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Do you have psychological problems before you go to psychological counseling? Many Chinese people will think so, equating psychological counseling with psychological problems or mental illness, but your psychological test is not less played at all, you have a good time, you still believe in the results of psychological testing, that is what is the problem in psychology, or what is wrong.
You play the psychological test not only yourself, you also send it to the people you like, why, because you want to understand what their psychology is like, what they mean by that sentence, why he does it, what he thinks in his heart, what he will do to me in the future, right.
These are actually one of the functions of psychological counseling, called psychoanalysis, but also logical reasoning, behind a set of psychological logic, there is a very comprehensive analysis of human nature, plus the summary of cases.
When the counselor tells you reasonably, you will suddenly realize, Oh! It turns out that this is the case, no wonder, fully understand the psychology of the other party, in the relationship you can strategize, decisive victory thousands of miles away, is not very wow. Yes, that's what counseling is all about.
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Of course, in the real society, not only the marriage market needs psychological counseling, family education, parent-child relationships, do you know what your children are thinking? Parents do not know a lot of times, so there is child psychology, developmental psychology, family pedagogy, the details can include the use of psychological methods to improve grades, which are the use of psychology can help improve, and mental illness is not at the same level of comparison.
Everyone now knows that the original family affects a person, but have you ever thought that you are the original family of your children?
The height of your growth is the height of your child's starting line.
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Of course, you can also say, I don't have children, then you always have to go to work, the workplace is a large-scale palace fight scene, it is necessary to fight wits and courage, it is necessary to understand each other, to figure out the intentions of leaders, to understand business partners, to know each other about competitors.
You can also say, I don't have to go to work, then you always have to make money, you always have to contact people, business negotiations need to know what the other party is thinking, the needs of the other party, what is the weakness of the other party, you design a set of business plans, you need to understand the psychology of consumers, you and people contact, do you need to understand each other's needs, what the other party is thinking inside, this is all a function of psychological counseling.
You can get this information through psychological counseling, of course, not every psychological counselor can do it, I mean the psychological counselor this group, when you encounter confusion, confusion, difficulty, ton, encounter some emotions you can not regulate for a while, encounter some situations and interpersonal things you can not understand for a while, you can find a psychological counselor this group, to help you see the overall situation, straighten out the thinking, break through the current predicament.
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Why? Are counselors particularly awesome?
It's not because counselors are much better than you, it's just that you're only in this mountain, and the impact of your current emotions and environment on you is that you can't jump out and see the big picture.
And as a psychological counselor, first of all, he has a professional background, there are many cases of accumulation, and secondly, he is not in the environment and emotions you are in, they can jump out and see the overall situation, give you a clearer idea, I am more willing to treat the psychological counselor as an ancient military teacher, a staff officer, rather than a psychologist. It is not when you are sick to see, it is when your wisdom is not enough, it is when you are trapped in the emotions, trapped in the environment, it is when you stand in your own blind spot, you go to find a psychological counselor, they can help you see the overall situation, through the professional understanding of human nature, know yourself and know the other, understand what you encounter, how you should deal with it, this time to find a psychologist is a very wise choice, not to see a psychologist when you are sick.
You are looking for psychological counselors, who understand human nature at least a little more than you will, just as you rarely see surgery and rarely see blood, and doctors are accustomed to it, psychological counselors have accumulated a large number of cases, read countless people, plus their professional knowledge, plus they are an outsider's point of view, they can help you at that moment, this is the meaning of psychological counseling.
Copyright: Guangzhou Dexin Psychological Consulting Co., Ltd
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Author: Ruan Jian
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