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The TV series "There is a home for you" is being broadcast, ren Chengwei played "Jiang Wanxiang", once again stood in the center of the stage, with strength to prove his acting skills again.
From running the dragon set to the protagonist, he spent five years, experiencing confusion, lows...
Fortunately, with the company of his wife Huang Lei, he went from college to life, and after 29 years of feelings, he is still as loving as ever.
Today we're going to pick up those things they did back then.
Ren Chengwei was born in May 1970 in Hulin City, Jixi City, Heilongjiang Province, to an ordinary family in a county-level city
A month before he was born, an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang, also gave birth to a girl named Huang Lei.
Compared with Huang Lei, Ren Chengwei's childhood was much more tragic. His father, who had always been selfless and dedicated, died when he was a child, and he was attached to his mother.
As the saying goes, the children of poor families have long been in charge, which is also a kind of helplessness, and they are forced by life.
In this way, the sensible Ren Chengwei tried to do everything well, even when facing the examination, he also had to think about it, in order to save some tuition.
Originally wanted to take the Chinese opera examination, he was admitted to the theater, which made him depressed for several days, because Shanghai is more expensive to study.
In 1989, 19-year-old Ren Chengwei walked into the school door of the play, and there was a classmate in Heilongjiang named Huang Lei.
At first, the two were not familiar.
Huang Lei, from the metropolis, simply did not look up to Ren Chengwei, who was "old hated by the earth".
In the 1990s, when the Internet was not as developed as it is now, there were almost no mobile phones, and it was even more luxurious to make a phone call, most of which were letters.
Therefore, two "fellow countrymen" in other places, due to familysickness, naturally the two exchanged more, one after another, the first semester of their love story began.
Huang Lei: "The two of us are more simple, and we are more lonely in Shanghai, and sometimes we will chat." He talked about things in his family, including his father, which I thought was particularly legendary. ”
Ren Chengwei: "I think she is different from all girls, whether she looks or from a person, speech and behavior, I think she is more simple, introverted, this is my bottom line to find a partner, she has it, then I am relatively young, there is an impulse ..."
In this way, homesickness and love are intertwined, and the two fall in love.
At that time, the mind was not as open as it is now, and all the people on the college campus were against falling in love. When their little bud of love had just sprouted, they were hit in the head.
The class teacher and the counselor talked to them separately, forbidding them to fall in love, and even the teacher said to them, it is not appropriate for the two of you to be together, one is from the county, the other is from the metropolis, it is impossible.
The teacher said these words, in fact, there is no mistake, after all, I have seen too much, the doorkeeper sometimes hates people for this word, for them instead of wasting feelings or it is better to say it bluntly, although the words are a little ugly.
Of course, the teacher will also find a high-sounding reason, such as delaying schoolwork.
Sometimes the teacher is also quite angry, because the two fall in love and do not obey discipline, even if the four years of college two results in the class is the best, and later after graduation, when faced with the selection of assigned jobs, because the teacher "stirred up trouble", the two did not find a suitable job, helplessly the two went to Beijing.
What made the teacher even more angry was that in the sophomore year, Ren Chengwei directly led Huang Lei back home, and at that time, the family did not take it seriously, thinking that it was just a joke, and in a few days they would find their mothers.
I wonder if you brought your girlfriend home when you were in college? Or take your boyfriend home? It does take a kind of courage.
Anyway, I can't do it, if I bring my boyfriend back, I guess I just kicked out by my dad, and it will be scary to think about... It is estimated to be a bloody storm.
At that time, the most popular gift was to knit sweaters, knit gloves, knit bibs, and Huang Lei also knitted a sweater for Ren Chengwei with one stitch and one stitch, which made Ren Chengwei happy to find the north, and saw his classmates showing off.
When the result was taken home, the mother felt that Cheng Wei's trachea was not good because it was a chicken heart collar, so she dismantled it and re-knitted a round neck, and the mother's temper was also straight enough.
But since then, Ren Chengwei has never worn it again, and Huang Lei has never knitted it for him again.
In order to send a gift to Huang Lei, Ren Chengwei also racked his heart.
On Huang Lei's birthday, Ren Chengwei used his own small gourd, personally wore 7 small holes on it to represent 70, and then tied it with a red rope, carved 4 moons to indicate April, and the last 6 suns, the following is written: Happy 20th birthday to Lei!
Although it is not much value, Huang Lei feels that this is the most special gift, which is still preserved.
As mentioned above, due to the teacher's turmoil, the two did not find suitable jobs after graduation, and had no choice but to go north to Beijing to seek development, but first it was more cruel than they thought.
Ren Chengwei entered the Beijing Youth Art Troupe, and Huang Lei entered the Beijing Experimental Art Troupe.
The following 5 years or so was dark for Ren Chengwei, and the five years were in the stage of running the dragon set; on the contrary, Huang Lei's career was relatively smooth and he was the protagonist of the group.
This has also created a situation of "strong women and weak men". It is conceivable that Ren Chengwei not only has to endure the pressure of his career, but also has to withstand the "gossip" of others.
It's a "challenge" for both of them, especially looking at the people around them, all of them are mixed up, and then looking at their own 9 square meters basement.
Ren Chengwei also had no bottom in his heart.
