For couples, love is never a tragic and compassionate emotional experience, nor does it require a vigorous and moving past. Many times only two people are needed to accompany them.
One is a famous opera artist and the other is a young talent. Their love affair is undoubtedly out of love for each other. Good things are more grinding, bitter love for 12 years in exchange for the two hand in hand. Presumably, this is also the reason why the husband died tragically and early, but the wife always waited for it and was lonely until she was old, because love never left.
Xu Yulan, a famous theatrical performance artist in China, played "Jia Baoyu" into a classic. The world is amazed by her performance on stage, but she does not know that the emotion with her husband Yu Zeren is her greatest pride in this life.
The world always says that the bridge of love at first sight is too false, but if the good man is in front of him, how can he be indifferent? In 1943, on an ordinary performance opportunity, Xu Yulan, as a theatrical actor, happened to meet the love of her life at the dinner table.
A young man, dressed in a long robe, sat in front of him, and had captured the girl's heart before he could speak. This young man with a clear eyebrow was named Yu Zeren, and he was also a teacher who had just arrived in the city.
Since then, Xu Yulan can be seen at the teahouse table every day, in addition to practicing singing and taking a short rest here, she can also occasionally see Yu Zeren walking around. Obviously, Xu Yulan at that time was already deeply involved in it, and the girl who had just opened her heart was always so ashamed and difficult to sustain herself. On weekdays, tea and rice have become the norm.
Perhaps the best answer to a relationship is that both parties fall in love with each other at the same time. Yu Zeren was also full of excitement for Xu Yulan in front of him, and even once excited to the point of being helpless, and after repeatedly summoning up courage, the two formally had a dialogue.
It can be seen that the process of falling in love is always quite restrictive, so that countless sentient beauties miss good opportunities, so every time they meet, they should be cherished.
The relationship between the two has also heated up rapidly since then, and even for a long time. Helplessly, Yu Zeren's identity was ordinary, and Xu Yulan at that time was already famous for drama. Many people came to break up their feelings, and even the government's relatives relied on power to make her back down.
Obviously, the road of love will never be smooth, and once you have determined your choice, you will stick to it no matter what. Xu Yulan resolutely decided to inform the other party of her intentions in the face of thousands of obstacles.
Perhaps without this impulse to fight for themselves, there would be no longer any relationship between the two. From the experience of the two people, it is not difficult to see that love should have no rules, and once the two parties involved in it have no way out.
Love is an indomitable journey, and someone must pay unreservedly to see hope. Fortunately, Xu Yulan's persistence waited for a worthy response. Although the two have since separated the two places and begun their own lives because of the times, only emotions will not cool down.
The partner identified in the heart, even if they are thousands of miles apart, there will always be a day to stay together. On May 9, 1955, more than 12 years had passed since the two had met. But thoughts are threads that will not be cut off, so that their hearts are always connected. Many troubles have receded, and in the end, they have officially completed the marriage under the leadership of the organization, which shows that no amount of commitment is as warm and reliable as the marriage's dependence on each other.
After marriage, the life between the two is always full of happiness and sweetness, and the two not only have two children, but also always maintain their enthusiasm for their careers. But many times, unexpected disasters are always easy to break the original harmony. In the late 1960s, the advent of a special period undoubtedly caused great harm to Xu Yulan.
She was not only coerced, but also suffered from the double torture of the spirit and body. One person in love suffers, and the other must also feel empathy. As a husband, Yu Zeren was quite sad about this, but he could not help it.
On the other hand, the other party saw that there was no way to persecute Xu Yulan again, so it aimed its spearhead at Yu Zeren. They not only demanded that he draw a line with his wife, but even insulted him more. Originally a man of letters, he finally could not bear this torture, fell from a tall building in reluctance and despair, and passed away.
If there is anything that can make people compete with fate with ordinary life, it is only love. The death of her beloved husband was a huge blow to Xu Yulan. Maybe she has thought about it for a hundred years, but for her husband's inseparable feelings, she still supports her to reinvigorate herself, and even runs around to seek justice for her husband's unjust affairs while her heart aches.
In 1978, Xu Yulan even found Peng Chong, the secretary of the Shanghai Municipal Party Committee, to rehabilitate Yu Zeren, and no one could have done so without sincere feelings.
Xu Yulan was able to break through all obstacles to restore the reputation of her dead husband, not only because of her inner firmness, but also because the love between the two gave her unprecedented courage, because of the existence of love, so that the original small individual dared to fight everything.
Obviously, the death of her husband hit Xu Yulan so hard that she was devastated for a while. But in the eyes of the outside world, a woman as good as her is absolutely impossible if she has been alone. Therefore, after her mood calmed down, many people who came to her began to pursue her.
At this time, Xu Yulan always silently chose to refuse, and after years and months, no one bothered her life. After all, I still can't let go of that him in my heart, how can I still delay the lives of others? Since then, the focus of Xu Yulan's life has begun to shift to the art of opera, and her only entertainment is to watch the opera channel at home.
Xu Yulan's later years were lonely, because she always maintained a life of being alone. But for her personally, it is not necessarily a blessing to be able to stick to love until she is old.
Judging from Xu Yulan's approach, feelings are the happiness of two people, if you always have the past in your heart and the good people who can't be put down, then even if you are lonely for the rest of your life, you are willing to suffer silently.
Love may be the most afraid of missing, after leaving regrets, even if you use a lifetime to make up for it, it will not help. There are always a thousand choices in life, but the love of emotion is always the same. Because that is not only a commitment to others, but also a promise to tell yourself that you have no regrets in this life.