In life, there are times when there is a smooth wind and a smooth water, there are also times when the wind is against the water, and when the wind and water are smooth, it is not a skill, but when the wind is against the water, you can still think open, see through, and put down, that is rare and valuable.
When life is adversity, do 3 things well, in order to be able to quickly get out of the trough. The better the mentality, the bigger the pattern, and the blessing will come uninvited!
Don't panic when you encounter a sudden change
Life will always give us a little unexpected attack, we have no way to hide, only to face. When you encounter a sudden change, do not panic, you must learn to deal with it calmly and calmly. No matter how much this change hits you, you have to get out of it as soon as possible, and some things are predestined by Heaven and you must accept. The road ahead has to go, you have to be strong, you have to live a life later, you have to be brave.
The most feared thing in life is not a sudden change, but to face the change, do not know how to face it, panic, chaos, which will only make their situation worse. Life cannot withstand too many changes, let alone a slump after changes. In the face of change, you must learn to be calm, change is not the normal state of life, just an episode of life, after the past, in fact, there is nothing.
When encountering unpleasant things, do not get angry or complain
When you encounter something unpleasant, you may be unhappy, you will be angry in your heart, if at this time, you can control your emotions, do not get angry, do not complain, but somehow dissolve this unhappiness, then your mentality will become more and more peaceful, and your cultivation will slowly be improved.
People are like this, when you experience more, slowly, there are many things that will no longer disturb your mind, you will become more relaxed, because your cultivation has improved. At every stage of life, there will always be various problems, but the more you go to the back, the fewer and fewer that can make you angry. As a person, if you can not be angry, you will not complain, and if you can not complain, you will not complain, and slowly, there will be fewer and fewer things that are not going well, and the blessings will naturally come uninvited.
When being unjustifiably accused or slandered by others, do not argue or refute the other party
In this world, there are always some people who like to oppose you, and no matter how well you do, they will also make things difficult for you, accuse you, and even slander you. In the face of such a person, you don't need to argue or refute, the clean person is self-purifying, the turbid one is self-turbid, and the heavens are all in the eyes. If you choose to argue or refute, you may cause a commotion, jump into the Yellow River and can't wash it away, it is better to remain silent.
If someone else doesn't behave like a person, you don't need to learn from him, just let him go. If you are bitten by a mad dog, there is no need to bite back. As long as you do your duty and do things in a down-to-earth manner, those gossip will be shattered with time. Really fake can't be fake, fake real can't be, you care too much, you argue, then it will really be darker and darker, it is better to be generous, let them go!
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