On April 25, Ke Lan said on Weibo, "Simple and rude is not decent, it doesn't matter, you are happy." "It is suspected that it alludes to the Luo Zhixiang incident that has been making a lot of noise in recent days.
Unlike the successive lines of the stars, she did not choose which faction to join, but told the public with a sober attitude, "The regression of a society is that everyone pays attention to the private sphere of others, not to the public sphere." Please go from focusing on the private lives of celebrities to focusing on the corruption of high-ranking officials, which is closely related to us. ”
In the eyes of the public, she may be fierce and heroic, or charming and mouthy, but she has a pitiful past in life! Born in a prestigious family, but from an early age has been indoctrinated with the concept of "please", obedient and sensible, but because of the divorce of his parents, he cannot get rid of the fate of "throwing around".
At a young age, he was seriously ill and was judged by doctors not to live to be 38 years old, and he had no choice but to accept the pain as a companion. Dissatisfied with environmental damage, he became the first person to "sue the people", and although he won the lawsuit, he fell into the embarrassing situation of no one caring. In the world of feelings, having hurt others has also been hurt, and after all, it is still a poor person.
In 1972, Ke Lan was born in a military family in Beijing, her original name was Zhong Haohao, taking the meaning of the West Lake couplet "Good mountains and good waters everywhere, sunny days and wonders paint a lot". After growing up, the name "Ke Lan" was changed by his uncle, which originated from "Nan Ke Yi Dream", which means that the world is flashy but a dream.
Her grandfather was Zhong Qiguang, a senior general in the People's Liberation Army and founding general of the People's Liberation Army, her grandmother was a highly educated woman of the new era who gave up her superior life to join the revolution, and her mother was a dancer.
Not long after she was born, she lived with her grandparents in the army compound in Beijing, and from an early age, she was taught by her family to "please" her grandparents and "please" her old aunt, so she accepted all the red tape in the family.
In the eyes of her family, she was well-behaved and sensible, but these qualities did not help her live a happy childhood. Instead, life under the fence is displaced and displaced.
Since her parents divorced, she has lived a wandering life, "I left Beijing at the age of 6, went to Shanghai with my mother, and have been 'wandering' ever since. In the middle, he went to Wuxi to study, and later returned to Beijing for a few years. It can be described as 'turbulent and displaced'. ”
This life lasted for a long time, and when she was eleven or twelve, she found that life had made a joke to her—she became the only child in the extended family who had inherited both her grandfather's sick spondylitis and her grandmother's asthma, and doctors had determined that she would not live to be 38 years old.
Later on the show, Curran jokingly said, "I got the favor of God, and I inherited a disease from my grandfather, and people in my father's generation had this disease, but not every one of them." My third uncle had, an aunt had, and then I had. You see this is the lottery. From my grandmother I can inherit asthma, you say how much I am a person who is loved by everyone, all family diseases have been verified in me, I am definitely not wrong in the hospital. ”
For the former, the doctor gave Ke Lan an analogy: having this disease is equivalent to 100 yuan and has used 60 yuan, and you can save some money on the rest.
This is a disease that can easily lead to injury, as long as the nerves are slightly pressed, the body will hurt, and the weight will lead to paralysis. When the disease strikes, Curran often can't stand the pain, and sometimes she will stare at the ceiling foolishly to think about the most important thing in this life.
"Don't waste this life, leave no regrets."
At the age of 14, she left home to study in Canada, where she enrolled in finance as her family wished, but also minored in psychology she loved.
In order to pay for additional tuition, Curran had a very difficult life abroad, washing dishes in the back kitchen of the restaurant, because of the slip of the hand accidentally smashed one, not only lost most of the wages, but also was reprimanded for "getting out"; in order to save money, buy a baguette to eat for a week; want to go to the theater to see the play, only dare to buy the second half, because the ticket price is extremely cheap.
But a year later, she returned to Hong Kong, because of the good image, she began to work half-time and half-study to do part-time modeling, signed dozens of brands in one go, and was jokingly called "money grabbing sister" by peers; at the age of 22, Ke Lan was admitted to the channel v channel, facing a 6-figure annual salary, she immediately decided to give up her studies as a host and become the first generation of vj in Asia. After that, she jumped to phoenix satellite TV Chinese station, and soon became a hot first-line female host of Phoenix Network.
Just when her career is in full swing, she wants to start acting as an actor from scratch. Some people think that her cross-border is too idealistic, but only she herself understands that her time is running out! She must cherish the time to explore the unknown, to do those meaningful things, to act to experience a different life, and this is exactly what she needs!
In 2005, Ke Lan participated in the filming of a movie "Shocking Shennongjia", and when the crew was finished, the local public security bureau leaders came to set up a banquet to entertain the crew and thank them for their contributions to the publicity of Shennongjia.
At the dinner table, when the other party asked about Ke Lan's impression of Shennongjia, Ke Lan said bluntly that it was "not good", when the other party asked her if she would come to play next time, Ke Lan did not give face "not to come".
Not long after, at the film's press conference, Curran openly expressed the crew's dissatisfaction with the destruction of the local environment during filming, which caused widespread concern from all walks of life after being reported.
Soon, Ke Lan was sued by the Hubei Provincial Department of Culture for "infringing on the right to reputation", demanding a claim for 2 million yuan in economic losses and an apology, and she became the defendant in China's first "official sue the people" lawsuit.
