Venus once said on the show that there was a female star in the entertainment industry who once knelt down to the director for her little fresh meat boyfriend.
And bluntly said in the program: "As soon as a male star in your circle became popular, he turned his face and abandoned his elderly girlfriend who had knelt down to ask for a play for her." ”
As soon as this passage came out, netizens speculated about who the ruthless and senseless boyfriend in Venus's mouth really was.
Later, many people said that Venus's words diss were Sun Honglei.
The eldest sister who was abandoned inside was Ding Jiali.
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In 1959, Ding Jiali was born into an ordinary family in Jiamusi City, Heilongjiang Province.
Because Ding Jiali was born with a skin disease, coupled with the fact that her parents at that time still had some patriarchal ideas, her parents felt that they could not feed her with the conditions of the family, and did not want to waste money and energy on her, so they gave her away.
Fortunately, although she came from a pitiful background, she met a very good adoptive parent.
Even if the adoptive parents have a daughter in the family, but it is also very good for her sister, it can be said that although Ding Jiali's original family is not good, she is still very lucky.
Her adoptive mother is a drama actor, her grandparents are comedians, she grew up in an acting atmosphere since she was a child, and she unconsciously planted the seeds of acting in her heart.
Once on TV, "Red Lantern" was broadcast, and the little Ding Jiali imitated it while watching it, like a small actor.
Slowly, as Ding Jiali grew up, she fell in love with acting.
But her adoptive mother was very opposed to her being an actress.
In the sixties and seventies, many people were not optimistic about the profession of actor, many people also called actors "drama", coupled with the unstable income of actors, it was still very hard, as a member of the actor industry, Ding Jiali's adoptive mother knew the hardships.
Hearing Ding Jiali say that she wanted to be an actor, her adoptive mother said angrily:
"I'm doing this line of work, not pensioning, not raising a child, you do this all day, there is no interest at all!"
Her adoptive mother hoped that she would become a doctor, with a decent and stable job, but Ding Jiali was determined to take the road of acting, and the university was directly admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
In fact, being admitted to university was really a happy thing at that time, and it was also very promising.
Unexpectedly, when Ding Jiali arrived at the university, she let go of herself.
During college, she not only had a boyfriend, but she was also pregnant when she graduated.
You know, getting pregnant before marriage was a big taboo at that time, and Ding Jiali was also scolded by many people as "shameless".
"People who don't love themselves, who will like you!"
The young Ding Jiali did not dare to tell her parents at the first time after she became pregnant, so she called her boyfriend, but the other party not only did not want to be responsible, but also said that she did not love herself and did not know the inspection.
The boyfriend's indifference hurt Ding Jiali fiercely, and she decided to take the child away.
She found a clinic by herself, and the whole process was very uncomfortable for Ding Jiali, and the result was another ridicule from the doctor.
"Now that I know it hurts, why did I go earlier, don't face it!"
This time, she was scolded and cried, and she was also scolded to wake up, and she was determined to do a good job.
So she just finished her miscarriage and went to shoot the first work of her acting career, "The First Woman in the Mountains and Forests".
The filming process was very painful, because she had to shoot in the conditions of more than 40 degrees below zero, which was a big burden for her body, and she also suffered from gynecological diseases.
However, the path she chose, gritting her teeth, she had to finish it, and she did her best to shoot this drama.
Facts have also proved that she chose to act and chose to insist that there is nothing wrong with it.
In 1986, the 29-year-old Ding Jiali won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress for her role in her debut work.
The first work won the award, Ding Jiali's acting career, the start is not too good.
What is even more unexpected is that Ding Jiali, who started well, is getting better and better.
In 1991, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress again for the film "New Year".
In 1993, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress for "NoBody Applauds".
Later, with her superb acting skills, she won many awards such as the Golden Rooster Award, the Hundred Flowers Award, and the Feitian Award, and completely became a big coffee level in the show business circle.
But her career is booming, but in her emotional life, she has fallen again and again and her head has broken and bleeds.
Some people say that the beginning of things represents the end.
This sentence to describe Ding Jiali is really very appropriate.
As soon as the career began to win the award, it became more and more smooth, but emotionally, the blow of the first love also made Ding Jiali's emotional life full of ups and downs.
After Ding Jiali starred in her debut film, she married the actor Hu Guangchuan.
Originally, the two people went for a long time, but it didn't take long for the two people to divorce, or when Ding Jiali was pregnant.
The reason for the divorce is also to shock everyone.
It turned out that after getting married, Ding Jiali couldn't stand loneliness and cheated!
After Hu Guangchuan knew, he also cheated, and even found a woman 10 years older than him, saying bluntly when Ding Jiali was pregnant:
"I'm just going to get revenge on you!"
In this way, the marriage of two people cannot go on.
