Comparing Li Yan and Xiao Yue'er, I realized how derelict Wang Xiaofei was compared with Faye Wong and Li Yapeng

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2024-06-04 10:10Published in Henan Entertainment Creators

They are both "second generation stars", they also grew up in the eyes of everyone, they also experienced the divorce of their parents at the age of 7, and they also faced their parents to make new love;

But the difference is that one grows up sunny and cheerful, and the other is timid and reserved;

This is not only embarrassing, but also regrettable, because it is because of their parents who have created their situation.

These two girls with similar experiences but different circumstances are Li Yan and Xiao Yue'er.

01

In 2006, due to shortcomings, Li Yan's birth was the focus.

That year, the news about Faye Wong and Li Yapeng giving birth to her "split-lip" daughter was overwhelming.

Everyone is questioning and speculating, why did Faye Wong and Li Yapeng firmly choose to let such a child be born?

At that time, no one expected that the defective Li Yan would grow up so confident and sunny in the future!

In order to let Li Yan grow up like a normal child, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng both went to class in the 6th month of Li Yan's birth.

But this "course" is not aimed at children, but parents, who are led by professional teachers to learn how to get along with children, how to protect children's minds, and how to keep children from being harmed by the outside world.

Hundreds of professional courses, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, rain or shine.

After having professional knowledge, Li Yapeng and Faye Wong faced Li Yan again, and their mentality was naturally different.

They no longer focus their anxiety and anxiety on their children's defects, but hope to create a relaxed growth environment that makes Li Yan confident and strong.

At home, no one regards Li Yan as a special child anymore, what Faye Wong instilled in Li Yan since she was a child is that you should never live in the evaluation of others, and believe that you are beautiful.

Outside, they didn't protect Li Yan too much, but made her brave to accept the eyes of outsiders.

Li Yapeng told his daughter that if you see someone looking at you, you might as well try to give him a smile, because a smile can defeat prejudice.

Slowly, under the influence of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, Li Yan really grew into a cheerful and confident little girl.

Although in the eyes of outsiders, she is flawed and smiles differently from ordinary children, but this does not affect Li Yan's mentality at all.

Because she firmly believes in her parents' words, fate is inherently flawed, and imperfection is a kind of perfection, and she doesn't have to think about it in the unexpected world, nor does she have to be the same as everyone else.

After Li Yan became sensible, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng took Li Yan to travel around, allowing Li Yan to see different scenery and feel different customs.

Because only by seeing more can we understand life more deeply, as well as understand doubts and differences.

Aside from traveling, Li Yapeng and Faye Wong also asked Li Yan to try various things of interest.

Painting, playing the piano, calligraphy, Chinese studies, makeup, but whatever Li Yan is interested in, they encourage, but never compulsory.

In Faye Wong's view, children's talents are slowly discovered by themselves, and there is no need to force them, even if they have no talent, it doesn't matter, just be healthy and happy.

In addition, Li Yapeng also created the "Yanran Angel Fund" to help more children like Li Yan.

Because Li Yapeng firmly believes that "when we pass on love, I believe that my daughter Li Yan will also receive kindness from strangers in the world."

In this way, under the love of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, Li Yan is sunny and cheerful, neither humble nor arrogant, she loves to play, beauty, and fashion like all girls of the same age.

Especially after growing up, Li Yan inherited her mother Faye Wong's temperament and ease, and between her gestures, she was full of "star style".

Compared with Li Yan's defective birth, Xiao Yue'er's childhood can be called happy and perfect.

In 2014, in the expectation of Da S and Wang Xiaofei, Xiao Yue'er was born smoothly.

At that time, Da S and Wang Xiaofei were still in deep love, and the arrival of their daughter was naturally the icing on the cake for the two.

At that time, Xiao Yue'er had crooked eyes when she laughed, Da S at that time was a happy mother, and Wang Xiaofei at that time was a daughter slave who cared about the family.

It's a pity that Xiao Yue'er's happy childhood was only 7 years, and then she was trapped in her parents' "divorce farce", and she still can't break free to this day.

02

In 2021, Da S and Wang Xiaofei officially announced their divorce.

Originally, "divorce" represented the end of a relationship, but no one expected that the divorce of Wang Xiaofei and Da S was the beginning of the "farce" between the two.

From the "mattress" turmoil, to the "child custody" dispute, to the confrontation between the two sides in court, and the various exposures of the "strong woman" Zhang Lan in the live broadcast... During that time, the two families were undignified!

When the two sides are in an uproar, they seem to forget that in one "farce" after another, it is actually the children who hurt the most.

Sure enough, after Da S and Wang Xiaofei divorced, the reports about Xiao Yue'er became more and more worrying.

Not to mention other people, let's look at the relevant situation of my grandmother Zhang Lan, who has been exposed:

"She asked Wang Xiaofei for 40 million yuan in half a year, but the money was not spent on the child, but she used the money to fool around with the bald head";

"Xiao Yue'er lives with a nanny, and the child's mother doesn't care at all;"

"Big S doesn't even know what grade Xiao Yue'er is in, and which class she is in."

