At the end of the Han Dynasty, Jian'an Zhong, the wife of Jiao Zhongqing, a minor official in Lujiang Province, was sent by Zhongqing's mother and swore not to marry. When his family forced him to die, he threw himself into the water and died. When Zhongqing heard this, he also hanged himself from the Ting tree. When people are hurt, it is Shi Yun'er. Peacocks fly southeast, wandering for five miles.
Jiao Zhongqing and Liu Lanzhi were both in love with each other, and finally Lanzhi threw herself into the river, and Zhongqing was hanged on a tree, which was sad and lamentable.
In the era of blind marriage and dumb marriage, how lucky are Lan Zhi and Zhongqing to find the person they love?
How sad is it to meet a mother like Jiao Mu?
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the core problem of the whole family since ancient times, and when it is handled well, the whole family is harmonious and does not handle it well, and the family is torn apart at worst.
Why did Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing end up like this? JiaoMu "can't do without it".
Jiao's mother single-handedly broke up the entire family, and her son and daughter-in-law both died.
In ancient feudal society, the ruling class was strict, and the concept of mendi mutilated many lovers.
Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing's family is not much different, but Jiao Zhongqing is on an errand in the yamen, and Jiao's mother has a very high self-esteem.
After Lan Zhi and Zhongqing became relatives, Lan Zhi was busy doing housework and weaving brocade to earn money.
Chickens chirp into the weaving, night and night. Five horses were cut off in three days, and the adults were too late.
All day in the loom room, I still can't meet the requirements of my mother-in-law.
The woman was rude and acted spontaneously. I have long been angry, and I am free!
Even if she asked her son to take a break from Lanzhi, her mother-in-law still did not have a good word: Lanzhi did not understand etiquette, and her movement was too free.
Women like Liu Lanzhi abound in real life.
Before getting married, I knew that my future mother-in-law didn't look up to me, or I married for the so-called love.
Naively think that after getting married, the mother-in-law will regress for her son, as long as she is sincere with her mother-in-law, she can always improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and live a good life.
As a result, the woman overestimated her own endurance, overestimated her position in her husband's heart, and underestimated the unreasonable teasing of her mother-in-law.
It ended in divorce.
Zhongqing and Lan Zhi have not yet divorced, and Jiao Mu has already found a new wife for her son early.
There is a virtuous daughter in the east family, who calls herself Qin Luoshi, who is extremely poor, and the aunt is for Ru. You can quickly dispatch it, send it to Shen Moliu!
Qin Luoshi is gentle and lovely, and your mother finds someone to match for you. As a woman, why is it so difficult?
In that feudal society, a woman who was abandoned by her husband's family had only one way to die.
Jiao Mu had thought about a little affection in the past, and things were too extreme.
In today's society, there are many mothers-in-law who always think that their daughter-in-law is not worthy of their sons, and they can marry better if they are divorced.
As everyone knows, her son is a great luck to meet a silly girl, how can he meet a second silly girl?
Marriage needs to pay attention to the door-to-door pair, but it does not refer to the door-to-door pair of money and power, but the ideas of both parents are the same.
The marriage that the mother-in-law desperately prevents still needs to be carefully considered, don't think that your husband is good to you, the sandwich cookies are difficult, and time is the best witness.
Jiao Mu was a widow who raised her own son and daughter alone, and such a woman was pitiful.
But there must be something hateful about the poor.
Jiao's mother raised her son to adulthood and married her son to start a family.
Such a mother can be said to be great, pregnant in October, with painstaking efforts to pull two older children.
However, children are independent individuals and should not be appendages of their parents.
Ancient women at home from their fathers, married from their husbands, husbands died from their sons, Jiao's mother placed all her feelings on Jiao Zhongqing's body.
The mother who is not open-minded will only draw the ground as a prison and harm others and harm herself.
Lan Zhi Zhongqing was married for two years and had no children, and Jiao's mother was even more dissatisfied, so she used this as an excuse to compete with her daughter-in-law for her son.
In today's complex and changeable era, divorce is the norm, how many single-parent families raise children alone, I hope it will not create many Jiao mothers and Jiao Zhongqing.
The child is an individual separated from the mother's body, filial piety is a matter of course, but each of us plays multiple roles, whether it is between parents and children, or between husband and wife, we must not take favors in order to repay.
We are first of all an independent person, responsible for ourselves, and secondly, you can play other roles and be responsible for others, so don't force others to pay for their failed lives.
Advocate equality between men and women, but in fact, due to the special physiological structure of women and China's thousands of years of feudal system, women are still in a relatively weak position.
Therefore, no matter how difficult a woman is, the role of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be changed.
Your goodness today hides the suffering you have suffered in the past, and the happiness that your future life will bring.
Jiao Mu was so picky about Liu Lanzhi that you can imagine how much suffering she had suffered when she was a daughter-in-law.
Serve the grandfather, and dare to be self-exclusive? Day and night diligent work and rest, lingered and hard worked. It is said that there is no sin in it, and that it is a great favor to be offered; it is still even more expelled, and what words are to be returned!
No matter how hard Lan Zhi worked, in Jiao Mu's view, he did not do enough, and he did more wrong.
Lan Zhi repeatedly gave in, but in the end he did not keep his marriage, and Jiao's mother still forced her son to divorce his wife and remarry.
In the end, Ranji returned to her mother's house, and was forced by her brother at home to remarry someone else, and Ranji, who was cornered, could only commit suicide by throwing herself into the river.
The king is like a rock, the concubine is a reed, the reed is like silk, and the rock is not transferred.
The reeds are like silk, and the rocks are not transferred.
In the end, Zhongqing also died in Huangquan and followed Lan Zhi away.
The power of the mother-in-law is strong, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is an important factor affecting the harmony of a family.
Jiao Mu can only send black haired people to white-haired people in the end, lonely and lonely, and regret that it is too late.