Due to the busy work schedule, the married life of celebrities is easy to encounter various problems, although they always show their bright and dazzling side, and they actually bear a lot of bitterness behind them. Recently, Cai Qin choked up several times during the recording of the variety show, and knowing the story behind her tears, you can understand why she is so out of shape in public.
Recently, Cai Qin participated in a variety show recording as a guest judge, and after listening to the newcomer singer Qiang Dongyue's singing of "Getting Married", Cai Qin suddenly had wet eyes and choked up: "My marriage failed, and I was once as sweet and beautiful as you." ”
Later, after another singer from the mother group, Li Jiage, finished singing, the 62-year-old Cai Qin was once again touched by emotion and tears, saying that not having children was the most regrettable thing in her life: "Mother is a role I can never taste." ”
Cai Qin has been extremely low-key in recent years, and many veteran artists have begun to push their next generation into the entertainment circle at her age, but Cai Qin is childless and childless. From her tone, you can feel that she actually longs to have her own children, and the reason why she has not had children so far is not because she does not like children, but because she has been delayed by a wrong marriage and a "scumbag" for a lifetime.
In 1984, Cai Qin, who was at the peak of her career and was prosperous, met the director Yang Dechang because of filming. Yang Dechang was 10 years older than her, and had already had a short marriage before, but Cai Qin was deeply attracted by Yang Dechang's talent and immediately fell in love without hesitation.
In the eyes of people at that time, Cai Qin and Yang Dechang can also be regarded as a pair of Lang Cai women's appearance, Cai Qin's popularity in the entertainment industry is much higher than Yang Dechang, in the current statement, it is actually Yang Dechang's "rubbing Cai Qin's heat", but Cai Qin constantly lowered her posture in this relationship, and even the marriage proposal was Proposed by Cai Qin.
After Cai Qin proposed marriage, Yang Dechang immediately made a request that if he wanted to get married, he must maintain "platonic love", saying that he "did not want their love to be mixed with impurities, so that they could also focus on their careers together." In fact, in the eyes of Xiao 8, from Yang Dechang's outrageous request, it can be seen that his attitude towards this relationship is not sincere, but Cai Qin's authorities fans still accept his request.
Subsequently, the two spent 10 years of "sexless marriage" according to Yang Dechang's request, and Cai Qin was 37 years old when they divorced, missing the best age for childbearing. Xiao 8 felt that perhaps her idea at that time was that if she could stay with her lover for a lifetime, even if there was no next generation, she could spend her life plainly and happily, but her 10 years of waiting had been exchanged for Yang Dechang's betrayal.
In 1995, Yang Dechang split his legs with 18-year-old pianist Peng Jiaoli, and immediately did not hesitate to dump Cai Qin and divorce her. When he married Cai Qin, Yang Dechang's "platonic marriage" was grandiose, but when he met Xiao San, he immediately changed his face.
After remarrying, Yang Dechang and Peng Kaili gave birth to a son, the couple often went out and went to the red carpet of the film festival, and also took their son to participate in various activities, Yang Dechang also said that "this is the happiest time of his life."
And how did Yang Dechang evaluate his marriage to Cai Qin? After the divorce, he publicly stated that "ten years of feelings, a blank", not only has no guilt for his ex-wife, but also means that his ex-wife delayed him for ten years, and the "scumbag" can slag to such a point that it is really shocking to Xiao 8.
But Cai Qin's response to Yang Dechang's words appeared to be very tolerant and generous, and she said that she had also given everything for this relationship, which was not a blank for her. After being betrayed by the scumbag, it is quite difficult to say such a decent word for both sides, and from then on, we can also see how much sacrifice Cai Qin has made for this relationship and how hard she has worked to be patient.
In 2007, Yang Dechang died of illness, and Cai Qin also shed tears in the interview, saying that she "knew that his life was so short, and would rather divorce him early and let him enjoy life." Xiao 8 felt that it can be seen that Cai Qin really had a deep affection for Yang Dechang, but she just mispaid her feelings on a person who was not worth it.
Two years ago, Cai Qin revealed that she had remarried with a wealthy businessman outside the circle, but it ended in divorce. In 2016, she said at the concert that she would not marry again in her life, and had decided to marry the stage, seeing music as her lifelong destination.
Nowadays, many young people yearn for "unmarriedism", and for a singer like Cai Qin, who stands at the top of the music world, marriage is not the whole of life. But it is undeniable that this is still a scar in her heart that cannot be erased, and she can't help but cry with excitement in the variety show, and it must be easier to touch the scene in her usual life. Xiao 8 hopes that Teacher Cai Qin, who has passed the age of flower armor, can have a happy old age, and hopes that music can heal the scars of the first half of her life.