Recently, I met a girl at a friend's cat café, who looks very beautiful, and even if you paint light makeup, you can see the beauty of the eyebrows at the corner of your eyes. When I first met her, my friend was not there, there were only a few part-time jobs in the cat café, and the girl was borrowing cat litter from the part-time job. Because I first saw someone who borrowed cat litter in a cat café, I was curious to ask what was going on. The sister said that the family has a few cats, these two days the cat litter is almost used up, but the online purchase has not yet arrived, afraid that the family leftovers are not enough, so come to borrow some, but friends just are not there, a few part-time jobs can not do the master. I am a very like to be nosy people, listen to the sister said after aiming at a circle of part-time, it seems that they did not know me, they directly called a friend to explain the situation, friends let me look at it, don't look at the sister to look good, all gave, how much to leave him a little. The part-time job saw that I knew the boss and packed a bag for my sister according to what I said. The girl was still a little dizzy at that time, and said that adding a WeChat next time to invite me to drink something, it is a thank you. I happily agreed, and then I slowly matured. After getting acquainted, I found that this girl was quite funny, which was manifested in the fact that she would often react slowly and half a beat, a little cute, and did not look like her appearance at all. She herself said it was because she had too many things in her mind and not enough brains, and when I only joked with her, she laughed and pretended to wave her fist fiercely. The shift happened one afternoon when she invited me to her house to pet the cats together. I was attracted to the cat and farted without much thought. When I went to her house, I found that something was not quite right, and there was a middle-aged woman sitting in the living room, looking up and down at me with a serious expression. I handed the girl a look, the sister's reaction was indeed half a beat slower, I had to awkwardly say hello to the middle-aged woman, the sister will mean to introduce that the person is her mother. She hadn't talked about her family before, and I didn't know that she had elders in her family, so it seemed that this cat was not easy to pick up. I found a couch to sit on, her cat was not afraid of life, two short, a ragdoll, with wide eyes to my feet. I artificially picked up the cat and began to focus on the cat's performance, trying to hear some script from their dialogue, and the scene was very awkward. The girl coughed quietly, said hello to her mother, dragged me into the bedroom with lightning speed, and asked me if I could pretend to be her boyfriend! I was dumbfounded. After confirming that it was a load, not a sudden pie falling from the sky, and the good cabbage was smashed blind, I reluctantly agreed. I asked her what she was doing, why she wanted to pretend to be her boyfriend, she said that the situation is urgent now, first deal with her mother, wait for her mother to leave and then explain to me, later if her mother has any intention of mentioning the child, I must say that I don't like children, and the attitude should be firm. I had to show oscar-winning acting for the next three hours, and she obediently leaned over me, letting me play freely, only to sneak a twist on my waist when our chat was clearly out of her reaction speed. Just as I was immersed in my superb acting skills, her mother suddenly changed her mind and asked me when I planned to have children if we were to get married. I felt her hand on my waist obviously tight, a tilt of her head just to her with an innocent and dazed expression, and said to her mother in a humble way, I don't like children, I told her about this, after marriage, we don't want children, and now the difficult birth rate is also high, so that she will not suffer, and if she really wants to, we will adopt one. Originally, I thought that my parents would absolutely jump up and kill me when they heard these words, but her mother sighed, but instead became enthusiastic, and until she left, she looked at me with such a fixed eye, which made my heart tremble. When her mother was gone, she finally eased up, leaned on me for half a day before she whispered that she was embarrassed, and today she used me as a shield to cause me trouble. The muppet jumped on my lap and lay down, and I rubbed the puppet while asking her what was going on and explaining it. She said that she had always had a bad relationship with her family, and that her parents did not like cats and were very opposed to her keeping them. She is a Dink tribe, is not the meaning of children, the cat is her child, for this matter is not less and quarrel with the family, the most serious quarrel is her father took advantage of her work to throw away her raised Ying Short, she went home almost mad, full of street looking, fortunately Ying Short is very smart, she sneaked back to her home community she found, and then moved out to live alone. She had talked about two boyfriends before, both broke up with her because of Dink, there was a man who originally wanted to struggle, his parents told him that she was not a good girl at first glance, where there was a woman who had a cat, she did not want children, not to play, in order to satisfy her vanity, saying that she was a selfish woman, and would not take feelings seriously. The man finally couldn't resist, and he slowly became estranged from her. She doesn't have much confidence in men now, so she wants to take care of these cats with peace of mind, but after all, the age is here, the family is in trouble, and her mother still comes to introduce her to the object from time to time, and encourages her to throw the cat away. She was also forced to be helpless, and she wanted to borrow me to block it. I originally thought that she often said that she had too many things in her heart to react slowly and laughed, but I didn't expect it to be true, and I was speechless for a while. Three cats were a little spiritual and kept staring at me as she spoke, and one of them ran to her hand and sniffed and gently licked her fingers. I wanted to comfort her, and as soon as I put the puppet on my leg down, the puppet moved over, rubbed the hem of her clothes with her little head, and lay down beside her. I'm really not a bad girl, you have to believe me. At the end she said this to me.
