage but was unwilling to return the bride price of 340,000 yuan. This thing sounds quite outrageous, they are about to get married, how can it get to this point? Moreover, the court has already sentenced the woman to return 300,000 yuan, but this Ma is resolutely refused. Is there something hidden in this?
Ma also has something to say here, she said that Wei once went downstairs to her house to pull up a banner, which greatly affected her reputation, and the psychological pressure and mental pressure were huge. Anyone who puts this on will not be able to stand it, let alone a girl who is ready to get married. Therefore, Ma felt that in this case, how could he return the money to Wei? I feel a little reasonable when I hear it, this Wei's approach is really too much.
However, Wei is not a vegetarian, he made a detailed list of bride prices for Ma, 340,000 bride price, hardware and one diamond, etc., which can be said to be a bloody investment. It can be seen that this Wei really wants to live with Ma, otherwise he would not have spent such a big effort. However, who knew that this Ma was dissatisfied with the wedding house bought by Wei's family? The reason turned out to be that she had to pay off the mortgage after marriage, and she didn't want to bear this burden. This incident makes me feel that this Ma also has his own ideas, and he is unwilling to bear too much financial pressure in order to get married.
As soon as this incident came out, netizens exploded, and there were all kinds of comments. Some people say that Ma is too materialistic and only values money; Some people also think that Wei is too impulsive and should not treat his fiancée like this. Oh, this emotional thing is really unclear! However, I think that since the two of them have come to this point, it is better to get together and disperse, why make it so stiff?
Speaking of this bride price issue, it is really a big problem, and different regions and different families have different views and practices on this issue. But in any case, I think that we should focus on peace and understanding, and not fall out over the bride price, which is really regrettable.
Let's go back to this matter, I think both Ma and Wei should calm down and communicate well. After all, they once fell in love, so why make such an unpleasant fuss? And if this stalemate continues, it will not be good for either side!
Oh, speaking of which, I suddenly remembered that this bride price issue is actually not an isolated case, and there are disputes in many places because of the bride price issue, it seems that this problem really needs our attention!
But then again, this incident also reminds us that money and feelings need to be balanced in a marriage and love relationship, and we can't just value money and ignore feelings, nor can we only talk about feelings and ignore money, only by taking care of both can we go further!
As a bystander, I really think this is quite embarrassing. Two people once loved each other, but it was a pity that they got into trouble because of the bride price issue. I think that whether it is in a marriage relationship or in daily life, we should learn to communicate and understand, and not destroy the relationship between each other because of some material problems. After all, feelings are priceless, while money can be earned again. I hope that Ma and Wei can properly handle this matter, give each other an explanation, and give an explanation to netizens who are concerned about this matter.
At the same time, I also deeply felt the pressure of the bride price issue. In this materialistic society, the bride price seems to have become a measure of feelings. However, we should really think about it, is the bride price really the only measure of affection? I don't think so. Feelings need to be maintained and managed by both parties, not measured by money. I hope that everyone can look at the issue of bride price rationally and not let this issue become a fuse that destroys feelings.