Huang Lei: "He himself is under a lot of pressure, my pressure is also very large, some people will say some very exciting, ugly words, Huang Lei, you dubbing, acting, but also have to raise your husband, thanks to ah." ”
Ren Chengwei: "During that time, our family's economic expenses were all supported by her, she got up early and was greedy, I was very unhappy in my heart, at that time, I was especially looking forward to having classmates come to me, and I was especially afraid of my classmates coming." ”
The more difficult the time, the more he saw the greatness of love, and in that most difficult time, Ren Chengwei also harvested love.
In 1996, Ren Chengwei really spent 9 yuan to marry Huang Lei home.
There were no wedding photos, no weddings, and even the parents did not come forward, that is, the two of them got the certificate and got married.
Later, my friends really felt that they couldn't stand it, so they invited them to a meal, and they were married.
Marrying his own daughter in this way, imagining Huang Lei's parents is also quite admirable.
"They said you two can do whatever you like, I was so poor that I was only 276 yuan4 a month, and I couldn't do too much."
There must be his father and his son, it is the support of both parents, that kind of fame and fortune, so that Ren Chengwei has been very touched in his heart, and later when the days were slightly better, Ren Chengwei spent 900 yuan to buy a pair of imported leather shoes for his father-in-law.
"We saw a pair of leather shoes that were particularly good, he said to buy a pair for your father, at that time 900 yuan was a sky-high price for us, I said no, it was too expensive, he said that he did not buy it every day, he did not hesitate to buy it."
You salute me a foot, I salute you a foot.
In this way, the two of them were very satisfied with the old people on both sides, although the days were difficult, but the family was happy.
Treat your own mother with more love than a child.
In 2011, the two children were also born, named: Ren Ge, nicknamed Jingle, taking the charismatic Gege.
In 2017, the second daughter was born, and now she is also a person with two small cotton jackets.
Huang Lei also shifted the focus of her work to her family and gradually gave up her career.
It also corresponds to that sentence: home and everything are happy, but also let Ren Chengwei have a turnaround in his career, and it is out of control.
Before acting in TV dramas, Ren Chengwei's main business was drama, although he had been running dragon sets in the years after graduation, he also had a certain influence a few years later, especially after cooperating with director Meng Jinghui, he became a pillar in the group.
The director circle also knows every actor very well, and after watching Ren Chengwei's performance, Lei Xianhe has been very satisfied.
Of course, most people must be dissatisfied, otherwise Ren Chengwei would have been on fire long ago. Because he is 1.85 meters tall, he is a bit tall, and it is difficult to play with the heroine, which is also an obvious drawback, but Lei Xianhe does not think so.
Before acting in "Snow Without a Trace", Ren Chengwei and Lei Xianhe also had a story.
At that time, Lei Xianhe was filming "Western Sun" to find Ren Chengwei, wanted him to star, and even signed the contract at that time, in order to show sincerity, the producers gave a deposit, and at that time it was not popular for the deposit.
At this time, Ren Chengwei also suddenly received a musical to rehearse in Japan, which caused a conflict of schedules.
At that time, Ren Chengwei still attached more importance to drama, for the TV series or second, after thinking twice, Ren Chengwei refused to star, and returned the deposit to the producer, which made the producer angry enough, leaving a sentence: Ren Chengwei, you can't do this. Then the head does not go back and leaves.
Later, still remembering this experience, Ren Chengwei was still full of apologies, saying that he was pursuing an ideal at that time, and he could give up everything for the ideal.
Thinking about it in another way, no matter who the producer is, it will be angry and it is estimated that he will never work with him again, but the truth is reversed again.
At the end of that year, when Director Lei told him that he wanted him to star in "Snow Without a Trace", Ren Chengwei stood there stupidly and did not speak for half a day.
Because he doesn't know anything is good? The situation last time had embarrassed him.
At that time, his wife Huang Lei was recording lines for "Western Sun", and overheard the dialogue between the producer and the director, which meant that the director wanted to use Ren Chengwei to shoot "Snow Without a Trace", but the producer was firmly opposed.
Such a situation is understood, and later Ren Chengwei called the producer, the specific content is of course unknown, but you can imagine it, I think it is quite interesting.
Later, there was Ren Chengwei's "Heavy Snow Without a Trace", in which he played "Fang Yulin" and played the image of an investigator to the fullest.
Ren Chengwei, who starred in a TV series for the first time, conquered the audience with his acting skills.
Later, there were "Love on the Edge of Life and Death", "Sleeping with the Enemy", "Sha Jiabang", "Above and Belowground", "Breaking the Ice", "Chu Han Contending", "Zhan Changsha", "Male Matchmaker", "Zhiqing Family", "War Drum Beat", "Wenzhou Two Families", "Surgical Storm", "Those Years, We Were Young", "Military Mission" with the popular "There is a home before you".
Today's Ren Chengwei, although he is not very popular, he also has his own place in the acting industry, of course, he also knows that behind his success there is also a woman's efforts.
In order to take care of the balance between family and career, after work, the phone is continuous, sometimes a dozen calls a day, and video, in order to let Huang Lei not worry.
Huang Lei, who sacrificed her career for her family, did not feel regretful, because she felt that it was worth it.
"Before, others said that I raised my husband, and now they say that my husband raised me haha, our children have brought good in recent years, I think it is worth it!"
Looking at Ren Chengwei's social platform, you will find that his body is full of fireworks, so real and natural.
Today's Ren Chengwei, the family has a wife, the daughter grows up healthily, the family is harmonious, and the career is successful, how can this not be a kind of happiness? I hope to see his wonderful performance in the future TV series.
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