Go or stay, hesitate, 3 steps teach you how to treat the work correctly

Early in the morning, Li Li, a bank teller, received a grandfather to consult his time deposit.

She smiled and patiently explained it to him three times, but the old man still didn't hear clearly. Is it that the elderly have poor hearing? She raised her voice slightly, and did not think that the old man stood up at once and began to scold, saying that the attitude was too poor, the quality was too low, and how to have the ability to do a good job in the service industry.

Customers from all over the hall gathered and pointed out, giving her words of suffering. Later, the manager came forward to apologize repeatedly, and Li Li also whispered with a smiling face, and the old man's anger subsided.

In the eyes of others, bank tellers commute to work on time every day and work easily. In fact, at any time, I have to face customers who lose their temper for no reason, and I don't know how much grievances like this morning have been experienced.

The customer's unreasonable teasing and tedious work make her feel confused and anxious, is this really the job I want?

In the service industry like Li Li, dealing with people of different personalities every day, it is inevitable to be wronged, and over time, more and more negative emotions will naturally give rise to the idea of fleeing.

In the face of a job that is suppressed and disliked, whether to go or stay is the confusion of every workplace person.

If you happen to be in such a confused period and have not yet decided to leave, then I recommend that you read "Worth it on Earth" co-authored by Hiromi Okuda and Tsuniko Nakamura.

In the book "Worth it on Earth", it is written that if you have similar ideas, it is because you think too much and think too long-term.

So, how do you get through this period of confusion?

First, adjust your mentality and don't have too high expectations for your work.

In our lifetime, we need to work for too long.

If we have too high expectations for our work, once the work does not meet our expectations, we will have doubts, feel that the future is confused, and have anxiety and fear about the future.

Xiao Chen recently told me: "Work for 3 years, repeat the same thing every day, now with my eyes closed can complete the work in hand, it seems that as soon as I look up, I can see my state after ten years and decades, I feel that I am in a mess, is there a future for my work, should I continue or resign?" ”

In order to change the increasingly strong entanglement in his heart, Xiao Chen decided to try to do it himself.

Start by changing your work attitude and do every little thing in your work conscientiously and responsibly. Slowly try to find pleasure in monotonous repetitive work, try to make the work more refined and professional. When making the form, a little creativity will be added to the form to make the leader's eyes shine; each plan in hand will carefully consider every detail.

He found that when he put all his energy into his work, he had no time to imagine the days ahead, and he didn't have the confusion.

It can be seen that having too high expectations at work will blind our eyes and make us unable to see the essence of things. If we adjust our mindset and let ourselves stop expecting, we can reap surprises along the way.

Second, do not blindly care about the eyes of others in your work.

Everyone's vision and perspective of looking at things are different, we can't take our own eyes to see others, and naturally we can't accept others asking us with their eyes.

Xiao Chen used to care a lot about what others thought of him. Every day, I carefully cater to others, even if I am aggrieved, I am not willing to say no to others.

For example, colleagues often ask Xiao Chen to help with some of their own work. In order to leave a good impression on his colleagues, Xiao Chen had to work overtime to catch up, tired of himself, but the work he did was someone else's, and he did not do it and was afraid that his colleagues would say that he was stingy and would not help; well done, everyone was satisfied, and he did not do well, and he had to be complained about, so he had to swallow his grievances into his heart.

Later, he felt that this was too tired, and decided to adjust first from his attitude of caring too much about other people's eyes. Since then, immersed in their own work, do not think about what others think, work performance and ability have improved rapidly, and have been affirmed by leaders and colleagues.

It's only natural that colleagues help each other. There is no time to learn to exercise yourself and say no. Don't care about other people's eyes, if you want others to look up to you, you must have enough ability to surpass him, otherwise it is useless to please him. Only the weak will bow their heads.

So, don't pay too much attention to the eyes of others, those are the stumbling blocks in your career, kick it away, you can go light.

Third, focus on the immediate and try to do the work well.

No one can guarantee that your next job will be something you like, right? So, focus on the work in front of you and do your best to do it well.

If one day you meet a job you like, I believe that you are also capable of doing it. Know that opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.

Classmate Xiao Li felt bored at work a year ago and wondered whether he should resign. When he hesitated, his friend suggested to him: First try to do the right thing in front of him.

So he worked hard to make changes, after work to learn more professional skills and management knowledge, so that he did not have leisure time to think more, and when he finished learning, his ability in the department has been outstanding, soon by the appreciation of the leadership, has now been promoted to department manager, highly different, the vision of the problem is different, he is no longer entangled in whether to resign, but to focus on how to do the work in front of him.

It is best to meet the work you like, and try your best to do the work in front of you if you don't meet it. Keep doing it, and maybe one day you will find that what is in front of you may not be the best, but it must be the best for you.

On the question of whether you should resign, whether you have a positive attitude or a negative mentality, you should tell yourself that it is not because the work in front of you is bad that causes you to be so, but you should know that it is your work attitude that determines the quality of your work.

If you don't know whether to go or stay at work, adjust your mentality, learn to lower your expectations for work, try your best to do the work in front of you, do everything well, and exercise and reserve your ability.

Try to put aside those dazed thoughts, work hard to take the initiative to change yourself, be attentive, self-motivated, and prepare for the future, I believe that you will stay away from this dazedness and get more and better opportunities for choice.