In the sixth issue of the "Let's Fall in Love" program, the topic of whether or not to become lovers with friends of the opposite sex was discussed, and Zhu Zhengting, one of the observers, believed that people who could become friends with themselves could not become lovers for themselves, because they were too familiar with each other, and it was difficult for both sides to feel each other's charm.
However, Song Yuqi said that before determining a relationship, the other party can be her friend, because she believes that people are multi-faceted, getting along with friends is a model, and getting along with lovers is another, and the display of a new side can make people have new charm.
In response to the above two views, the view of Yi Nengjing present, according to personal opinion, is a bit too white lotus, Yi Nengjing said that there are no male friends in her life, if you want to make friends with a boy, for yourself must be love at first sight for this person, if the other party is also interested in himself, he will not make friends with the opposite sex again.
Song Yuqi and Zhu Zhengting expressed two possibilities, which can be understood and accepted according to ordinary people's thinking, while Yi Nengjing's point of view gives people a feeling of defending themselves, and her words are too absolute.
It is undeniable that the kind of woman that Yi Nengjing said does exist, but it has to be said that she herself absolutely cannot do this.
The reason for saying this is also because of her inconsistent words and deeds, Yi Nengjing had two marriages, and Yu Chengqing was licensed in 2000 and ended in 2009.
Looking back at their marriage, Yi Nengjing has carefully described Yu Chengqing's kindness and caring for himself in his book, and publicly praised him as a good husband and good father.
However, in the face of such a good other half, Yi Nengjing can not keep the loneliness, cheated on the Taiwanese actor Huang Weide in marriage, for the derailment, Yi Nengjing also admitted that she lost herself at that time, and the derailed object Huang Weide also admitted that the beginning of this relationship was her initiative.
Up to now, the picture of the two people holding hands and shopping, even to this day can still be searched on the Internet, try to ask, really as she herself said, so loyal in love, then how can she have such a close relationship with Huang Weide, is not punching her own face.
Now Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, who is 10 years younger than himself, are together, the two held a wedding in 2015, and Yi Nengjing gave birth to a daughter for the man for 6 years, and the marriage between the two has always been very sweet in front of the public.
Although people will make mistakes sometimes, Yi Nengjing's statement in the "Let's Fall in Love" program really makes people feel embarrassed for her, and the harm that her behavior once caused to the other party in the marriage relationship is a memory that cannot be erased on the Internet.
For Yi Nengjing's derailment, Yu Chengqing first chose not to believe it, and even beat up his friend Zhang Yu, who revealed the news, and firmly sided with her, however, the fact undoubtedly gave Yu Chengqing a heavy blow.
I would like to ask how Yi Nengjing, for the person who has hurt once, is so righteous at this moment, saying those words in front of the audience, really makes people feel that she wants to take advantage of the current happy marriage, pretend to be pure in the show, and erase the previous stain of life for herself.
Everyone knows things, how can she forget, perhaps, she is also a good character of her ex-husband Chengqing, never publicly saying that she has a bad half sentence, so that she feels that her cheating is excusable.
As everyone knows, love and marriage are two different things, the longevity of marriage is to focus on the run-in between the two people, good communication between each other, if only because of the strong love that once faded, the lack of inner security, use the way of cheating to meet their psychological needs, this way is always an irresponsible practice for marriage, never worthy of sympathy.
It can only be said that Today's Yi Nengjing is really too good at whitewashing himself, and he really loses his dignity as a public figure.