Later, her second husband was a university lecturer, and this time Ding Jiali learned the lessons of her last marriage and wanted to live a good life.
Unexpectedly, this time, it was the husband who cheated!
Both of them originally had sons, but the husband fell in love with his students, and finally the two went through the divorce procedures on the day of their son's full moon.
Feelings have been hit hard again and again, Ding Jiali originally did not want to have any entanglement with men to continue to concentrate on acting, but she met Sun Honglei again.
In 1999, Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei, who was 11 years younger than her, met for the drama "Madame Curie".
At that time, Ding Jiali was already the eldest sister of the show business circle, and Sun Honglei was just an unknown small actor.
But the two people are in love, and Ding Jiali even loves the "crazy devil".
It is said that originally Ding Jiali was a little concerned about Sun Honglei being 11 years younger than herself, but Sun Honglei did not care and pursued Ding Jiali poorly.
Not only often comforting Ding Jiali who has concerns, but also taking care of Ding Jiali everywhere.
Ding Jiali was sick and hospitalized, Sun Honglei would boil chicken soup, personally run to the hospital to take care of Ding Jiali, and feed her chicken soup one bite at a time.
Such a warm and caring man, a little bit touched Ding Jiali's closed heart.
Sun Hong Redding Carrie was together.
Interestingly, Sun Honglei's career was booming during the period after he fell in love with Ding Jiali.
In 1999, Sun Honglei's first TV series "Never Look Away" was broadcast, and in the same year, he starred in the film "My Father and Mother" directed by Zhang Yimou, which was also his film debut.
Then in 2000, he joined the crew of "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", and this drama was also the first work that made Sun Honglei fire.
And the timing of these contents seems to be the content after meeting Ding Jiali.
In this regard, many people said that Sun Honglei borrowed Ding Jiali's light.
After all, at that time, Ding Jiali was called "big sister" in the show business circle, and it was normal to find resources for Sun Honglei.
There are rumors that in order to ask for resources for Sun Honglei, Ding Jiali once knelt down to a certain director, and even added drama in the play.
And the resources in it are said to be "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", and the director is Zhao Baogang.
Many people are convinced of this statement between the two.
The main reason is that Venus said in the show that the big sister in the circle was abandoned after being used by small fresh meat.
For this reason, many people say that Sun Honglei is a scumbag, abandoning Ding Jiali, saying that Ding Jiali is blind again and is used up by her 11-year-old boyfriend.
But is that really the case?
In fact, about Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali, the above story of taking the opportunity to take the position and losing it when it is used up is the most rumored.
But in reality, the truth is not so simple.
In 1998, when Sun Honglei was filming "My Father and Mother", he was dumped by his girlfriend who had been in love for 3 and a half years.
The following year, Sun Honglei, who was emotionally injured, met Ding Jiali, who was also derailed.
At that time, The eldest Ding Jiali took good care of this younger brother who was 11 years younger than herself, Sun Honglei had kidney stones because of filming fatigue, and Ding Jiali did not take care of him less.
The two people take care of each other and come and go together.
Although Sun Honglei was not very popular at that time, there was a certain gap between his status in the circle and Ding Jiali, but he was not as depressed as the rumors said.
First of all, in terms of money, Sun Honglei has already relied on breakdancing in the northeast before entering the show business circle, and his income is very good, and he himself has bluntly said in the show:
"Breakdancing makes me rich."
In his acting career, before cooperating with Ding Jiali in the drama "Marie Curie", he was already the male protagonist of three dramas.
Only later, "Marie Curie" won the award, so that many people paid more attention to the story of Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei.
Coupled with the subsequent various heats of Sun Honglei's career, coupled with the rumor that Ding Jiali knelt down for Sun Honglei and begged Zhao Baogang, it made the relationship between the two people more interesting and more attractive.
Before this rumor, Sun Honglei actually cooperated with Zhao Baogang, that is, the 1998 film "Never Look Away", sun Honglei, who had not yet met Ding Jiali at that time, Sun Honglei already knew Zhao Baogang.
Zhao Baogang also has a lot of recognition for Sun Honglei's acting skills, and sun Honglei's first film was also set during the filming of this drama.
The role of Alai played by Sun Honglei in "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind" was originally a role specially written by Zhao Baogang for Sun Honglei.
Therefore, Ding Jiali asked for resources for Sun Honglei to kneel down to director Zhao Baogang, which really needs to be examined.
After all, whether it is Venus's claims or anecdotal rumors, there has been no evidence of this matter.
The reason why everyone said that Ding Jiali was miserable and Sun Honglei was a scumbag was because he proposed to Ding Jiali to break up, and turned his head and fought with Gong Li.
