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After 9 years of watching "Chunjiao and Zhiming", I have different feelings, I always felt that Zhiming (Yu Wenle) was a scumbag, just like Chunjiao's (Yang Qianwei) friend said, is a bastard, but now I just think that Zhiming and Chunjiao are really inappropriate.
When Chunjiao's mother celebrated her birthday, Zhiming was drinking and chatting with friends, and talked about going to Beijing to develop, so he completely forgot about giving Chunjiao's mother a birthday.
And Chunjiao, who accompanied her mother, just ate that birthday dinner normally and emotionally, and then returned home, threw a box of shrimp dumplings on the coffee table, and waited for Zhiming to come home and observe, and then come back to her.
Obviously, when Zhiming returned home and saw the shrimp dumplings on the table, he naturally remembered that he had forgotten something big, so he quickly apologized, hoping to get Chunjiao's forgiveness.
Chunjiao only asked some things about Zhiming's memory that was very, very strong, and Zhiming also answered honestly, which also made Chunjiao confirm that she was angry for reason, because Zhiming remembered the results of the previous game, but did not remember that today was her mother's birthday.
Immediately after, Zhiming talked about the possibility that he was going to work in Beijing, and Chunjiao said "Oh", and the two were so vague.
Later, Zhiming promised to accompany Chunjiao to go out to play, and as a result, Zhiming chose to combine work and dating into one, and also gave Chunjiao's roasted chicken wings to customers to eat first.
Chunjiao went to find Zhiming with emotions, and the two people broke up unhappily, and Chunjiao moved back to her mother's house on the same day.
Zhiming went to find Chunjiao, but Chunjiao disappeared, until Zhiming was on the way to Beijing, he gave Chunjiao a call, the two people could not say breakup, but also knew that it was actually the result.
Zhang Zhiming did this really excessively, not remembering his girlfriend's mother's birthday, confusing work and dating, treating his girlfriend as a free maid, etc., how to see that he is not a competent boyfriend, but what about Chunjiao?
Like a mother, he loves, spoils, and habitually uses Zhiming, and when Zhiming makes a mistake and makes him angry, like his mother educating his son, there is no lover's appearance between the two at all.
If it is not the back of the film, there are some memories, and the high-sweet dramas of the two people's old love rekindling, I really can't see that this is a couple, but like a mother and son.
It is said that every man has a little boy living in his heart, but let this little boy become a spice for feelings, or add to his own blockage, it depends on how he handles this relationship, right?
But unfortunately, Chunjiao always endlessly allows Zhiming to block her.
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When I watched this film before, I didn't remember Sam (Xu Zheng), but when I repainted it, he said a sentence that made me remember deeply: The past is not mentioned, and we will live well in the next life.
Sam is a successful, divorced old man, and the scene of meeting Chunjiao for the first time is very awkward, but Sam's approach makes Chunjiao very emotional, because Sam will pick up her mobile phone for her, while Zhiming likes to play with dry ice in the toilet.
In my opinion, I don't know how successful Sam is, but it can be clearly observed that Sam is an emotionally stable, sincere man to Chun Jiao.
Is a man who can make Chunjiao no longer be an "old mother", is a man who can make Chunjiao a girlfriend, and experience being loved, cared for, and cared for.
In fact, as long as the person who has moved his heart and the lover has any small emotions, he can immediately detect it, so Sam is very clear that Chunjiao's feelings and attitude towards her ex are just hoping that Chunjiao can come out naturally by herself, rather than forcing Chunjiao to become the way he wants.
When Chunjiao is once again saddened by Zhiming, Sam does not berate Chunjiao and her ex for being unclear, but is more concerned about their future lives.
This is a dawn for most women who have been emotionally hurt and crave a sense of security, because such feelings have a future.
As an outsider, how much I hope that Chunjiao can be sober, how much I hope that Chunjiao will know when she should settle down.
Because some people can wait when they are young, but some people miss it and they are gone.
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When in love, we can be little boys, we can be little girls, but can our future only be in love?
Most people's lives, at least, will go through the stage of entering marriage from love, but marriage, love alone is far from enough.
You know, no matter how deep the love, it will be consumed by life.
Just like Chunjiao and Zhiming are so in love, they will still quarrel because of a small matter, sometimes two people will break up because of differences, and sometimes two people tacitly you go left and I go right.
Seeing this, I only feel that the state of these two people is "tired and not loving".
Feelings have reached this step, there are still layers of obstacles across the past, but if you can't cross over, you will only be consumed.
Therefore, it is really time to choose a husband, this time Xu Zheng defeated Yu Wenle, because the future can be expected.
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Author: Sister Qing, a pseudo-90s girl who likes to walk in her heart.