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Preface
On the road of life, how many people can stay with their lovers for a lifetime?
Under the temptation of money and interests, how many people can stick to their original intentions?
In the entertainment industry, how many people can withstand the test of Vanity Fair and grow old with their partners?
Today, let's walk into the story of actor Ren Chengwei to see how he married a wife with 9 yuan, and how he adhered to his love vows after becoming famous, composing a touching love story.
Poor teenagers forge ahead
Ren Chengwei was born in Shanghai into a family of ordinary workers.
His father worked in a factory, and his mother was a housewife.
Although the life is poor, the family is happy.
Ren Chengwei and his brother often play in the factory where their father worked, and often play darts games together.
However, the sky is unpredictable.
When Ren Chengwei was 12 years old, his father died suddenly due to illness, leaving his mother alone to raise the child.
The family suddenly fell into trouble, and life became more and more difficult.
But it is precisely in such adversity that Ren Chengwei's character has become more resolute and brave.
He secretly decided that he must use knowledge to change his fate and let his mother live a good life.
In 1989, with his love for film performance, he was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Since then, he has devoted himself to his studies and research, and his grades have always been among the best.
The students went out to have fun in their spare time, but Ren Chengwei often studied hard in the library alone.
The hard work paid off, and he led the way with excellent results, winning a number of honors when he graduated.
The hand of the son sprouts love
The university campus is not only a place for Ren Chengwei to study, but also a place for him to meet love.
Huang Lei, who comes from a high-level family, was attracted by Ren Chengwei's talent and temperament from the first time she saw him.
Although the family backgrounds of the two are very different, Huang Lei fell in love with this poor student at first sight.
In the early days of dating, Huang Lei always tried every means to create opportunities to get close to Ren Chengwei.
learned that Ren Chengwei often didn't have enough to eat in order to save money, so she took the initiative to help him get a meal ticket and take him to the canteen to eat.
Seeing that he was thinly dressed, she bought him clothes to keep him warm.
A little bit of care makes the two young hearts closer and closer.
Huang Lei also often invites Ren Chengwei to go to the beach to relax together.
The sea breeze is slow, the sun is setting, Ren Chengwei hugged his beloved girl tightly, and his friends saw it in their eyes, and they all sighed that he had found the treasure of life.
Feelings are heating up quietly, and shy love sprouts in my heart.
In the four years of college, with the sound of Langlang's reading, the flower of love gradually bloomed in the hearts of the two.
The oath of nine dollars has been kept together for seven years
After graduating from university, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei came to Beijing to work hard.
However, the cruelty of reality is far beyond their imagination.
has no background and no connections, Ren Chengwei runs into walls everywhere when looking for a job, and it is difficult to even get the opportunity to do group performances.
But for the dream of being an actor, he gritted his teeth and persevered.
The two live in a small basement in an urban village, measuring only nine square meters.
In addition to going to the toilet, I spend almost all day in this enclosed, dark space.
The damp walls, the dim lighting, the rudimentary furniture, all of them reminded them of how difficult life can be.
In this way, they depended on each other in this simple hut for seven years.
In the past seven years, Ren Chengwei has almost no income, and even relies on Huang Lei to help pay the rent.
Faced with the weight of reality, he wanted to give up several times, but seeing Huang Lei's firm eyes, he regained his courage.
Seven years of long-distance love has made Huang Lei understand that she is inseparable from the man next to her.
No matter how hard life is, as long as there is love, you can light up each other's lives.
So, after seven years of love, she proposed to Ren Chengwei.
However, at this time, Ren Chengwei was shy in his pocket, and it was difficult to even buy a ring.
Huang Lei said: "I don't need a wedding, as long as I have you, it's enough." "
Ren Chengwei looked at her affectionately, took out the only nine yuan from his pocket, took her hand, and walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau.
In this way, in a simple wedding, they made a vow to stay together for the rest of their lives.
We are in the same boat through thick and thin, and we have loved each other so far
After starting a family, Ren Chengwei's career still did not improve.
In order to make a living, he traveled from place to place, but was often met with failure and humiliation.
Whenever he returned home discouraged, it was Huang Lei who accepted him with a warm embrace and encouraged him with firm words.
With the selfless support of his wife, Ren Chengwei regained his confidence and continued to work hard for his dreams.
In 2001, a turning point came.
Ren Chengwei won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor with his superb acting skills in "Snow Without a Trace", and has since become famous.
Subsequently, he starred in many excellent works such as "Long March" and "Love on the Edge of Life and Death", and his career reached its peak.
However, whether it is fame and fortune or the stars holding the moon, Ren Chengwei has never been disturbed by the voices of the outside world.
The most important thing for him is to go home and share the time with his wife, not to be in the spotlight.
After becoming famous, Ren Chengwei always remembered his love vows with his wife.
The outside world once questioned his practice of "marrying a wife for nine yuan", but he handled it calmly.
In his opinion, Jiuyuan not only witnessed his love with Huang Lei, but also condensed each other's commitment.
Money never measures love, whether poor or rich, he will spend the rest of his life hand in hand with his wife.
In 2003, with the take-off of his career, Ren Chengwei bought a real estate in Beijing to welcome the birth of his beloved daughter.
Since then, they have bid farewell to the damp and dark basement and started a warm and sweet family life of three.
In order to better take care of the family, his wife Huang Lei took the initiative to give up her acting career and turned to dubbing work behind the scenes.
Ren Chengwei poured all his love into his wife and daughter.
With the birth of the second daughter, the family is even more happy.
Although he is busy with work, as long as he is free, Ren Chengwei always finds time to spend time with his wife and children.
Looking at his wife's happy smile and listening to his daughter's cheerful laughter, he felt more satisfied than ever.
Today, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei have been together for 26 years.
Looking back on the 26 years of ups and downs, there are bitter and sweet, crying and laughing.
But no matter how the years change, their love is always as solid as a rock, difficulties make them cherish each other more, and experience makes them understand the true meaning of love more.
In the eyes of outsiders, they may be just an ordinary couple, but their love is so touching that it makes people awe-inspired.
epilogue
Ren Chengwei's story is not only the history of an actor's fame, but also a long-distance love run.
From getting married for 9 yuan, to the promise of not paying back 9 yuan, to having a happy family, he used perseverance and perseverance to interpret the most touching appearance of love.
In the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, Ren Chengwei did not get lost, but always insisted on himself and took care of his love and marriage with sincerity.
This spirit of "starting from the beginning to the end" is worth learning from each of us.
Love is never a momentary passion, but a long-term companionship and waiting.
Ren Chengwei's story tells us: as long as we stick to our hearts and cherish the people in front of us, we will definitely be able to reap happiness and contentment.
May everyone find their own love and protect it with their lives.