The old house in the family is three stories high, the interior is full of terrazzo floors, the exterior is pasted with white tiles, and the courtyard is all paved with cement.
Because the whole family lives in the city, no one has returned since the Spring Festival. One day I went back to the old house, opened the door, and everyone was stunned there - I remember that after the Spring Festival, the yard was clean, but at the moment it was overgrown with grass, leaves on the ground, and a mess. There are many grasses that have grown to more than a meter tall.
The most amazing thing is that the grass grows almost entirely from the crevices of the cement floor. They protrude their heads from the narrow crevices and grow savagely. Cobwebs can be seen everywhere in the corners of the house.
There is no intention of investigating how the barnyard grass and cobwebs appeared in the house. However, an indisputable fact is that the longer you live in people's houses and places that are not cleaned, there will always be traces of cobwebs, and when there is soil, it will be overgrown with grass.
The old house is like this, and so is the woman's "atrium".
If you haven't been to her atrium in a long time. Then the seeds of barnyard grass will slowly take root in it. They should have been eradicated in the first place, but you didn't realize it. Quarrels, cold wars, daytime couples and night neighbors, lack of care, nourishment, etc. The contradictions between these couples will become the best fertilizer for the growth of barnyard grass. Without you being conscious, they grow day by day.
When a marriage is in crisis or breakup, we often don't understand the cause. Even felt that I was very good to her, why did I get to this point. We want to go back and trace back to the roots, but the grass grows too tall for our eyes to penetrate the cobwebs and foliage-strewn atrium. I can't see through it, so how to find out the root cause! The heart can't get any closer.
The grass in the old house was basically removed after more than an hour of effort. Because of the cement floor, the larger grass can only be uprooted, but its roots are left behind. The only way to make it not grow anymore is to live in the old house and clean the courtyard every day.
We can see the grass in the old house at a glance, and it is quick to remove it. However, the grass in the atrium is very hidden. It is so deep that it often occupies the atrium of the heart before we find out.
Even though we found out, the effort began to operate. Little by little, the barnyard grass in her heart was removed, but the roots that remained took a long time to be completely removed, and even remained there. If we take good care of it, we often go to the atrium to take care of it. These roots are just roots, and once we relax a bit, they will grow again.
When we often take care of it, the root has no environment to grow, and after a long time, it will fade until it can no longer grow.
Often go to her "atrium" to see, do not wait until the barnyard grass is overgrown, and then regret it.
The barnyard grass in the courtyard of the old house is easy to remove, but it is difficult in the atrium.
Why is a woman's "atrium" overgrown? Because you haven't taken care of it in a long time.