Many boys always go straight when chatting with girls, not only can not please the girls, but also provoke the girls to be angry, and even make the girls disgusted, unwilling to continue to chat.
At this time, boys should think carefully, how to chat can continue to discuss with girls, and let girls have a good impression of themselves, and take the initiative to "pick up" the girls they like.
Xiaobian shares the following 5 tips here, welcome to discuss one or two together.
1. Exercise your own perceptual thinking and read a woman's heart
There is a big difference between men and women in dealing with emotions, which can be said to be two completely opposite directions: left and right.
Boys' way of thinking is more rational, everything is the pursuit of a result, a rational word, independent, do not listen to anyone's command, and will not care about women's feelings.
Women's way of thinking is more emotional, often pursuing emotional support and comfort, they only care about their own feelings, not the results.
If boys want to have a common topic with girls, they need to exercise emotional thinking. We must think more about women's psychology, understand women's ideas, and train their own perceptual thinking to read women's hearts.
2. Enrich your knowledge and lay the foundation for chatting
When boys chat with girls, they always want to understand what girls want to express, obviously the messages that should be replied to have been replied to, but the girls are angry again.
I am always unsure of what "medicine" is sold in the girl's gourd, and I am always confused and can't figure it out.
For example, when a girl hesitates to say to a boy, "You are a good person", the boy must not think that the girl is praising you, he is likely to say again, you are a good person, but unfortunately I do not like you.
Girls always express very implicitly, if boys do not have enough knowledge, it is difficult to think through.
Therefore, boys should read more books and enrich their knowledge, after all, many girls like talented boys.
Boys should also watch more romantic TV movies, listen to more comedy jokes, learn how to use the knowledge they have learned, and improve their emotional intelligence.
3. Improve your eloquence and speak with some joy
When the boys and girls chatted, they found that the girls were angry, and the boys began to panic, not knowing how to coax, and did not know what kind of words to say to make the girls smile again.
If the boy has a three-inch tongue, a lotus flower, and the ability to dissolve the girl's anger, he can quickly resolve the contradiction and regain the trust of the girl.
In fact, this kind of eloquence is not innate, can be achieved through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, boys want to coax girls to be happy, and girls chat unimpeded, then, it is necessary to enhance their eloquence, talk with some joy, chat constantly.
4. Store the greeting of praise and praise in a different way
Every girl likes to listen to praise words, boys before chatting, prepare more praise sentences, in the chat between the two people in a timely manner to praise the girl, the girl does not say on the mouth, but the heart is happy to blossom.
Girls will always come up with some "false propositions" on inappropriate occasions, such as, "Am I pretty or is she pretty?" Boys don't just say "You're pretty." ”
This will make the girl feel that you are perfunctory to her, you can say your praise" "You are much more beautiful than her, you have a cherry mouth that can speak..."
You know, girls actually want you to make a comparison, if you don't make a comparison, she is still grumpy and unforgiving.
5. Seize the opportunity to take the initiative to attack and "pick" the girl into hand
When men and women chat to a certain extent, if girls like boys, they will always give boys some hints and confide in him their thoughts, that is, they want boys to confess to themselves.
Boys can't understand the meaning of girls, always think that the fire is not enough, sudden confession will scare girls, and they will be embarrassed in the future.
In fact, boys should carefully ponder the meaning of girls, as long as they see the signs, they must take the initiative to attack and pick up girls.
Because girls generally don't talk to boys they don't like for long, they don't want to waste their time on boys they don't like.
If the boy likes her, she should grasp the schedule white.