Wen | a good pregnant sister
Some time ago, My mother shared with me something she couldn't let go of for a long time. When she first graduated from college, she and her current husband established a relationship, because contraception was not in place and she accidentally became pregnant. At that time, the two people considered that the economic foundation was poor, could not provide a good material life for the children, and thought that there would definitely be a second and third children in the future, so they "beat" the first child. Now she has a family and has her own children with her husband. However, when she thought of the unborn child, her heart was always troubled, and several times she woke up crying from sleep...
As people's minds have become open, we now hear more and more that whoever is pregnant and does not want to have children is directly "beaten off". It seems that beating up a child is an easy task. However, in fact, at any time, women should be cautious about "beating" the child. Especially for women's first child, it is best not to "beat off", otherwise they may bear these three bitter fruits and really can't afford to hurt.
The first child is of great significance to women, and rushing to beat it may leave a lifelong shadow
When a woman first learns that she is pregnant, she has a change in her mentality, and she begins to imagine herself as a mother, which is a wonderful feeling. Perhaps women themselves do not realize the importance of the first child, and feel that "beating" the child is just a small operation. However, when the surgery is completed, it still has a certain impact on women's psychology.
Just like the mother above, she mentioned that when she was young, she recklessly and easily deprived a child of the right to come to this world, and the more she thought about it, the more guilty she became, so that it was difficult to let go. If she has not been able to think about this matter and has been immersed in self-blame and sadness, she may be depressed and leave a lifelong shadow.
Increase the chance of gynecological diseases, and then it is more difficult to have children
A woman's uterus is very fragile, sending away a life, and the potential risks brought by it cannot be ignored. Improper operation during surgery, caused by sequelae; women's body immunity declines, bacteria, viruses take advantage of the void, etc., will make women increase the chance of gynecological diseases.
When women are pregnant with their first child, they are relatively young, their uterus is relatively healthy, and it seems easier to get pregnant. However, if you suffer from certain gynecological diseases, it will be more difficult to have children in the future, and there may be long-term infertility or habitual miscarriage during pregnancy. Therefore, as long as women want to give birth to children smoothly in the future, the first child is best to stay.
In a short period of time, it is not suitable for pregnancy
Women have had a fetus, the body needs a recovery period, and those with poor physical condition may not be suitable for a year and a half to prepare for pregnancy again. If the woman is in her early 20s and has time to wait and get pregnant, having a baby will not be affected. If you are a woman around the age of 30, when the body recovers and has children, it is possible to miss the best period of childbearing. Therefore, if you do not plan to have a child, it is best to do a good job of contraception, but accidentally pregnant, it is recommended that the first child stay.
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