Since the liberalization of the comprehensive two-child policy in 2016, more and more families have changed from families of three to families of four. The mother of the second child finally breathed a sigh of relief, in the past, every New Year's Holiday, there were seven aunts and eight aunts who cared about their life events, "When to get married?" "When will you have a baby?" "The two-child policy has been liberalized, and a second child can be born."
But if these elders can end so hastily, they are really sorry for the title of "giving birth to 120". The new round of words is: "The three-child policy is about to be released, and you can prepare to have another one." ”
Why is it that when someone has two children, they are still "spawned"? The biggest reason is the deep-rooted patriarchal mentality of the elders. Which type of second-born mother is most often spawned? Must have given birth to two daughters. "Let's have another son!" For such elders, the mothers can not pay attention to it, silently replying: the second child is making the chicken fly and the dog jumps, and still want the third child? Born you will help me raise and help me take me to birth.
Some netizens brilliantly summed up: after a woman gives birth to a child, it is called life, giving birth to two children, only alive, if there is another child, it is not even alive.
The friend Xiaolu is the mother of two daughters, and the mother-in-law always knocks on the side to encourage Xiaolu to regenerate one. Xiao Lu did not say a word, but every three to five years often sent two children to her mother-in-law, as little as a day of play, more than three nights and two days. In less than half a year, when there were relatives in the family who blew the "birth wind" again, the mother-in-law did not dare to say a word. Why? Because the mother-in-law personally experienced the difficulty of taking two children, it is easy to enjoy the old age quietly, two bear children have tossed themselves enough, if the daughter-in-law has another one, even if it is a boy, if the two small mouths are not brought, they are not allowed to help themselves, where to eat this suffering.
We all admire Xiao Lu's high rank, and there is a friend who originally wanted to have two children, decisively gave birth, and now the mother-in-law still wants her to have another son, she directly threw out the bill, put forward two hard-core conditions - to be born, first change us to a large suite for a nanny car. The mother-in-law did not speak again. "There is no such condition in the family, and it is necessary to have three children." What about being born as a son, is there a mine inheritance? ”
It is no longer the old era of "chasing a sheep is a herd, and driving a flock of sheep is also a herd". When a child comes out, the cost is increasing squarely, and most ordinary families can't afford the cost of eating and wearing three children, not to mention the cost of hiring a nanny and cultivating interest classes.
As most women, having two children is in response to the call of the state, and they grit their teeth and endure it. Having three children means that the job is more difficult to keep, the career is almost over, and the living security is completely gone. Although women have to hold up half of the sky, they can be preached to have to go up to the hall and the kitchen, and they have to have children and raise children with children. Don't forget, women are also human beings, not Senju Kannon!
Therefore, at present, other welfare policies have not kept up, and if the three-child policy is simply relaxed, many mothers will resolutely choose not to have children.
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