Recently, many people have mentioned boys like Phoenix Men. It seems that many girls are afraid to marry such boys. The reasons are: First, phoenix men refer to those boys who come out of the countryside to the city and then earn money on the ground. They have many advantages, such as: smart and capable, able to bear hardships and stand hard work, and able to be down-to-earth. At the same time, they also have many shortcomings, such as: their ideological concepts have the concept of "big family" and "son preference", they have inferiority and conceit in their personality, machismo and relatively thrifty and thrifty.
However, the shortcomings of the Phoenix Man are the main reason why the girls in the city are discouraged.
However, as the saying goes: "Gold has no feet, no one is perfect"! We have to see their weaknesses as well as their strengths. Moreover, in the emotional world, there are no men and women who are completely undesirable. The suitability of men and women varies from person to person, which verifies the proverb: "Turnip greens, personal love".
Indeed, the Phoenix Man is not suitable for some girls. Why? Because the Phoenix man has the concept of a big family and the concept of son preference, for the average girl who lives in a small family in the city for a long time, she cannot understand and adapt.
And because the Phoenix male Gerry has inferiority and conceit, machismo and door-slamming. For those girls who are inferior, conceited, have a weak personality, are used to spending lavishly and have little financial ability, the shortcomings of phoenix men cannot be changed but are controlled by them. In this way, contradictions are indispensable.
However, there are several types of people who can make the phoenix male obedience and the horse head is the first to look. Who are the girls?
The first, strong women
The reason why such girls are called strong women is because they have a very strong ability to earn money and resist pressure. They pursue the same freedom and equality as boys in ideology, have independence in life, and are stronger and more confident in personality. When they are with the phoenix man, the phoenix man will appreciate her earning ability and strong sense of independent life, which is also the dream pursued by the phoenix man. Therefore, neither of them has anyone to feed anyone, and the shortcomings of the Phoenix Man are either changed by the strong woman or slowly die out because they cannot perform.
The second category, rich women
The rich woman can give the Phoenix Man rich material conditions, and at the same time she can make the Phoenix Man relatively weak and incompetent. Moreover, the rich woman has always been accustomed to doing her own thing, and she has no shortage of money to spend. The Phoenix Man could not and did not dare to try to stop her from consuming or ordering her to do something she was not happy to do. In this way, the phoenix man had to put away his own ideas of son preference, big family, and machismo, and obediently obey the command arrangements of the rich woman. When encountering an only rich family girl, the phoenix man generally becomes a door-to-door son-in-law.
The third category, rural women
The living environment and habits of rural women are very close to those of Phoenix men. Under normal circumstances, they and the phoenix men have the same "big family" and "son preference", "thrift and thrift" ideology, personality is also similar to the phoenix man, rural women's family will also meet a more macho father or other elders, they have long been accustomed to being disciplined. Therefore, rural women and phoenix men together will not be unable to stand phoenix men.
The fourth category, clever and powerful women
These girls have rebellious personalities and uncontrolled abilities. Because she has the ability to be out of the control of others, she can become a strong person. Her great weapon lies in her ability to speak eloquently, her ability to spot the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, and her ability to cope with it. This kind of girl meets a phoenix man, and she can also make the phoenix man stunned and obedient. Because she has a lot of ghost ideas and is elusive, therefore, in their eyes, the advantages and disadvantages of phoenix men are not a matter.
It can be seen from this that one thing drops one thing, and the phoenix man is not completely free of women to deal with. It's just that the girl is not the one who can get the phoenix man, and she has to weigh it herself. If you are one of these four types of girls, will you still be afraid of the shortcomings of the phoenix man? Moreover, the advantages and disadvantages are only relative, and it is not completely unchangeable or exploitable. It depends on the girl's ability.