I asked her why she had chosen Dink. Because it is completely fine to bear the child's life education according to her conditions, there is no such thing as many people who are afraid that they will not be able to give their children a good life. She said she didn't like children, she hated children, and she was even a little afraid of children. She said that when she was a child, she had a summer vacation, when she was still in elementary school, her aunt and an aunt came to the house as a guest, the aunt was a friend of the aunt, came with her own child, a boy, especially a bear, saw everything to take the past to play blindly, liked to be eager to take away. After dinner, a group of people said that they were going out shopping, and her parents and aunt and the aunt went out, leaving her and the boy to look after the house at home, and when they left, they told her to take care of the little boy as a sister. After the adult left, she watched TV, and when she was bored, she changed the desk for the little boy and went into the room to play with the computer. Playing with the little boy ran over and said he was going to play, asking her to go out and watch TV. She was a little speechless at the time, but this was her house, and she made it like he was the master, so she ignored the little boy. As a result, the boy was making trouble on the side, rummaging through her cabinet drawers, tearing her clothes, and then simply crying and grabbing her mouse, trying to pull her off the chair. She was very angry at the time, and it was useless to scold the little boy, she wanted to turn off the computer and pull the little boy out, and everyone stopped playing. As a result, the boy saw that she was dead or alive and did not let him play, suddenly threw away her hand and slid to the computer, she was stunned at the time, and then went to pull him, the boy turned around while crying and pushed her down on the bed, and then a handful of snot and tears stuck her neck with both hands to strangle hard, she was a little girl after all, the strength was small, after being stuck in the neck, she could not break free, only to feel that breathing was getting more and more difficult, and the swollen hands and feet of the head became a little bit disobedient. Fortunately, the boy saw that she could not resist and ran back to the computer with snot and tears, did not pay attention to her, she felt afterwards, if the boy pulled for more than ten seconds, she might be completely unconscious. She collapsed on the bed and gasped heavily, the burning pain in her neck, and after recovering a little, she began to be afraid, and suddenly cried out, and then ran out of the room to close the door hard, curled up on the sofa and shivered. When the adults all came back, they were surprised to find that she was curled up on the sofa, her face was pale, and miraculously, just as the adults came in, the boy's howling and crying suddenly came from the room. The little boy's mother immediately rushed over to open the door, and the little boy cried and told his mother that he just wanted to play with the computer, and his sister wouldn't let him and beat him. Her parents lifted her up from the couch and asked her what was going on, and she was so angry that her pale face turned red and she shouted that he had lied to someone, that he had just almost killed me! The boy hid behind his mother and cried and said that his sister was so scary that I just wanted to play with her. Then his mother was going to come over and beat her. She was so anxious that she couldn't speak coherently, and kept explaining to her parents that the little boy had just made trouble at home and stuck her neck with his hand. The boy's mother slapped her face and said how could my son do such a thing, you must have bullied my son, and dared to tell such a lie. Her father asked her to apologize to the little boy with a blue face, and she said she didn't apologize, why. Her father also slapped her and directly knocked her unconscious. While she was beaten, she listened to the aunt say how bad she was, as a sister who did not let her brother, but also learned to plant bribes in TV, when she was a child, when she grew up, she would only harm people, she had to be well disciplined, while being beaten in various ways, through her fists she could see the little boy secretly laughing behind his mother's back. Since then she has not liked any child, and she cannot stop seeing any child. She knew that this was not good, not all children were like the boy, but she just couldn't control it, even if she was a particularly well-behaved child, she could only treat it with a cold mood, and most of the time she hated it, and even a little afraid. She felt that Dink was the best way for her, because she couldn't imagine what it would be like if she hated her children in the future.
So you have so many cats and treat cats like your children, right? I asked her. She nodded. Looking at the three cats sitting obediently around her, I didn't know what I could say. I can't imagine how she raised these three cats in a family that hated cats, nor how much suffering her parents had suffered except to throw the cats away behind her back, and I couldn't imagine how much a child would have to bear to cause so much harm to another person's life. I suddenly understood why many people don't like children but like cats. Human nature is inherently evil, children are the most unable to restrain nature and the most unable to be responsible for their own behavior of the creature, on the one hand, based on the law of survival and the inferiority of the root, on the other hand, the acquired based on ethics and morality and the goodwill obtained, which itself is the biggest contradiction of human beings, and the complexity of this contradiction is not the child's world view can fully understand and identify with, so many of the children's behaviors in the eyes of people with normal three views can only be described by underwhelming, if the child is regarded as an abstract object, Who will like useless and only troublesome things, let alone people can always see the shadow of their own inferiority from children, many times we say that we like children, but in fact just like their own children, that is not called like, but the responsibility of blood connection. Cats are different. The cat itself is an extremely self-disciplined creature, and this self-discipline is reflected in its biological instincts. Just as a cat instinctively buries itself after defecating, a cat instinctively licks its paws and combs its hair, a cat instinctively enjoys a life of self-enjoyment without disturbing it, these are the attributes it has in itself. We have cats, not only because most cats are always online, even with occasional exceptions can get cute points, but also because we like its personality and its state of life. We can see that cats can see ten thousand expressions that we understand on their faces, and can inspire our potential kindness through differences between different species. We pay for it and naturally get companionship and dependence. We need this emotional substitution and identification to give us a moment of respite in the midst of a tight life, to give us the opportunity to lick our own wounds like cats. Her ex-boyfriend and ex-boyfriend's parents said she was bad, the aunt who came to the house said she was bad, even her parents said she was bad, but she was really bad mom? That's not true. I'm sure she's not bad. On the contrary, she is kind, simple, and cute, and what is bad in her is our family education, what is bad is that society has too much moral tolerance for children, and what is bad is the trust and sincerity between people. So I don't know what else I can say to comfort her. Finally, I would like to say that if you have such a friend around you, and you love cats but hate children, don't blame her, try to understand her. Because, she's really a good girl.
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Text/Edit by Day Trip One Cat
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