#Life has a temperature#A village old man, who has tasted all the hardships of the world in his life, spent three years waiting for his grandson to talk to him, looking forward to it all the time, so he called him a "grandpa" Finally in September 2020, his grandson said the first words to him: "Grandpa, I want to eat"
The old man's name is Lu Jing (pseudonym), because of the disability of the eye, one eye can not see, short, the family is poor and young has not found a partner, when he was 45 years old, the villagers let him spend money to go to Yunnan to buy a daughter-in-law, at that time because the government expropriated land near the hillside, Lu Jing's family has several acres of land within the scope of expropriation, Lu Jing can receive about 2500 yuan of land subsidies every year, plus the previous crop harvest, there are about twenty thousand savings in his hand, relatives and friends also advised him to find a daughter-in-law no matter what.
Lu Jing had to help his relatives and friends, and a person who had bought a daughter-in-law in Yunnan got in touch, he also went to inquire about how this person and he bought back to get a daughter-in-law, the people in the village also know better, said that it can be the same as a normal couple, Lu Jing once again understood, he went to the person to ask about buying a daughter-in-law, the person told him: "In fact, it is said that it is not completely a business to buy a daughter-in-law, there are many people who are deceitful, this kind of thing is against the law, if you really buy a daughter-in-law for the living area, you have to consider it carefully. There are a lot of families over there that are more difficult than you and me, in order to reduce the burden, parents buy their daughters to foreigners as wives, some women are voluntary, some are forced by the family, and now some people over there also set up bureaus to let you spend money to buy a daughter-in-law, and you give money to the woman and run away."
Lu Jing after a few days of deliberation decided or buy a daughter-in-law, their family a single line, parents are also dead, they always have to stay after, so they bought a train ticket to Yunnan, after many transfers to a good place to contact, waiting for the connector to bring a woman over, to Yunnan the next day and the connector met, the connector brought three women to let him choose, Lu Jing asked some situations and prices, and finally chose a similar figure to him, the 28-year-old girl connector said: "The introduction fee of two thousand is mine, She's ten thousand dollars you go to his parents, she'll take you to his house, I'll go first, and then leave
Lu Jing was afraid of the clothes he had spent money to buy and ran away, and on the way to the girl's house, he kept holding the girl's hand deadly, and when he arrived at the girl's home, he gave the money to the girl's parents, and the girl's parents were reluctant to explain some words, and Lu Jing rushed back to his hometown with the girl
Lu Jing who returned to his hometown is also full of spirits, now he is also a person with a wife, back home he is ready to do a wedding banquet, because the girl's household registration problem can not handle the marriage certificate, so he will do the banquet first, the girl does not have too many opinions Everything is Lu Jing's decision, the next year Lu Jing became a father, the girl also adapted to this side of life, Lu Jing every day beautifully hugged his son and took his daughter-in-law to chat
But when the child was four years old, the daughter-in-law who bought it ran away with another man, which made him extremely angry, life is also worse, it is understood that the girl has known many people in the vicinity in the six years of living with Lu Jing, and also learned that Lu Jing is actually poor, there is also a Yunnan daughter-in-law in the next village, the living conditions are very good, after all, a place comes out, the two have not broken contact since they knew each other, and then heard the villagers say that there are families in the town not far from them to buy a daughter-in-law, come to her man to inquire, The fellow jokingly said to the girl, "You might as well go and talk to him!" What has been wasted with Lu Jing! The man's size of the small restaurant in the town is also a boss, that is, the lack of an arm, with him how to be more moist than your current life" The girl listened to it not long after running to the restaurant in the town with the owner of the missing arm, Lu Jing also went to find it, and the two also scolded and fought, but there was no marriage certificate, and finally confessed
In this way, Lu Jing was aggrieved and bitter to raise his son, because the family was poor and lacked maternal love, Lu Jing was usually a Muna person, the son's personality was too honest, and his study was not good, and he dropped out of school early to go to work
Lu Jing was 65 years old when his son got married and had children, but did not expect what happened later, so that he could not accept and more sad, the son lost five or six hundred thousand because of online gambling, originally relying on the father and son's five years of part-time work income to get married and buy a house to borrow almost paid off, now suddenly owe hundreds of thousands, and the grandson is only three years old, the daughter-in-law has a strong personality and cannot tolerate a little sand
When the son and daughter-in-law confessed everything, Lu Jing silently prayed in his heart that the daughter-in-law would not say anything about divorce, and asked him to do anything, but the daughter-in-law was furious after hearing it, saying that it was necessary to divorce, Lu Jing did not divorce his son and daughter-in-law, pulled down his old face to ask for relatives and friends to intercede, looking for relatives and friends to borrow money, under Lu Jing's many efforts, the daughter-in-law also lost a little anger, so after two years, Lu Jing was almost 70 years old, and he basically did not want to go to the factory to find a job, and it was difficult to find a job. Monthly salary is also more than two thousand, the son because of many years to do a kind of work, learn some technology can have a monthly salary of about six thousand, daughter-in-law at home with children, because the son of the online gambling daughter-in-law resolutely do not go to work, or divorce, these two years Lu Jing is also affected by relatives and friends, relatives of the family's words, no way he can only carry
