TV series "Come on! "Mom" has been played to the end, although the reputation and traffic of this drama are not as good as expected, but all the way down, about marriage, about education, about women, everyone will have their own thinking.
This drama focuses on the plight of the mother group, their source of anxiety, on the one hand, the inner volume of the entire educational environment, on the other hand, the contradiction of self-realization, these two aspects can be solved and regulated through effort and mentality.
And what hits the mother the most is the inactive husband and the incompetent father.
Widowed parenting has become a pain point for the whole society, as a mother to balance the family and work, as a father, it is natural to think that the child is the responsibility of the mother.
When a father overrides his mother in a condescending posture and points and manipulates her at will, this is the most terrifying thing.
In "Come On! In "Mommy", there are three dads who make such mistakes.
The same is the play of "scum daddy", put Huang Weide, Yuan Wenkang and Gao Xin together, the difference comes out.
- First place: Huang Weide | as Li Xiuping (Xiaowen's father)
In the eyes of outsiders, Li Xiuping is a typical successful man, after graduating from college, he opened a law firm with his wife Su Qing, relying on his ability to accumulate a lot of customer resources, his career is booming, and his income is not cheap.
At the same time, he has a capable wife, Su Qing can not only support half the sky in the office, but also educate his two children very well.
The eldest son, Xiaofu, attends a key primary school and a key middle school, and the second son, Xiaowen, learns both in kindergarten.
But tearing off the glossy mask of this middle-class family, every family member is unhappy, and the biggest reason is the absence of husbands and fathers.
Li Xiuping was busy with his work all day, his mind was never at home, and he did not witness every important stage of the child.
What is even more excessive is that he exercises his father's rights and requires his children to be the top, but he cannot give his children companionship and guidance, and even let Su Qing give up his career to take care of the whole family.
When Su Qing single-mindedly pounced on the child, Li Xiuping had an improper relationship with the female assistant and was secretly transferring property.
Such a selfish, indifferent and ruthless father figure was interpreted by Huang Weide to the extreme.
From the image point of view, Li Xiuping will always be a suit and leather shoes in the play, dressed in an orderly manner, and at the same time does not smile, and there is not much expression, which is very in line with the image and personality of the lawyer.
Xiaowen in the kindergarten due to excessive exercise caused asthma, Su Qing put down his work and rushed to the hospital, and Li Xiuping was late, a hurried look, after confirming that the child was okay, he began to blame Su Qing outside the words.
Su Qing complained that Li Xiuping did not care about the children at all, and Li Xiuping came up with the excuse of always evading responsibility: "The case in my hand cannot be pushed away." ”
When Su Qing used "I also have a lot of cases" to put Li Xiuping's army, Li Xiuping took advantage of the situation to say that he could help Su Qing share her case, it seems that Li Xiuping is concerned about Su Qing, in fact, he wants to take up Su Qing's rights in the firm.
In just a few words of dialogue, Huang Weide quietly showed Li Xiuping's darkness and machismo.
Because of Xiaowen's asthma recurrence, Li Xiuping once again asked Su Qing to be a full-time mother.
Although Su Qing was reluctant to do so, because of Xiao Fu's rebellion, she began to wonder if she really did not fulfill her responsibility as a mother.
For the sake of her children, she chose to compromise, she thought that Li Xiuping just did not care about the family, but she did not expect that this man who had been with her for many years would do something wrong.
When Su Qing knew all the truth, the scene where Li Xiuping and Su Qing confronted was very exciting.
Li Xiuping first recalled the beautiful past with Su Qing and played the emotional card.
Seeing that Su Qing was silent, he thought that Su Qing's heart had softened, and continued to use "misunderstanding" to cover up his mistakes.
Not only that, Li Xiuping also tried to transfer the mistake to Su Qing, saying that she used the lawyer's means of intimidation on him.
Su Qing saw through his lies and logical loopholes at a glance, and in the face of her questioning, Li Xiuping told the truth, of course, he did not forget to use "mutual comfort" to weaken the seriousness of his mistakes.
Li Xiuping explained more and more, and then he used "you are too strong to make me have no dignity" to throw the pot at Su Qing.
When Su Qing came up with the divorce agreement, Li Xiuping finally panicked, and he anxiously said, "I can make up for it."
During the whole process, Li Xiuping's mood was like riding a roller coaster, from the beginning of the victory in hand, to the slow lack of heart, and then to the final anger and corruption.
A man like Li Xiuping, who is well aware of the weaknesses of human nature, can always find the weakest place of the other party to attack, and at the same time does not forget to attack the other party to maintain his man's dignity.
If his wife were not Su Qing, replaced by any ordinary woman, she would not be able to resist his persuasive logic.
