The advancement of science and technology has indeed changed our lives. All the time, there is a tidal wave of news and topics, especially interesting anecdotes about university life. Recently, I heard a very interesting story, a college girl had a little episode when she was running on campus, and accidentally let her figure become the focus of everyone's heated discussion.
Speaking of that day, the sun was shining, and the girl, as usual, jogged around the campus. But who knows, one accidentally, she fell, and her sweatshirt and pants were accidentally broken. just fell like this, exposing his figure in front of everyone. For a while, the comments of netizens flew like snowflakes, and everyone began to discuss whether her figure met social aesthetic standards.
I remember the past few days, social media really exploded, and all kinds of voices came and went, which was even more lively than a vegetable market. Some people say that she has an imperfect figure and is a little chubby; Some people also think that she is healthy, it doesn't matter if she is beautiful or ugly, her figure is all floating clouds. Her classmates also stood up and spoke out, saying that body aesthetics cannot be the only criterion for evaluating a person. Seeing this unity and fraternity really warms my heart.
What impressed me even more was that some netizens launched the topic of "self-confidence is the most beautiful", encouraging everyone to post their most authentic and confident photos and stories. This topic is so popular, it makes me see how diverse people's pursuit of beauty is, and at the same time makes me feel the power of self-confidence.
However, it also made me think about "aesthetic violence" on social media. Do you make it? Nowadays, many people like to comment and discuss other people's appearance on social media, as if this will satisfy their own aesthetic desires. Psychologists have said that this kind of behavior can actually bring a lot of psychological pressure to the victim, and may even lead to low self-esteem and depression. So, I think we should be more respectful of other people's appearance and figure, and not judge other people's appearance easily.
Speaking of which, I suddenly remembered that something similar had happened at another university. There was a boy who was ridiculed for his weight, and the pain and humiliation made me feel uncomfortable just thinking about it. Fortunately, the school has carried out anti-bullying education in a timely manner, so that students are aware that their actions may cause harm to others. It made me see the power of education and made me more convinced that we should respect everyone's differences.
These heated discussions have not only aroused the attention of the society to the mental health and body aesthetics of college students, but also experts have come forward to call for the establishment of a diversified evaluation system. In other words, let's not just use a single aesthetic standard to measure everyone, after all, everyone is unique.
Speaking of this, I also began to examine my own aesthetics of the body. To be honest, I used to be bound by certain standards in society, and I always felt that I was not good here and wrong there. But now I understand that everyone has their own unique beauty, and we should learn to appreciate our own strengths and characteristics.
At the same time, I noticed that people began to shift from comments about body shape to discussions about personal privacy and dignity. Indeed, shouldn't we be more respectful of everyone's privacy and choices? Don't always stare at someone else's body and make irresponsible comments.
If you look at the "perfect body" benchmarks in fashion magazines and social media, I feel so tired. In order to pursue that so-called perfect body, how many people are anxious, and some people even take extreme measures to change themselves. But I think true beauty should be healthy, confident, and diverse, shouldn't it?
I heard that some colleges and universities have carried out "body positive" activities to encourage students to improve their body and self-confidence in a healthy way. I think this event is really meaningful, after all, health is the most important thing! And, through these activities, we can also understand and accept our bodies better, so that we can love ourselves better.
Having said all this, it occurred to me that in fact, the aesthetic concepts in different periods of history are also very different. For example, in the Tang Dynasty, fat was considered beautiful, while in modern times, it is more inclined to thin figures. Isn't this the influence of cultural and social environment on our aesthetics? Therefore, I think we should be more tolerant and understand different beauty, and not always judge others with a single aesthetic standard!
Writing this, I suddenly remembered a sentence: "Confident people are the most beautiful!" ”。 Yes, no matter what the body is, as long as we maintain confidence and optimism, it is the most beautiful scenery! What do you think? Do you also think that we should respect and appreciate the different beauty of each person more? Hey~
Finally, I would like to say that with the progress of society and the opening of ideas, more and more people have begun to pay attention to and advocate healthy aesthetics and body concepts! I believe that in the near future, our society will be more tolerant and understand different beauty, so that everyone can be free to be themselves and show their own unique charm!