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Ruan Xinghang, "Lord Bao": The public trial of parent-child contradictions and the voices of children

author:Southern Metropolis Daily
Ruan Xinghang, "Lord Bao": The public trial of parent-child contradictions and the voices of children
Ruan Xinghang, "Lord Bao": The public trial of parent-child contradictions and the voices of children
Ruan Xinghang, "Lord Bao": The public trial of parent-child contradictions and the voices of children
Ruan Xinghang, "Lord Bao": The public trial of parent-child contradictions and the voices of children

Variety shows resumed work

After the boom in programs of cute babies and parent-child reality shows, the market is still waiting for new program formats to add firewood to parent-child programs. Guided by the Guangdong Provincial Department of Education, produced by the Pearl River Channel of Guangdong Radio and Television Station, hosted by Ruan Xinghang, and participated by Li Ruien, Young Master Dongshan, Zhang Ying and other parent-child celebrities, the 10-episode original parent-child variety show "People Are Small and Ghost" has landed on the mainland before the Spring Festival. During the epidemic period, the program was suspended for short time, and the program was re-recorded this Sunday (March 22), and the Audience was seen on time every Saturday at 21:40 on the Pearl River Channel.

Ruan Xinghang incarnated as "Bao Adult", through accepting children's complaints, eliciting the responses of parents, as well as the comments and suggestions of education experts and parent-child celebrities, to discuss intergenerational communication issues and family education topics. This is a positive energy variety show in which children grasp the right to speak and convey to the audience that children need to be fully listened to and innerly recognized. How to play a breakthrough in program mode and content innovation? Nandu reporters recently interviewed program host Ruan Xinghang, program producer Ruan Aihua and producer Yuan Minjie to listen to what they said.

Special feature writing: Nandu reporter Cai Liyi intern Lin Dongmiao

New mode:

Ancient style public hall style + modern parent-child issues

Nandu reporters previously found that the scene of the "People Are Small and Ghost Big" program restored the ancient public hall settings, and the gold medal host Ruan Xinghang incarnated as "Bao Daren" to preside over the "difficult family affairs" between children and parents. The program is divided into three parts: small bag appearance, small bag internship, and small bag case: in the "small bag appearance" link, five children have the courage to take over the "small bag adult", choose "what you like and hate most about adults" and other labels to interact with "bag adult"; "small bag internship" makes scene interaction according to the theme of each issue; "small bag break case" in the children and "bag adult" together to provide evidence, showing the real parent-child contradiction in each family, and sending out the children's voice. The program process is interspersed with interesting links such as children's complaints, expert comments, parental justification, and parent-child peace.

The new program model of "ancient style public hall style + modern parent-child issues" puts the right to speak into the hands of children, bringing a strong sense of variety and comedic effects to the audience. Ruan Xinghang said: "I will integrate the things I encounter in my life into the program, and I often feel that doing this show is like watching it for my two sons, and I will pay more attention to the parent-child topics and cases around me." Led by me, the show led the children to naturally integrate into the scene, which reflected my entertainment style. ”

Producer Yuan Minjie revealed that the program from the proposal, planning to the formation of more than a year, initially worried about the "parent-child education variety show" in the fierce Saturday program lack of competitiveness, and later because of the xinghang brother to join, the program not only has educational connotations, but also cloaked in the shell of entertainment, this way is very attractive to the audience. "Our program pays more attention to children's independent thinking skills. Brother Xinghang is the best candidate for the host of the show, because his listening ability is very good, and children will feel healed when chatting with Brother Xinghang. Brother Xinghang is very concerned about their emotional changes, and when children feel that they are concerned, they will be more willing to talk to Brother Xinghang about their voices that they dare not say at home. ”

Star Dad Reflection:

It is expected to build a new form of parent-child relationship

With the development of the times, the parents of the post-80s and 90s of the last century and the children of the 00s and 10s have a new parent-child contradiction, the expectations of parental education are higher, and the children's thinking is more precocious. Topics such as crazy tutoring homework, parents addicted to mobile phones, and over-reporting interest classes to children appear in the vision of the "People Are Small and Big" program group, and the difficulty of parent-child communication and the sparks that rub out of it are self-evident.

As the father of two naughty cute babies, the daily accompaniment education, especially the "painful experience" of staying at home with the baby's online classes, makes Ruan Xinghang experience and bitter water very much, he laughed and sighed: "Mainly the emotional control problem when getting along with children, it doesn't matter whether things are right or wrong, it is uncontrollable!" Fortunately, this show allows me to jump out of my own family, see the problems of other families and children, and make me constantly reflect on myself. What if you asked me about my parent-child tips? That is, as a parent, we must constantly reflect and think more. ”

For example, the most popular topic in the program are: children sued their mothers for often beating him, and the topic of "beating children" was exposed by the program, which triggered countless parent-child public accounts to issue hot arguments; some children talked about the topic of "respect", parents reported 13 interest classes for their children in one breath, and there was only five or six minutes of free time left every day; there was also a cow baby, his parents were busy, never had time to take care of him, he cooked rice on the interest class, the learning and life were handled in an orderly manner, and The star flight brother envied it. Or do you put a question mark from the bottom of your heart: if your parents give him very little, will there be a lack in the child's heart?

Not only children come to the "Fun Court", but also ordinary parents and star parents such as Li Rui'en, Young Master Dongshan, and Zhang Ying. "Xiao Enzi is an open education, she will not force the child, scold the child, she describes herself as a 'neurotic mother'; young master Dongshan will also have emotional control and 'father absent' problems in education; Zhang Ying said that the child is in a rebellious period, and after a fight with the child, she has reflection and decides to be friends with the child." After Ruan Xinghang listed the various troubles of the guests, he admitted frankly: "As Lord Bao, there should be a final judgment when judging the case, but there are many cases in the show, and we make an open-ended ending." Because parent-child cases may not have a final choice. After the children's complaints, expert suggestions and other links, I let the children boldly go to the peace room to talk to their parents about their ideas and put forward their own requirements. It is difficult to have practical changes in a short period of time. What the program group is looking forward to is to build a new form of parent-child relationship in the program that "children introspect, parents think in empathy, and learn from each other's respect".

Review process:

Start a new topic of "Campus Life"

During the epidemic period, the recording of "People And Ghosts" encountered trouble, some of the original parent-child celebrities could not come, the program could not be recorded on the spot, the program team carried out two "cloud recordings", focusing on hot topics such as "home-child relationship" and "children's online classes", which will be premiered this Saturday night. Yuan Minjie told Nandu reporter: "The program group reduced the number of participants on the spot and shared it through connecting families. Due to the relatively high technical requirements, the communication is not very smooth, but the parents involved in the recording are very cooperative, the camera has a problem to buy a camera, the network speed is not good, call the telecommunications company to ask for speed, etc. "The new issue of resuming live recording will discuss the issues of two-child families and campus life, and issues such as getting along between classmates, teachers' attitudes, and campus bullying will be put on the table for discussion."

"When we auditioned children, we chatted with the children, about 200 per batch. Many children think that they are participating in the talent show, when asked questions about their parents, they will be stunned, and even some children will cry, perhaps no one has ever asked them these questions: Are you satisfied with what your parents have done? Do you feel uncomfortable? Do you think there is a better way? As Ruan Aihua, director of "People And Ghosts", said, the program is an exploratory role, so that everyone has an "awareness" of the problem of parent-child education, and in the entertainment, there is also a positive energy of edutainment. At present, each platform has a lot of innovations and improvements in parent-child variety shows, which may lead parent-child programs into a new era.

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