Before leaving work, his girlfriend Nan nan called and said unhappily:
"Xie Xiaoyuan, do you know that I have a birthday today, and I have a gift ready?"
My head "buzzed" a loud sound, this thing ah, I simply forgot, eyes aimed at the wall clock, fortunately, there are still 5 minutes to leave work, buy gifts in time.
As he was packing up his things, the director came over and said, "Xiao Yuan, notify the customer, and meet again tomorrow to discuss the cooperation matter." ”
"Okay." Responding to emergencies is my strength Xie Xiaoyuan, and his head quickly turns around - first notify the customer, and then go to buy gifts.
Just saw Zhang Lei passing by, Zhang Lei is also a business representative, and those customers are also familiar, it is better to let him inform me on my behalf.
I handed him the customer's phone, "Please, I'll help you on your girlfriend's birthday."
Zhang Lei said, "Be well, you can go with confidence." ”
My girlfriend was so happy that night that she hugged me and kissed me again and again, making my bones crisp.
The next day the class teacher asked, "What time can the customer come?" I quickly asked Zhang Lei: "How' it goes, did you notify me?" What time is it? ”
Zhang Lei's eyes were empty, and he cried out:
"I... I forgot. I rushed to hand over the plan yesterday", under the director's stern eyes, I quickly dialed the customer's phone.
The customer said, "I'm sorry, I've already made arrangements for today, the day after tomorrow." ”
But I knew that the day after tomorrow the director was on a business trip.
The director glared at me and walked into his office.
I regretted it in my heart, I really shouldn't have handed it over to Zhang Lei, but who could have predicted that Zhang Lei would forget things.
Zhang Lei said guiltily: "Xie Xiaoyuan, I'm sorry. ”
I said, "I don't blame you, I blame myself." Zhang Lei was even more embarrassed.
After a while, the director came over and said: "Xie Xiaoyuan, get ready, we will go to the customer's unit in the afternoon, etc., just when the other party has an hour of space." ”
Walking on the road with the director, I said, "Director, I'm sorry for what happened in the morning, it's my fault... I should be responsible for the end, even if I let Zhang Lei replace it, I should also implement whether he has noticed in place. ”
The director said: "You don't realize that it is your responsibility to contact customers, and finding someone to replace it is disrespectful to customers anyway." Since it is a responsibility, it cannot be passed on to others to bear. ”
I fell into contemplation, responsibility, from a young age to listen to the habit, but in life, often fade away, and used to blame others when they make mistakes, they do not admit mistakes.
Now, in the workplace, no one is my scapegoat, and I have to take responsibility for myself.
After a month, the director wanted to take me to Beijing to talk about business.
Every day is a social drink, and I am afraid that I am not strong enough to drink.
On the third night, dinner was arranged with a client.
It just so happened that a few classmates in Beijing set up a banquet for me, and I thought to myself, I can hide once and count it once.
I asked the director for permission to leave and let me go to the alumni association.
The director asked unhappily, "Xie Xiaoyuan, what do you say we came to Beijing for this time?" ”
"Meet the customer." "You've forgotten your responsibilities again. We have a full day to stay after we talk about business, when you have plenty of time to go to class reunions. ”
I muttered, and the director's tone suddenly rose, "You can go to the classmates association, but if you go today, you won't have to go to work when you go back." ”
The director's hard words made me very uncomfortable, is this not clearly posing a threat? If there is anything rare, the person who leaves will leave.
Just when I wanted to pull out my feet and leave as if I were dead, I stopped, because I saw that the director did not allow me to answer, and I had already turned around and walked out.
The room was quiet and I calmed down.
After drinking a glass of water, I sent a text message to the director telling him that I had decided to go with him to meet the client.
Along the way, I was not happy, anyway, a little bit of being kidnapped by the director.
Being forced to do something you don't like is, of course, uncomfortable.
Unexpectedly, there was no wine at the banquet that day, and it turned out that the director learned in advance that this customer did not like to drink, and specially arranged to eat Western food.
I ate very easily that day, and I gave it a single in the conversation.
When I came out, the director quietly said to me, "You see, you can do things without drinking." ”
I finally learned that some responsibility, as long as you dare to take it, is not a terrible thing.
In the taxi back to the hotel, the director has been teaching me how not to let yourself get drunk or drink less at the banquet, and laugh from time to time.
None of us mentioned the unpleasant thing during the day.
But at that moment, I realized some of the qualities in the director, which were sparkling.
He himself doesn't want to be drunk, so he will study not to let himself get drunk or drink less;
But he doesn't run away, doesn't see customers, doesn't accompany him to dinner.
This is the thin and thin concept of responsibility that I still lack.
When you choose to undertake, you will think about the next thing: how to better assume it, and learn experience and skills from it.
In the workplace, no one is your scapegoat, and you have to take responsibility for yourself.
When you greet it with your shoulders, you will find that it is actually a precious "gift". (Text/Xie Xiaoyuan)
People are afraid to face responsibility and take responsibility.
Acknowledging mistakes and taking responsibility is often associated with accepting punishment.
In fact, the courage to bear the benefits are far greater than the escape.
Sometimes, it is the key to promotion in the workplace.
In the workplace, no one is your scapegoat, and you have to take responsibility for yourself.
If you evade responsibility, you may be gone.
The tolerance of the boss and the boss is limited, and if you avoid more, you will be derelict in your duties.
Sometimes, when you choose to take responsibility, you will think about the next thing.
For example, looking for coping skills, how to better bear.
At the same time, bosses and bosses will not watch their subordinates being completely crushed, and will use their experience to deal with it, at which point they can learn experience and skills and improve their coping skills.
Indeed, if you meet your responsibilities with your shoulders, you will find that it is actually a precious "gift".
This is actually the dialectic of life, which is very effective for the tempering of the mind.
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