What made her shudder was that the original indignation of colleagues who had stood on the united front of environmental protection had long since vanished, and they remained silent overnight, pushing her alone to the cusp of the storm waiting for the verdict of the law.
Fortunately, Curran eventually won the case, but after this incident, no crew dared to invite her again.
For two whole years, Ke Lan stayed at home, and fighting lawsuits, reading books, and boiling Chinese medicine became the whole of her life.
Because of the mental pressure, she broke out with urticaria, and her whole face was swollen beyond recognition.
"I don't regret it, I just used it as a culling. If I were to do it again, I would still choose to do it. ”
The smooth sailing in her career did not bring ke Lan emotional dependence, even if every relationship is unforgettable, but it is not her right person!
In 1996, Li Yapeng just graduated from the Central Academy of Drama not long ago, and took over several film and television dramas, but the splash was not large, and Ke Lan also happened to join Phoenix Satellite TV this year. At a party, Ke Lan, who has a straightforward and grinning personality, attracts Li Yapeng's attention.
Under the fierce attack of Li Yapeng, Ke Lan, who longed for love, gradually fell, and the two naturally walked together. In the process of getting along, Li Yapeng performed very well, cared for Ke Lan very much, sometimes made some romantic tricks to give her a small surprise, and often showed off with friends around him that his girlfriend was a beautiful host, but at that time, not many people knew about their love affair.
Just when Ke Lan was immersed in sweetness, Li Yapeng deserted. In 1998, Li Yapeng met Qu Ying through Zhang Jizhong, when Qu Ying and her boyfriend Luo Zhongxu had some conflicts, Li Yapeng played the role of "big brother" to enlighten Qu Ying, but no one thought that the two would secretly have a relationship.
Slowly Ke Lan found that Li Yapeng seemed to have suddenly changed into a person, and his attitude towards her was extremely cold. Calling him, he always likes to ignore it, and gradually turns to the point of not answering the phone. When the two are together, they are always ghostly.
The silly Ke Lan has always believed that Li Yapeng is busy with her career so he has alienated her. However, after Li Yapeng's relationship with Qu Ying was announced to the public in 2000, Ke Lan was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and immediately called Li Yapeng to ask what was going on, but it caused Qu Ying to scold...
After that, the two broke up and officially broke up.
In 1995, Ke Lan and Li Quan, who participated in the "Shanghai, Hong Kong and Macao Rookie Selection Competition", met for the first time, but at that time, the two were just friends, and they did not think about that aspect at all.
After five years, Ke Lan came to Shanghai to shoot "The Head of the Family", remembering that his old friend Li Quan took the initiative to ask him to come out for coffee, Li Quan saw Ke Lan's cleverness, and Ke Lan also saw the sincerity under Li Quan's cold appearance. Because of this meeting, the two had a good feeling for each other and began to communicate.
At that time, the two had common interests and hobbies, and they appreciated each other, and the feelings were naturally very good. From time to time, there is gossip that the two are close to good things and are ready to marry secretly, but they are denied by the two.
By the time Li Quan considered getting married, he hoped that Ke Lan could give up his career and return to family life and no longer enter the show business circle. Curran said that this is impossible, career and family are actually very important to her, she can't give up her career for Li Quan. The two had their own opinions, and the matter of marriage was also put aside.
In 2005, Ke Lan received an article written by Li Quan for a public farewell on the eve of Valentine's Day, "The Home of Love". In 2007, the two ended their 7-year relationship.
Later, Ke Lan fell in love with Geng Le, but at that time Geng Le already had a girlfriend Kong Lin, so in this relationship Ke Lan was reprimanded as a third party. Not long after Geng Le and Kong Lin broke up, some media took photos of living with Ke Lan, and in 2011, the relationship also failed.
In 2011, Huang Zhizhong and his wife He Yin, who had been in love for 13 years, chose to divorce, and there were rumors that Huang Zhizhong's marriage broke down due to Ke Lan's intervention, but the two never responded positively.
In 2008, Ke Lan and Huang Zhizhong cooperated in "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes" and there was a scandal, and then the media filmed the news that Ke Lan spent the night in Huang Zhizhong's high-end apartment, and the relationship between the two was officially exposed. But the reaction of the original wife, He Yin, was unusually calm, she said: "If Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan really come together, I bless them and wish them well." ”
After the divorce, Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan spent 9 years together, Ke Lan once said on the "Venus Show" that he and Huang Zhizhong have always been very good buddies, and when Venus asked him if he had confessed, Ke Lan directly replied no.
Talking about her boyfriend Huang Zhizhong, Ke Lan used "respect" twice. "I have a lot of respect for him, he is a very hard-working person, when he played "Daming Dynasty", he wrote tens of thousands of words of actor experience, and I admire such a person in my heart."
In Curran's heart, all the beauty comes from like-mindedness. "We are very late together, others think that we are in love, in fact, we are friends." 」 Others think we broke up, but we are really together. ”
There is no good news waiting for the two to get married, but it has been in a state of cohabitation but not marriage for 9 years, which has to be inexplicable!
She, who was once judged by the doctor's life expectancy, now lives with a body of pain and joy, which is not unrelated to her daguan life creed, "I don't want to be popular." I come to this world once, and I want to have fun. Why do you have to wronged yourself in order to please others? "Just be happy and don't embarrass yourself." It is also this kind of sobriety and freedom that allows her to survive the trough of career freezing and emotional frustration, and win the scenery of another village of willow dark flowers and flowers!
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Author: Yifan
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