Fortunately, Su Qing had a strong logical thinking and a clear and rational mind, so that he could see through Li Xiuping's weakness, inferiority and selfishness, and leave him no room for him.
Li Xiuping is a typical Chinese little man, facing a wife who is stronger than himself, he is full of inferiority in his heart, so he often uses a lofty posture to suppress Su Qing.
In order to maintain his poor self-esteem, he did not hesitate to seek a sense of security by "cheating" and "transferring property", which was sad, pitiful, and ridiculous.
- Second place: Yuan Wenkang | as Yang Shuo (Xiaoyang's father)
Yang Shuo and Li Xiuping are essentially similar, with the aura of a successful man, self-righteously thinking of manipulating other people's lives.
If Yang Shuo and Zhou Nannan get married, it may be a reproduction of the ending of Li Xiuping and Su Qing.
The difference is that when he was young, Su Qing chose to work hard with Li Xiuping, and Yang Shuo chose to give up Zhou Nannan to work his own.
After 6 years, he became a man with a successful career, and the only regret was that he did not have a full family.
When Yang Shuo learned that Zhou Nannan had given birth to a child with him, he thought that Zhou Nannan loved him too much, and while he wanted to save Zhou Nannan, he wanted to obtain the custody of Xiaoyang.
Unfortunately, time has changed, and the moment Zhou Nannan left Yang Shuo's country, she was dead to Yang Shuo.
Yang Shuo seems to have a deep affection for Zhou Nannan, but in fact, this is just a common disease for all low-level men seeking superiority.
Zhou Nannan has witnessed Yang Shuo's poor appearance, which is a wound to men's self-esteem, and when he has achieved fame, if he can get the heart of old love, it will prove his value on the side.
With such a ridiculous psychology, Yang Shuo did a lot of absurd things.
He used his connections to help Zhou Nannan arrange a high-paying financial job, but the result was that Zhou Nannan was discussed in the company.
Knowing that Zhou Nannan took Xiaoyang and Teacher Lu to share a house, Yang Shuo began to swear sovereignty.
Yang Shuo, like Li Xiuping, played the emotional card and took Zhou Nannan to the restaurant they used to often go to.
No matter what Yang Shuo did, Zhou Nannan did not accept the recruitment, because she knew Yang Shuo too well, and she also understood the root cause of the breakdown of her relationship with Yang Shuo.
Zhou Nannan, like Su Qing, is sober and rational, knows very well what she wants, and they will not give up on themselves to go around a man.
In the face of Zhou Nannan's repeated refusals, Yang Shuo finally used the killer skill, seeking legal means to fight for Xiaoyang's custody and wanted to take him out of the country.
The scene where Zhou Nannan and Yang Shuo negotiate at the law firm is equally wonderful.
In the face of the confrontation between the two lawyers, Zhou Nannan was a little nervous, but Yang Shuo was calm and relaxed, and he was rich and powerful, so he had the chance to win.
When Zhou Nannan used the view that "the mother's company is more important to the child" to refute the importance of material conditions and economic foundations for the child, Yang Shuo still did not say a word, and even expressed contempt for Zhou Nannan with a downward attitude.
When he learned that he had won in law, Yang Shuo took out the admission letter of the foreign primary school and took out his right as a father to directly attack Zhou Nannan's weakness.
Li Xiuping used Zhou Nannan's lack of stable income to send her an army, Zhou Nannan was going to open a dessert shop, but Yang Shuo quietly stirred up this matter, and when Zhou Nannan questioned Yang Shuo, his eyes were full of arrogance.
Zhou Nannan stressed that he would open a dessert shop to feed Xiaoyang, and Yang Shuo moved out of the previous example of Zhou Nannan's failure to open an online store to attack her, and his words were full of sarcasm.
Su Qing hit Yang Shuo's soft underbelly with his child, and Yang Shuo's momentum became less arrogant, and began to explain the reason for his lawsuit, of course, his reason was not convincing.
The whole negotiation ended with Yang Shuofang's slight victory.
Yuan Wenkang's performance is very natural and vivid, and his expression is much more agile than Huang Weide's expressionless face.
At the same time, with sharp eyes, serious expressions and a powerful aura, he shows a self-righteous, high-minded and successful person just right.
Yang Shuo's scum is not that the scum has not fulfilled the obligations of the father, but that he uses money and power to decide the child's life, and does not leave half a face for the child's birth mother.
Such a father does not have real heartache and compassion for his children, and all he does is satisfy his own proud heart.
- Third place: Gao Xin | as Tian Siyang (Youyou's father)
Tian Siyang is also successful in his career, he is extremely capable in his profession, graduated with a doctorate, known as a surgical knife.
