People go high, water flows low.
Everyone wants to become a high-level person, live the life of a rich person, and get a good position. But when we try to go up, we will find that there are still many people who stay in the low place and cannot change the status quo no matter what.
Some people, not not hard, but toss many times, still no improvement, their workload is larger than others, but also very self-disciplined, but the results are smaller than others. When I think about it, I feel angry.
Many people have toiled all their lives and still live at the bottom of society, most of which are related to the following five reasons. If a person wants to go to a high place, he must have the wisdom to go uphill.
01
"High is not successful, low is not enough", always the eye is high and the hand is low, and the ability and position do not match.
Are you a "thousand-mile horse"? You're probably not, but you think you have the potential of a Maxima, and you can do a good job in any position. At the same time, you complain that God didn't let you meet Bó Lè.
For example, you are an undergraduate, but when you look for a job, you find that there are too few jobs that suit you, and the jobs you like, others don't want you; the jobs you don't like, but a lot. You go to work with the mentality of "preferring lack rather than abuse", and you have been going around for many years, and the work has not been satisfactory.
As a person, don't underestimate yourself, but also can't overestimate yourself, find a suitable position, in order to make yourself more powerful. If the position is too high, their ability is very limited, then every day is in a circle, the work is not improving; the position is too low, the starting point of life is too low, no matter how tossed, can not stand out among their peers.
02
"Don't see the rabbit and don't throw the eagle", the idea is too conservative, there is no risk-taking spirit.
Some people, when doing things, "fear the wolf before, fear the tiger later", do things in a fearful and shrinking, and have no spirit of adventure. If the opportunity comes and is discovered, but because there is a "worry", there has been no action, and the opportunity quietly leaves.
My cousin, the fifth oldest, works in a public institution. He studied computer technology and was a capable person in the unit. Several times, the fifth classmate invited him to work in a large company in Shenzhen, but he politely refused.
The fifth elder is always worried that he has lost the "iron rice bowl", can't eat in large companies, and is more worried about the problem of unemployment. Suddenly, the old five was also in his fifties. Those students in Shenzhen have earned a lot of money, but the fifth has been in the original unit, and even the treatment of the deputy section level has not been solved.
Besides, the old five years have not updated the "wisdom", and now I want to go out and break in, and no one wants it.
A person's thinking is too conservative, always steadily advancing, looking very good, but in fact, the pace is too slow, has been lagging behind others. Opportunities and risks coexist, and if you want to surpass others, you can't always "follow the steps".
03
"Survival of the fittest, elimination of the unfit", did not keep up with the times, did not accept new things.
Thirty years ago, the secondary school students were all high-achieving students at that time, and after graduation, most of them entered the system to work, and mixed well.
Today's secondary school students, but not high-quality students, or take out the secondary school diploma, no one cares. Thirty years ago, the secondary school diploma, taken out, is also difficult to get the recognition of others.
Smart people, after getting a secondary school diploma, continue to struggle, through a variety of education and study, and obtain high-level diplomas such as college and undergraduate. Times are progressing, and so are diplomas.
A very powerful person is only very powerful at the time, and he will not be very powerful for a lifetime. If you want to become a high-level person, you must continue to increase your wisdom, keep up with the development of the times, and strive to make yourself ahead of the times.
04
"The gun shoots the head bird", because he likes to show himself, which leads to being suppressed everywhere.
The more a person shows off something, the easier it is to lose something. If you show off your wealth and are discovered, you will secretly calculate your wealth; if you show off your way to get rich, if you are discovered, you will compete with you.
If you like to show yourself, your peers will see you as a thorn in your side and even join forces to hit you.
The really rich people know how to "make a fortune in a muffled voice" and make a lot of money, and he also adheres to the principle of "wealth is not revealed".
If a person wants to become a high-level person, he must know humility. Humbly ask others for advice on how to make money, your own wealth will increase, and it will be easier to make money; be humble to learn the advantages of others, you will also become excellent; humbly accept the criticism of others, others will become your teacher.
The more humble a person is, the more advanced he is. You take the initiative to bow your head, and others will not only respect you, but also help you. Bowing one's head is actually a way of dealing with the world by "wanting to promote and suppress first".
05
"The human heart is not enough for the snake to swallow the elephant", excessive greed, resulting in more loss.
Some people, because of excessive greed, blind tossing and investing, resulting in the money they earned before, are all adrift. After many tosses, it slowly became poor, from a high-level person to a low-level person.
To be a person, we must not only get rich, but also gather wealth, but also be charitable and gather popularity. When a person has reached a certain level, he must learn to "feed back", slow down, and stabilize his wealth and popularity.
Everything can be stopped in order to stop the loss. Greedy people, on the surface, have been going up, but in fact, they have done things beyond the scope of their abilities, and they have also let their hearts be troubled by desire and cannot extricate themselves.
People who know enough, even if they have little wealth, will be very rich spiritually, and the level of life will be higher. Those who are mercenary, no matter how rich, are "inferior", but they are local tycoons who have become rich overnight and are looked down upon.
To measure a person's level, we need to measure it in terms of money, wisdom, love, mentality and spiritual outlook. If you have been very busy, but your life has not improved, you should think from the above five aspects to see where you have lost.
Find the bottleneck of life development, and then break the bottleneck, you can go to a higher level.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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