Parents sent messages in the group in the middle of the night, saying that the child only scored 24 points in mathematics this time, and the teacher also commented on "cheering for you", and he was too anxious to sleep, asking everyone if there was a good tutoring class recommendation? Many people are recommending tutoring classes for their children, but there are also sober people who remind this parent to find the reason first.
There is definitely a reason for the sudden decline in children's grades, and the first thing parents need to do is to find the reason for the decline in grades, rather than rushing to enroll their children in cram classes. If the reason is found and then think of a way, the effect will be much better, otherwise it will not help to apply for cram school.
There are certainly reasons for the sudden decline in a child's grades, and in general there are the following reasons:
1. The family environment has changed. The family environment has a great impact on children's learning, if there is a sudden conflict between family members in the near future, quarrels continue, children's learning is bound to be greatly affected.
2. The child's environment around the school has changed. Minors lack self-control, and if the people around him suddenly become unlearned, or are exposed to something new, the child will certainly be distracted.
3, the child's thinking fluctuated. Minors' thought fluctuations are very common, children see or hear something they do not approve of, may have a thousand thoughts, and over time will lead to learning can not keep up. In addition, it is also necessary to consider whether the child has early love, whether there is a lack of interest in learning, etc.
4, because of a certain thing criticized by the teacher, leading the child to think that the teacher is biased, dislike the teacher will directly lead to the child does not like learning.
There must be a reason for the sudden decline in children's grades, parents can refer to the above cause analysis, and then find the reason. Before finding the reason, do not blindly report for class tuition, after all, it costs money to report for class tuition, and it also consumes a lot of energy of children, if the reason is not found, it will only lead to waste of money, waste of time, and the grades may decline even more.
Find a good conversation with the child, understand the child's inner truest thoughts, if it is because of the change in the learning environment, it is necessary for parents to change or go to the teacher to communicate and improve, parents should be good at guiding the child from the positive to face the problems encountered.
1, if it is because of the family environment changes, parents should self-reflect, family conflicts are normal, but must avoid minors, although we think that children do not understand things, do not need to avoid, but in fact, the current children are very sensitive. Family conflicts can directly lead to children not wanting to learn, or even giving up on themselves.
2. If the child's performance declines due to various problems in the school, parents should actively communicate with the class teacher or the teaching teacher. Parents do not worry because communication will lead to teachers have ideas, most teachers want to communicate with parents, communication is smooth, teacher management will be much smoother, teachers do not want to see children's grades suddenly decline. As long as the communication is in place, I believe that the teacher will be able to help the child solve some problems.
3, if it is because of the fluctuation of early love and other thoughts, parents should actively guide their children to deal with the problem correctly, and tell their children that this is a normal psychological phenomenon of adolescence, which everyone will experience. Children need to transform the budding of adolescence into the power of friendship and study hard, so that the future can be expected.
There must be a reason for the fact that for the sudden decline in children's academic performance, parents do not have to panic too much. What parents need to do is to calm down and think, help their children find the reason for the decline in grades, and then be targeted, if necessary, they can arrange to enroll in classes. In this way, the problem of the sudden decline in children's academic performance can be fundamentally solved.