"That big bald head doesn't wear clothes at home, I have to tell the nanny every day that I must lock Xiao Yue'er's door."

Regardless of the "truth" in Zhang Lan's mouth, whether there is an exaggeration or not, but if her grandmother dares to say this publicly, presumably Xiao Yue'er must be uncomfortable when she is by her mother's side.

On the other hand, Wang Xiaofei, who claims to be willing to give everything for her children, is also embarrassing!

In Zhang Lan's eyes, Wang Xiaofei is a kind and honest "wronged boss", but lace news about Wang Xiaofei has always emerged in an endless stream, and he was even publicly reprimanded by Big S for betraying his marriage.

In addition, the most surprising thing about Wang Xiaofei is that while he was "riddled with scandals", he actually gained the love of his life again, and entered marriage after half a year of dating.

The current wife Ma Xiaomei, a native of Taipei, is said to be 10 years younger than Wang Xiaofei, and the two have been in love since they recently received their certificates, and they are "sprinkling sugar" on the public every time they are in the same frame.

Now Wang Xiaofei's wife is by her side, and she is full of spirits.

Many people say that after meeting Ma Xiaomei, Wang Xiaofei regained her second spring, and even Zhang Lan said, "My son has passed the catastrophe, and he will get better and better in the future." ”

Someone also photographed Wang Xiaofei taking his wife to the temple to offer incense, presumably what she was asking for must be "born early to a noble son, a hundred years of good marriage".

If it is said that the divorce of Big S Wang Xiaofei is the unfortunate beginning of Xiao Yue'er, then the next operation of the two will gradually increase the damage to Xiao Yue'er.

First of all, Da S and Gu Junye got married quickly, so fast that it is estimated that Xiao Yue'er didn't even have time to react, and after leaving her father, she had a strange stepfather;

Then, Wang Xiaofei, who claimed that the child would always be her first, has now restarted her family, and Xiao Yue'er has another stepmother;

The original family is fragmented, the family of the latter group, and the relationship is complicated, which is a big blow to Xiao Yue'er, who just turned 10 years old this year, others can't imagine at all.

03

Like Xiao Yue'er, Li Yan also suffered a great change in her family when she was 7 years old.

In 2013, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng officially announced their divorce, and Li Yan lived with her father.

A year after the divorce, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse reunited, and the "love of the century" was reunited.

At that time, the emotional entanglements of Faye Wong, Li Yapeng, and Nicholas Tse were also talked about by countless people.

But Li Yan's life has not been greatly affected.

First, when Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced, each of them was more decent than the other.

Even in the future, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse got along, and Li Yapeng also sent blessings.

It is this decency that minimizes the impact of her parents' divorce on Li Yan.

Second, although Faye Wong and Li Yapeng are separated, the two have not reduced their love for Li Yan.

For Li Yan, her parents are just not together, but she is still a baby in the palm of her parents' hands.

In those years, Li Yan learned to paint, learn calligraphy, travel, go to fashion catwalks, and her life was still colorful;

The third is that Faye Wong is strong, and even if Li Yapeng remarries, it will not reduce Li Yan's quality of life.

In 2022, Li Yapeng and his current wife Hai Ha Jinxi will have a child, and many people are worried about whether Li Yan will be affected.

But in fact, Li Yan has no influence at all, she is still cheerful and free, and she can even go to study abroad in aristocratic schools.

Although her father Li Yapeng is in debt, don't forget that she also has a diva's mother.

Seeing this, we can understand that although Li Yan and Xiao Yue'er have similar experiences, their fates are very different.

Because the pattern of their parents is different and the environment around them is different, they are not the same now.

Today's Li Yan is 18 years old, which can be described as "my family has a girl who has just grown up".

She not only inherited the temperament of her mother Faye Wong, but also inherited the unique personality and aesthetics of her mother Faye Wong.

Li Yan, who is full of personality, is actually talented.

can paint, held an art exhibition in Yunnan at the age of 6, and a painting at the age of 7 was sold for 1 million;

knows how to dress, Li Yan once disclosed her "beauty experience", and ridiculed "Sister Fei's fashion, only I can keep up", which once aroused heated discussions among netizens;

Looking at today's Xiao Yue'er, she photographed by the media is not only hunched over, but also has a submissive personality.

Even grandma Zhang Lan once lamented that her granddaughter was raised by Big S "not like words", and bluntly said that when she took her granddaughter out to play, she felt that everything the child saw was fresh, and she had never seen the world at first glance.

Even if Xiao Yue'er stays by her father Wang Xiaofei's side, she can still feel her restraint.

The most important thing is that now her father Wang Xiaofei is newly married Yan'er, if a new brother or sister is born in the future, although Xiao Yue'er still has her father's favor, who can make up for the love that can be separated?

After all, she is not like Li Yan, she has a diva mother who can always be backing.

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