Many people do not know how to make a qualified leader, in fact, leadership is not born, and many people who can be leaders are not necessarily the material for leadership. You must also be more or less behind your leadership, and you as a leader must also be talked about behind your back.
What is leadership? Leadership is actually a kind of temperament, and temperament is that you think of yourself as someone, you will unconsciously play who you are, and others will feel that you are indeed like someone.
First of all, you must at least look very stable, and people who are too frivolous at least look unreliable.
1. When you are emotional, please try: smile and greet each other's relatives in your heart. Or with a smile on your face and a silent thought in your heart, how can I be so good.
2, don't be like Xianglin sister-in-law, complaining everywhere. Suffering is not bitter to know it yourself, and complaining everywhere can only make people look at it as a joke. I have a vice: when I see someone I know more familiar with venting my emotions in the circle of friends, I will reason with him in private messages until the other party deletes it.
(Some people can't accept this, so I'll share it.) ）
3, when you have no idea, don't ask other people's ideas. The opinions of others are mainly to reduce the risk and supplement the blind spots, if you have no idea, there are blind spots everywhere.
4, particularly critical decision-making, whether radical or conservative need to be discussed, pay attention to is consultation, not to find recognition, need someone to disagree. At the same time, don't announce it right away, let yourself fly first.
5, when speaking slowly, slower, do not panic, group good words and then say.
6, when walking silently chant 123, do not swing left and right, look up and chest, and land on the ground with your heels first.
Second, you have to be an attentive person with a sense of your surroundings.
1, for what is happening around you, think more about why, less self-judgment, distinguish which is reality and which is the point of view.
2, the habitual way of doing things, including lifestyle, driving routes, eating habits, etc. to have ideas and action plans to improve or optimize, refuse to let themselves live in the same world.
4, before doing things, first make a work list according to the timeline, and when you speak, you are also accustomed to saying the first point, the second point and the third point.
5, you can ask others what they look like in their eyes. Have a little courage to listen to the truth and not take revenge.
Again, you also need some guts, and guts represent commitment in many cases.
1. Use positive and explicit words, avoiding uncertain words like: almost, probably, maybe.
2, from a certain negative word I often use to change, I once spent more than five hundred yuan to change the mantra of "annoyed to death", because I said that as long as someone hears me say this word, I am happy to donate 10 yuan.
3, when a lot of people have a dispute, do not fall into the dispute, think more clearly about the cause and effect of things, and quickly think about the solution.
4. Always keep your optimistic, positive, upward attitude and keep smiling. And happy to share, like, follow and retweet.
5, do not make mistakes because of your own carelessness, because many people are looking at you, the most feared thing in the workplace is to be locked in a pot without responsibility.
6, when things inevitably happen to the results you don't want to see, don't hesitate, think more about how to stop the loss. For example, under the double reduction, how many cultural class tuition institutions have no possibility of survival, and they will only suffer the consequences in the end.
Also, you also need to make yourself a little more generous, after all, there are so many people who don't speculate.
1, do not be hostile to anyone, even if you hate him, do not make a vendetta because of it. The big deal is that passers-by are much stronger than the enemy.
2. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. You try to make yourself better, not to compete with others.
3, the guest should be invited, the money should be paid, do not instigate. Eat and drink less.
4, the right is in hand, but also to keep a low profile, you don't know who will climb on your head next.
5, for people who are much stronger than you, be sure to take the initiative to contact. There are really few people who can play in the workplace.
Moreover, there is still a matter of integrity to pursue, at least people are willing to emphasize that they are, and others are also honest.
1, be careful in words and deeds, say less and do more,
2, less shouting slogans, the circle of friends said to lose weight and fitness, are deceitful. Just do what you want, you don't have to let others know.
3, resolutely do not give customers the opportunity to say that you are not honest.
6, personal brand in addition to your personal ability, the other is integrity.
Finally, the stronger the ability, the greater the responsibility, the more responsible, and the more opportunities.
1, criticism and self-criticism, can not do 1:9, at least 3:7 bar
2. Work summary and report, first say the deficiencies, and then talk about the achievements.
3, at any time, the leader is the first responsibility, and you are your own leader.
4. Before any plan begins, first say the rules of the game, first define the rights and responsibilities clearly, and distribute them properly.
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