Mrs. Wang has been criticized for a long time. The "villain role" that basically surrounds her is the destroyer of Bao Dai's marriage, the driving force behind Lin Daiyu's tragedy, and the creator of Jia Baoyu's life.
Readers will inevitably sigh, if Madame Wang can treat Lin Daiyu kindly, even if the Jia family still raids the house, Jia Baoyu may not go to the end of the road, take a Xue Baochao, and die a Lin Daiyu.
The evaluation of the character by its practical results is not objective. Madame Wang is not an evil person. She was just one of thousands of ordinary mothers, just like ordinary people.
She has her own views on Baochao and Daiyu, and she feels more empathy than the readers, only because she is a person in the bureau.
Is it wrong for Madame Wang not to like Lin Daiyu as a daughter-in-law? Nothing wrong with that!
Lin Daiyu is Jia Zheng's niece and the daughter of Lady Wang's sister-in-law Jia Min. Some people say that Madame Wang and Jia Min have a bad relationship, so that she does not like Lin Daiyu's statement that it is too small and childish.
Jia Min is the golden and noble Rongguo Gong Qianjin, standing at the top of everyone's boudoir. How could her upbringing be at odds with her sister-in-law! It is impossible to even be worse than three springs!
Lady Wang said decades later that Jia Min was still impressed and envious, and her dislike of Lin Daiyu had nothing to do with Jia Min.
Lin Daiyu first entered the Jia Mansion, and Lady Wang joined hands to take her and did not reject it. But as Lin Daiyu grew older, there were several things that made Madame Wang more and more cold to her.
First, Lin Daiyu was dust-free at the moment.
Dai Yu rejected Aunt Xue and Xue Baochao. Sending palace flowers not only offended the Zhou Rui family, but also did not appreciate Aunt Xue. The villains of the Zhou Rui family will definitely play right and wrong. Madame Wang listened partially and naturally had an opinion on Daiyu.
Sending palace flowers is a small thing, and it is also the epitome of Daiyu in Jia Province. And she satirized Grandma Li, which was bound to reach Madame Wang's ears. In the long run, it is normal to be disliked.
Second, Jia Baoyu was too dependent on Lin Daiyu.
They grew up together, ate and lived together, and were intimate. Growing up is also inseparable.
Jia Baoyu had no bottom line in front of Lin Daiyu and was completely suppressed. Madame Wang looked how happy she was in her eyes!
Third, Jia Mu intends to marry Bao Dai.
Rather than saying that Madame Wang did not like Lin Daiyu in front, it was better to say that her opinion of Jia Mu was greater.
Jia Mu has controlled Jia Baoyu since childhood and arranged everything for him. Madame Wang's mother could not get her hands in, and she could not help but feel resentment.
Especially after the death of the eldest son Jia Zhu, Jia Baoyu became all the sustenance of Lady Wang, but was "controlled" by Jia Mu. She has long been "angry and dare not speak out" to her mother-in-law.
Jia Mu intended Lin Daiyu to make Jia Baoyu a daughter-in-law. Lady Wang is supported by Jia Mu and she wants to oppose.
Fourth, Lin Daiyu's "conditions" were inferior to Xue Baochao's.
Mrs. Wang is a family member and a mother. The situation in Rong Guofu, Jia Baoyu's conditions she knew all.
Rong Guofu was completely poor, and Jia Baoyu was not a material for self-reliance and self-reliance. The wealth she can leave for Jia Baoyu in the future is extremely limited.
Lin Daiyu also has nothing, is it difficult for them to drink the northwest wind in the future?
The Xue family had a business, and when they became related to Xue Baochao, they formed an iron triangle between the Jia family, the Xue family, and the Wang family. When the three companies develop together, there will be no need to worry about Jia Baoyu's future. As for the long-term of the Jia family, Madame Wang could not imagine or care.
Madame Wang is the daughter of the Wang family, and the daughters raised by the Wang family are aggressive. They are like "mother locusts" who are trained and married together, and they must protect the interests of the royal family.
Behind Jin Yuliang's marriage, there are the Wang family's obvious ambitions against the Jia family. Madame Wang subtly did not exclude Jia Baoyu from relying on her mother's family in the future.
She didn't trust anyone, only her mother's family. Xue Baochao was far more suitable than Lin Daiyu in her heart.
Fifth, Xue Baochao's advantages!
Xue Baochao's learning is not worse than Lin Daiyu's, and his personality is even more generous, his knowledge is broad, he is more knowledgeable about books and etiquette, and he is suitable for advancing and retreating. Couldn't fault being a daughter-in-law.
Xue Baochao was in good health and did not have to worry about dying in the future, so that Jia Baoyu became a "widower".
Although the ancients continued to string a lot, the quality was generally not as good as the original. Lady Xing and You Shi are living examples.
In comparison, Xue Baochao is also better than Lin Daiyu, and she is a good daughter-in-law with many children and many blessings.
Sixth, Jia Baoyu's "love" is not important.
Madame Wang had already seen that Bao Dai and Bao Dai had an affair. This was the place where she couldn't accept Lin Daiyu the most.
At that time, people were "the fate of parents". Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's free love is an unscrupulous and shameless "untalented thing", and even a family scandal!
This is such an "ugly thing" that makes the Jia family disgraced and jia Baoyu may be discredited, Madame Wang does not think that her son is responsible, it must be Lin Daiyu who seduced Jia Baoyu, she is the "fox spirit"!
From Madame Wang's point of view, her opposition to Bao Dai's marriage is reasonable and reasonable. There is no "malice"!
She is like countless mothers-in-law who do not like the girlfriends brought back by their sons, and like the "daughter-in-law" they look up to. She will reject it because she doesn't like it. It can also lead to many tragedies.
Jiao Zhongqing's mother in "Peacock Southeast Flying" and Lu You's mother in "Phoenix" are the prototypes of Madame Wang. They are "evil mothers-in-law", but they cannot be said to be bad people. They are also negative characters, which is a positive image of the heroine.
In fact, whether it is Mrs. Wang or other mothers who choose differently from their sons, they are all mothers, but they have different positions!
Madame Wang did not want to see Lin Daiyu, but only colded her, and did not hurt her openly and secretly. She just managed to stop the development of Bao Dai's marriage, and in the end, she did not succeed, or let Bao Dai and the two get engaged.
The tragedy that caused Lin Daiyu and Bao Dai was actually the environmental impact of the Jia family's internal and external troubles in the last days.
Of course, Madame Wang's opposition to Lin Daiyu's health was indeed a key factor in her death before she was eighteen years old.
Lin Daiyu's ability to bear it is too low and she is also responsible. If you can't be pressured by others, you will collapse.
Madame Wang is just a mother, not a bad person!
Wen | Junji Yakan Red Chamber
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