With the grandson can go to kindergarten, they found that the grandson can only be called by his father and mother, other words have not been said, they also think that it is late to talk, until the age of six or do not speak, then Lu Jing quickly let his son take his grandson to do the examination, the county hospital said to go to Nanjing Children's Hospital to find a specialist for examination or treatment, there is no money in hand to borrow, Lu Jing is also a 70-year-old man, the son is still in debt, who is willing to lend him money, so the east and west are more than ten thousand
Went to Nanjing to find an expert to check, the body is fine but there are mental and mental problems, experts understand the grandson's living environment and habits, and it is obtained that the grandson has congenital autism symptoms, need to be hospitalized for professional psychological counseling and other aspects of treatment, the early preparation of fifty thousand late use and then say
The family that was originally poor, where to get so much money now, just when everyone was worried about money, the daughter-in-law proposed a divorce and had to leave, how to persuade it was not OK, the daughter-in-law thought that all this was caused by their father and son, and after two months, she went to the court to sue for divorce, Lu Jing was also angry, and it was impossible to ask for it, so it was impossible to leave anyway, the son was also a non-detachable attitude, and he would not do thanklessness
Daughter-in-law left, the son had to go out to work in order to live, Lu Jing accompanied his grandson alone, there was no money to go to the hospital for treatment, Lu Jing went to inquire about various folk remedies for autism, tried many kinds of soil methods were ineffective, the old people in the village also advised him to calculate, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, this is all fate, you are all old and let him go, if you can talk, it is best not to be like this, Lu Jing angrily said that his grandson could not speak but only said later, In this way, Lu Jing made all kinds of strange movements and said strange things in front of his grandson like a clown every day, just in order to lure his grandson to speak, some people in the village said that Lu Jing was crazy, and some people pitied him to persuade him not to go on like this, but Lu Jing did not give up and always believed that his grandson would say, he could laugh with his grandson, he could hear his grandson calling him grandfather
Time flies, a blink of an eye grandson is nine years old, Lu Jing also gave his grandson nine birthdays, March 16 is the grandson's birthday, but also Lu Jing is most looking forward to the day, he thinks that the grandson will call him grandpa on that day, he will also make a wish for the grandson to hope that he can speak sooner
At noon on September 13, Lu Jing took his grandson to play in the courtyard in front of his home as usual, because he was older, lu Jing felt tired for a while, so he sat by the wall and rested, watching his grandson playing with cars in the courtyard, and he fell asleep for a while, when he heard "Grandpa, I want to eat", he won at once, he saw his grandson standing in front of him, his eyes staring at him, he hurriedly asked "Good grandson, are you talking to me?" The grandson did not answer him, nor did he nod and shake his head, Lu Jing was very uncomfortable in his heart, thinking that it was his own delusion, he touched the grandson's head in frustration and said, "It's all noon, Grandpa, fry an egg for you to eat" After saying that, he was about to get up, at this time the grandson pulled Lu Jing's clothes and shook and said, "Grandpa, I want to eat" Lu Jing looked up sharply at his grandson, he saw the grandson open his mouth and said, "Grandpa, I want to eat" Suddenly he fell on the wall, excitedly did not know how to answer Tears wanted to gush out like spring water, Tears made Lu Jing, who was already able to see clearly with one eye, look at the vague grandson, like a dream, he hurriedly slapped himself hard, the pain made him know that this was not a dream, he immediately asked the grandson: "What do you want to eat, Grandpa do it for you" The grandson smiled and said: "Grandpa, I want to eat" Although it is still the same, but in Lu Jing's ears, it is the sound of nature
Lu Jing quickly took out his elderly mobile phone to call his son to inform him to come back quickly, the grandson could speak, Lu Jing's son thought that his father was talking nonsense, no matter what, he also took a leave of absence to go back to see
The son returned home at the door to hear, the father is talking, and there is the voice of the child, Teng ran to the house, saw the father and son painting, the father has been talking, the son will occasionally talk back, then he believes that the son can talk, the next day the father and son with the child to find the expert to inquire about the situation, after a week of examination experts told Lu Jing, as long as he can let his grandson keep talking and communicate with people, in the regular psychological counseling, should be able to cure the grandson's autism
Lu Jing got a reply from the expert, and also asked his son to write down the matters of attention and some suggestions of the expert, he was afraid that he would not remember when the time came to affect the recovery of his grandson
When Lu Jing returned home from Nanjing, he packed his bags and prepared to live with his son to his place of work, so that the family could treat his grandson better together, and he did not understand his son and did not have to run around
After two years, now Lu Mingming (grandson's name) is in the second grade of primary school, Lu Jing is also 73 years old, in his own words: "I have suffered all the sufferings in my life until now, I have complaints, but tomorrow I can speak and want me to suffer any kind of sin, I will not say a word of complaint."
Life is ordinary, suffering is tempered, so it is good to be unashamed.
This article mentions that the purchase of a daughter-in-law is a crime, whether voluntarily or forced
I hope that everyone will abide by the law and discipline and be a good citizen.