Love, who wants a person's love for themselves, can be forever.
Men in love will always like to promise that they will love the women around them for a lifetime.
However, no matter how much women have such expectations, how good the men's vows are, with the long time they have been together, the original enthusiasm will still only gradually fade.
One day, love will disappear and men will become less enthusiastic and even stop loving you.
In such a situation, you may have some disappointment, but no matter how reluctant, the reality is often so, you have to face it, and the days will continue to go on.
As for the day when the man no longer loves you, how to deal with it depends on the specific situation.
See if he doesn't love, wants to go to other people's side, is it starting to have a very bad attitude towards you, makes you feel very bad, or although he doesn't love, he still wants to continue to do well.
There are always some situations, when a man loves you, he really loves you, but when one day he doesn't love you, he really doesn't care about you at all, and he only wants to be different from you, and even has other people around him.
And whether the other party just wants to break up with you and has not yet fallen in love with others, or has an extraordinary relationship with others, wants to end with you quickly, since he does not love, and also proposed to break up, you do not have to be too much retention.
Men and women are not the same, you often say that you want to give up the feelings between you, may just be angry, the heart is not happy, so want to vent, hope that the other party can notice, and then come to coax you, men say break up, but it is generally true.
In relationships, a man never says break up easily unless he has really decided.
Therefore, a man who is determined to leave, since he really has no affection for you, even if he is reluctant to do so, he still loves it very much, and he is not willing to end it, you better be a little more relaxed.
Insisting on leaving you, feeling that there is no better man in life than you, you can't keep him.
In the face of this fact, instead of begging him to stay, you should do something and fight for more benefits for yourself.
It will also be possible that the man's heart has no place for you at all, he often ignores you, snubs you, does not tell you anything, treats you coldly, is ambiguous with others outside, and even does something to you, but does not break up with you.
For such a man, you can want to do something to make him change his mind, but if you have worked very hard to communicate with him, or even deliberately lowered yourself, hoping to get along with him, he is still indifferent, and you don't have to be persistent.
It's too bad for you, it makes you too miserable, when you really can't improve your relationship, since he doesn't love you, and the future with him is doomed to be dark, and you don't have to desperately keep this relationship in name only.
He doesn't separate from you, but only when you don't exist, all kinds of harsh treatment of you, you can choose to leave by yourself.
Life is so long, you really don't have to feel that meeting him and living with him for a lifetime is your destiny.
Your life, your own destiny, is never predestined, but in your choices.
Just like when you chose to fall in love with him, at this moment, you can also choose not to continue with him, let your future no longer be related to him, and then plan your future again, so that your future is more hopeful.
If you say that the other party does not love you, but he is no longer as attentive to you as hot love, then the care note, in general, the other party is still good to you, want to go with you well, you can be relieved.
You know, after the relationship is stable, the other party will have other things to be busy with and put in their own energy.
You have to allow the other person, not all the time, all the attention, all on you.
Instead of always asking the other party to give you more attention, let the other party love you more, and often because the other party is not in place, you should use more time and energy to improve yourself.
Go to exercise your body, read a few books carefully, take care of your own appearance, go shopping when you should go shopping, party with friends, and have your own circle as much as possible, as well as your own life.
Even if you are a couple, a couple, you are just independent individuals, and you will need some independent space.
When you can do this, live your own life well, and manage the feelings between you well, be intimate when you should be intimate, and give each other space space when you should give each other space, your relationship will naturally be relaxed and more harmonious.
In a relationship, no one can always love another person wholeheartedly, as always.
Recognize this truth and accept this truth, and you will really be much better off.
As you can accept the fact that someone leaves, you will be able to be better relieved, someone is not good to you, you will be able to choose again, in a relationship, you can also be more sober to love.
To love someone, to be loved by someone, you don't have to think too complicated.
Just love as you please, and then in the days to come, according to your situation, make a judgment.
Don't ask for everything, just as you think.
But ask yourself, never live up to your heart, never fail the people around you.
Text/Tan Meng
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