In 2003, Sun Honglei and Gong Li were photographed many times visiting supermarkets and dating together, and in the eyes of outsiders, he did not care about Ding Jiali, who was desperately pulling resources for him.
Even, Sun Honglei bluntly said in the interview that he admired Gong Li.
One is Ding Jiali, who is 11 years older, and the other is Gong Li, a beautiful woman of comparable age, so in contrast, Ding Jiali, who was broken up, seems to be a little miserable.
Originally, everyone thought that Ding Jiali had found the right person this time, but unfortunately, Sun Honglei was not her good person after all.
Many people said that Ding Jiali was dumped, and it was Sun Honglei who floated, and felt that the two were no longer a good match.
But in fact, whether it is money or fame, it is not the main factor affecting the feelings of two people.
It can only be said that Sun Honglei did not love Ding Jiali enough.
The two of them did have a warm feeling for each other, and during the period when the other's feelings were most frustrated, they took care of each other and cared for each other.
But this kind of emotion, in the end, is different from passionate love.
Sun Honglei knew this, so after meeting Gong Li, who made his heart hot, he chose to break up.
But Ding Jiali seems to have fallen into a little deeper, and has not come out of this relationship.
So much so that later when she mentioned Sun Honglei, her words were more or less sad and resentful, and she didn't even want to say the name.
Now it seems that the public sees the past between Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei, which is not comprehensive.
It can even be said that over the years, Ding Jiali's being stepped on by Sun Honglei is an illusion.
And whether this is Ding Jiali's injury too deep, her heart can't let go, or a smear hype of love and hate, the truth may only be known by Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei.
Cheating, being cheated on, being broken up, the love life of the film queen Ding Jiali, it is really lamentable.
Obviously, whether she is in terms of looks or career, Ding Jiali is not bad, why has she not had a happy relationship?
It can only be said that from the beginning of the college relationship, she was not responsible for herself, and there was one abortion, and there was a second.
In this way, in a certain program, she openly said that she had a total of 4 abortions before and after.
Her body also suffered a lot of pain because of the failure to recover from multiple abortions.
Her heart has also completely closed the door of her heart because of repeated failed feelings, and she is still single.
Fortunately, she still has a pair of children.
Recently, Ding Jiali's daughter Hu Linna contributed wonderful acting skills in the hit drama "Meritorious Service", because she could not give birth to a male baby and was abused by Li Dazui, who was interpreted by her.
In addition, she also starred in The Great Order in "Xiaguang" directed by Mao Weining.
Because Ding Jiali divorced when her daughter was 2 years old, she only met her twice in the 15 years that her daughter was growing up.
Later, when her daughter became an adult, she and Ding Jiali said that she wanted to be an actor. At first, Ding Jiali disagreed, because she knew how hard it was to be an actor, and it was not as beautiful as others saw.
But because of her daughter's insistence, Ding Jiali finally agreed.
The mother and daughter now have a good relationship and often get together.
Although Ding Jiali's son rarely appears in the public eye, as a mother, who can not love her children?
Now, she has not been looking for her other half, so her children are her closest people.
Of course, in addition to family affection and unsmooth love, Ding Jiali has not given up her career.
Even at the age of 60, she's still acting, and last year she played a vicious mother who sucked her daughter's blood in "An Family."
Although she is older, her acting skills are still online, and her mouth is a million, playing the son-preference mother to the fullest.
This year, she has starred in the movie "Hello, Li Huanying" and the TV series "Good Day", all of which have left a deep impression.
It can be said that in acting, even if Ding Jiali plays a supporting role, she can perfectly show her characteristics.
Skillful acting skills are Ding Jiali's professional confidence.
Maybe her love life is a mess, but she has never given up acting and given up the career she loves.
In fact, if she can love herself more when she is young, her love life will not be so miserable, and her career achievements may be more.
Unfortunately, in the end, when I was young, I was too obsessed with love and did not love myself well.
In this regard, many people say that Ding Jiali's emotional bad life in the first half of her life was her own doing, and she was unmarried and pregnant, and she was cheating.
But in fact, the reason is that Ding Jiali is just too short of love.
She has been abandoned by her biological parents since birth, although her adoptive parents are okay with her, but after all, she is not biological, and her interpretation of love is much worse after all.
Therefore, when she grows up, Ding Jiali will be so "childish" in love.
If others treat her better, she can ignore herself and even be dragged by the other party regardless of morality.
Many people Ding Jiali had abortions and cheated, thinking that she was not self-loving, and some even called her "female moral spokesperson".
But after reading her story, we know that she is also a poor person.
What's more, she also suffered a lot for her improper behavior, and only hoped that after reading her story, everyone could be more emotionally vigilant about herself and not lose herself for love.
Otherwise, it is still yourself who suffers after all!
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【Wen | Nine Falls】
【Editor| Zhiyu】