"He only cares about his car, his car can produce flapjacks and everything to eat, it is a universal field. This attitude made him only care about his own life, putting all the calamities behind him. ”
Shoko is a young coachman in Peiping who pulls cars for a living during turbulent times. Young and strong, he has a dream, and for this dream he works hard and saves money.
After 3 years, he finally realized his dream of owning his own car. But a few months later he lost his car...
Shoko is a goal-focused person, and he regards buying a car as a goal in life. Just put all your efforts on making money to buy a car, and put such a thing in your eyes, and work hard in this direction. If Shoko had been born in peacetime, he would have been able to do something.
But he was born in a turbulent era, his this is irrelevant, focusing on his personality is also doomed to his later setbacks.
Young Shoko is like a young man who has just entered the society, full of confidence and hope for life, with a single goal and dedication, and desperate to pay for his dreams. In the end, he was tempered by society and lost his heart.
Just bought a new car just a few months ago, because of a "lucky pulling car" Xiangzi and people with cars were caught by the soldiers on the mountain. People escape, cars are lost, and everything has to start all over again.
Shoko's mentality at this time was a bit broken. The person is still the same person, but the mentality is different. Lamenting the injustice and helplessness of fate, there is no way to adjust their mentality, and they only rely on the idea of buying a car to force themselves.
Step by step, Shoko loses his car because of a "psychological fluke" act. Starting from scratch again, he did not adjust his mentality to reflect well, but blindly paralyzed and suppressed his emotions, and it was not unusual for the tragedy to end...
In the face of setbacks and difficulties, external injuries are secondary, and what is important is the ability to regulate psychologically. If you can't break through the psychological barrier, slowly the heart knot will become bigger and bigger, making people become negative.
Shoko's affairs tell us that at any time we must pay attention to the current social environment and learn to relieve psychological problems.
Especially in the information age, knowing more about the news can prevent us from stepping on the pit; learning to regulate emotions can make us more calm and rational in dealing with problems. It's true that all roads lead to Rome, but tools and mindset are still important on the bumpy road to the top.