He works in a high-end private hospital, has a high status, has a good income, and gives his wife and children a good life.
But no one could have imagined that a man who could stand up to the whole sky in the hospital would not be able to withstand even half a piece of the sky when he returned home.
Tian Siyang grew up in a single-parent family, his father died early, and his mother took up the life of a son and a daughter.
Perhaps she has been beaten by life, causing Tian Mu to fall into two extremes, one end is strong and domineering, and the other end is insecure.
Without the love of her husband, Tian Mu can only ask for it from her children, and after her daughter gets married, all her life focuses on her son's family.
In the face of Tian Mu's demonization and interference, Tian Siyang never resisted, always between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In terms of family, he is not only a handshaker, but also a giant baby who has not grown up.
Youyou exchanged the pen that her grandmother gave her to Xiaoyang, and He Xiaohan had to let Xiaoyang return it, which resulted in a oolong.
After Tian Mu learned about it, she counted Down He Xiaohan, thinking that she was too small and childish, watching the breath between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law getting lower and lower, Tian Siyang, who wore Bluetooth headphones, pretended not to hear, in the face of Tian Mu's complaint, he quickly used "no big deal" to fool the past, making Tian Mu and He Xiaohan feel uncomfortable.
Tian Mu learned that the kindergarten began to take gender education classes, the ideological tradition she thought such a course was too explicit, she began to accuse He Xiaohan of having no status in the family committee, and at the same time connotated that she had climbed her son high, Tian Siyang obviously heard what Tian Mu said, but he still did not say why Xiao Han spoke, and once again put on a pampered expression.
He Xiaohan complained about Tian Mu's attitude towards her, and Tian Siyang was like a person pretending to be asleep, not realizing the root cause of the problem between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and also proposed that as long as He Xiaohan did not quarrel with Tian Mu.
The kindergarten gave the child a death education class, Youyou went home and Tian Mu said, the result tian mu felt too obscure, began to accuse He Xiaohan of not teaching the child well, in the face of Tian Mu's aggressiveness, He Xiaohan tried to refute, but Tian Siyang was still indifferent and chose to respond in silence.
He Xiaohan couldn't stand the strong Tian Mu and wanted to move out, hoping that Tian Siyang could consult with Tian Mu, Tian Siyang ostensibly agreed, but in fact he couldn't make up his mind at all.
Because Tian Mu's preference for sons and daughters led to Youyou wanting to be a boy, and began to disagree with his girl identity, He Xiaohan could not bear it any longer, insisting on moving out, he clashed with Tian Mu, and Tian Siyang on the side watched his mother-in-law turn against him but did not come up with an attitude.
Seeing that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war fell into a state of stalemate, Tian Siyang only said: "Can you two not do this", and he still complains about He Xiaohan in his heart.
Every time Tian Mu and He Xiaohan clashed, Tian Siyang showed weakness and mud, he could not see the essence of the mother-in-law problem at all, he could not understand his wife's grievances, nor could he understand his mother's crossing.
Sandwiched between his wife and mother, Tian Siyang was embarrassed, but in order not to let the war burn on his head, he chose not to take a stand.
Tian Siyang's mother's treasure attribute lies in Tian Mu's preference for sons and daughters, as a traditional woman, while favoring her son, she kidnaps her son with her own efforts, resulting in Tian Siyang's personality being weak and afraid of things.
Of course, the problem of Ma Bao Man should not only blame her mother, as a high-achieving student, an adult, his psychology did not keep up with the growth rate of physiology, he lived under the arms of his mother, and never became an independent person.
Marrying a man like Tian Siyang, the end is that like He Xiaohan, he was wronged in his in-laws' family, and he was rejected along with his own children.
Later, after He Xiaohan miscarried his second child, Tian Siyang changed his former wrongs and began to assume the responsibilities of his husband and father, and the family relationship entered a virtuous circle.
Gao Xin's acting skills are very natural, and every time he shows Tian Siyang's cowardice, his lines are not much, but he uses his eyes and expressions to convey the heart of the characters, playing a poor and pathetic father figure.
- The girl said
These three "scum daddies" each have their own scum.
Li Xiuping's scum lies in his infidelity to his family, betrayal of his family, and moral kidnapping of his wife.
Yang Shuo's scum lies in arrogance and prejudice, regardless of the love of mother and son, only concerned about his own desires.
Tian Siyang's scum lies in the fact that he has no opinion, and in the mud again and again, he let his mother and wife lose both.
The acting skills of Huang Weide, Yuan Wenkang and Gao Xin also have their own characteristics, Huang Weidewen, Yuan Wenkangling, Gao Xin Natural.
The acting characteristics of actors are inseparable from the character settings, and their interpretations are different and have memory points. (End)
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