Bobby said, "God created us to love us as we are, not as others." ”
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"Prayers for Bobby" (2009) is a real thing, chosen to shoot in 2009 in response to California's No. 8 anti-gay marriage law, the true story takes place in 1983, just a few years later, the marriage law passed!
An otherwise happy family breaks the tranquility with the perfect child Bobby's "I fantasize about boys."
The film tells the story of a Christian mother who tries to correct her gay son in order not to send her gay son to hell in the future, and in deep despair, Bobby chooses to commit suicide, and the mother begins to speak out for her son as a special group in remorse.
The story is very simple, after reading you will also shed tears, can not help but sigh Bobby's pity, the mother's awakening, but "God Bless Bobby" is not so shallow, it portrays the pain is even more into the wood three points.
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Bobby, like most people, didn't want to be gay and became gay. He was also desperate and tried to correct himself. Watching and kissing on the street with boyfriend David would be shameful. He tried to change in order to make his mother satisfied.
What about Christian mothers? In order not to let her son be guilty and not to go to hell, the mother is also doing everything possible to change Bobby's sexual orientation and introduce a girlfriend. In order to get his son back to normal, he even said things like "I don't want a gay son".
One extremely contradictory, the other pressing step by step, and finally Bobby chose to compromise, choosing to use death to accuse his mother of impersonality.
The Bible says homosexuality is sinful.
The Bible says that homosexuals will fall into hell forever.
Pastor Winter said to christian mothers: "Superstition is as terrible as losing faith."
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The mother killed Bobby with her so-called faith, and Bobby fell victim to dogma because of his guilt.
In fact, we amplify this tragedy, and this kind of contemplation in exchange for death is innumerable.
Every year, 786,000 people commit suicide around the world, and every 40 seconds, one person leaves this world, and the reason is to tell the world that they have also loved the world fiercely, but the world has disappointed them!
Many people will not be like Tagore, the world kisses me with pain, and I want to return the song.
Is that we're wrong, or is the world itself wrong?
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The society in God Bless Bobby defines homosexuality this way:
The book says that homosexuals make love in the toilet and seduce children.
Television reports say AIDS is gradually being identified as a form of "homosexuality."
Using heterosexuality to define homosexuality, using the body to define the soul, this society is so one-sided and harsh.
So everything that doesn't fit their definition should be erased.
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Western Europe carried out three ideological emancipation movements for "human rights", followed by the industrial revolution, and quickly embarked on the capitalist road.
"God Bless Bobby" is also like this, a kind of liberation and criticism of the mind, so that people all over the world know that the gay community is not as bad as you say.
The Enlightenment put forward the natural human rights, the United States "Declaration of Independence" said that all people are born equal, then the emergence of homosexuality is inevitable, existence is reasonable, I am a fantasy boy, no one can change!
"I am not innocent, but I am not guilty. I'm just liking someone. ”
This is what the late same-sex writer Nan Kang Baiqi said.
Bobby's mother said at the meeting "My world collapsed when he told me he was gay!" ”
Betty, the mother in God Bobby, also said: "The child 'came out', I didn't expect any parent to hear it and say, 'Oh, it's great!'" ”
Homosexuality, a existence that is not recognized by morality and law, is invisible and cannot gain a foothold in society. The mother does not want the child to live a life of finger pointing, but the child does not know! They were hurting each other.
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David said to his parents, "Either accept who I am or forget to have me." "Scarred mothers hug smiling children, that's their choice.
Of course, there are also parents like Bobby's mother, "I don't want a gay son", so the ending is often tragic.
I want you to live more than death.
Many people are moved to tears by Bobby's mother's words, especially "When you say 'Amen' at the religious site in your house, think, think and remember, there is a child listening." ”
This is a special expression of the same sex by the mother in her repentance, and there is a child of the same sex who is listening to you in narrow and distorted prayers.
At this time, you will find that "God Bless Bobby" is not simply preaching same-sex freedom, but the process of integration of a special individual into the ordinary group, which is a great liberation tragedy.
"God Bless Bobby" is adapted as a true story, and the mother's original name was Mary Griffith.
After the tragedy, she devoted her life to avoiding similar tragedies in other families, having been on television, writing articles, and attending school speeches. These often illuminate countless gay teenagers who are confused, desperate and eager for identification.
On December 6, 1995, she was awarded the National Medal of Honor before members of the United States Congress.
But her perfect little Bobby, never to come back!
Author of this article
October
A young man who loves words is very lazy in his treatment of literature, likes to sing but has incomplete five tones, but he is still struggling for his dreams and has never looked back.
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