For a person, the choice determines the fate, and the decision to choose is their own character and the cognition of character formation, if you can not find the problem from your own cognition, then all the choices are the wrong beginning.
Just like Xiangzi in "Camel Xiangzi", his fate is a tragedy, but this kind of tragedy is not the self-inflicted fruit of life.
When he was 18 years old, the young Shoko walked into Beiping City with enthusiasm, and at this moment he was excited and hopeful, and he wanted to break out of his own world in this land.
For shoko, who is diligent and hardworking, living a stable life with a strong muscle is not too much of a problem.
Therefore, Shoko chose to start by pulling the cart.
Then he had a dream to buy a car of his own.
Shoko spent three years, scraping together 100 yuan, to buy a car for herself, and when he was imagining starting his new life with this car, the accident came.
During that time, many people knew the news that the warlord outside Xizhimen was arresting the coachman, and no one dared to pick up work there, but Xiangzi was fearless, and once pulled the car to the Xizhimen in order to earn two more dollars.
If nothing else, there will be an accident.
Sure enough, Shoko's car was gone, people were arrested, and even he himself became a slave to officers and soldiers.
During the days he was locked up in the barracks, he resisted, roared angrily, and finally, could only endure.
Sometimes life is the odds, when you do a wrong thing, you don't necessarily have to pay the price, when you hold the luck to make a mistake every time, you will eventually have to pay the price for your behavior.
Shoko's life is unfortunate, but his misfortune is more due to his own subjective impulses, so he paid the price of a car when he first pulled the car to the West Straight Gate, which is not completely classified as the misfortune of life, but rather because of his own stupidity.
However, fate is not completely uncared for Xiangzi, and his life also has a lucky moment, that is, when the Cao family is pulling the car.
Mr. Cao did not discriminate against Shoko because he was a coachman, but regarded him as his own family, thinking of funding him to buy a car and taking care of his food and accommodation.
Shoko is still working hard this time, his life is still hopeful, he saves the money he earns, looking forward to buying the second car of his life.
The housekeeper of the Cao family, Gao Ma, is a kind person and an extremely intelligent woman, and she tells Shoko that he can let the money out because it is not safe to put it in his pocket.
But Shoko, who thinks of the little citizen, thinks that money is his own in himself.
So no matter how much Gao Ma tried to dissuade him, he still stubbornly developed in his own way, and finally unfortunately was extorted all the money under the stubbornness.
His second car purchase plan was also adrift.
The lucky moment of Xiangzi's second life is that after meeting the tiger girl, although the tiger girl looks like a tiger and a tiger, but this girl with a hot personality and a sharp work, in that era, may be the real Wang couple.
But unfortunately, Xiangzi did not feel for Tiger Girl, and in the end, under Tiger Girl's aggressive posture, Xiangzi only half pushed and half chose to compromise.
But after the compromise, Shoko did not live a down-to-earth life, because he did not see the advantages of tiger girls, he really did not like such a tiger-headed girl, and even felt that he was a person who ate soft rice, and he did not have the passionate attitude of the original work.
Later, misfortune finally came, because the tiger girl had difficulty giving birth, and Shoko had to save dozens of yuan in medical expenses, which finally led to the death of the tiger girl in childbirth.
When Shoko got rid of this marriage that she was not satisfied with, she always thought that she had regained her freedom and had the opportunity to choose, but he did not make the right choice.
When he met Xiaofuzi, who had a concubine and a sister, Shoko actually refused, because he was worried that Xiaofuzi's two younger brothers and her father would become a burden to him.
If Shoko rejects the marriage with Tiger Girl because she does not want to become a soft eater, it also proves that this young man has a bloody and fighting spirit, but when he refuses to marry XiaoFuzi, he is actually worried that he will have more burdens in the future, then this is a cowardly escape.
There are two kinds of tragedies in life: one is the reason for one's subjective choice, and the other is the objective factor.
Just like Shoko, although the tragedy of his life has its own objective reasons that are uncontrollable, among the objective reasons, more come from subjective factors.
If there is no blind impulse to pull a car at Xizhimen at the beginning, your first car will not be taken away; If he could listen to Gao Ma's advice and let the money out, then he would not lose this wealth; If you can live a down-to-earth life after marrying Tiger Girl, with Tiger Girl's help to yourself, your life will not be bad; If he can choose to marry Xiaofuzi, even if he needs to survive the difficult moments of the first few years, the future life will not be bad.
But unfortunately, he only wanted the best, but in the end, because of his cowardice and escape, he could only face the worst in desperation.
Many times a choice between our unintentional can determine the future life of the encounter, but we can not measure the right or wrong of their choices, most people are based on intuition, personality, by their own cognition to make a choice, but do not realize that their personality and cognition also have great problems.
Therefore, the fundamental reason for making your life better is to look at the current life from a higher perspective, so that you can make reasonable choices in most cases.
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